{"id":107057,"date":"2016-08-03T06:41:02","date_gmt":"2016-08-03T04:41:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2016\/08\/03\/sem-predobra-zanj\/"},"modified":"2016-08-11T14:26:03","modified_gmt":"2016-08-11T12:26:03","slug":"sem-predobra-zanj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/aktualno\/mnenja\/sem-predobra-zanj\/","title":{"rendered":"Sem predobra zanj?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Ste \u017ee kdaj sli\u0161ali ve\u010djo neumnost kot je to? Problem zanj je v tem, da sem preve\u010d popolna. Preve\u010d samozavestna, preve\u010d samostojna, preve\u010d zabavna, preve\u010d pametna, preve\u010d sposobna, preve\u010d dru\u017eabna, predobra, preve\u010d prijazna, preve\u010d ljube\u010da, preve\u010d predana. Kaj pa \u010de je problem mogo\u010de v njem, ker je premalo samozavesten, premalo samostojen, premalo zabaven, ni dovolj zabaven, ni dovolj pameten, sposoben, dru\u017eaben, prijazen, ljube\u010d in predan?<\/p>\n

Mi lahko prosim nekdo pove, kako naj bom za odtenek bolj dolgo\u010dasna, zategnjena, manj inteligentna, spro\u0161\u010dena, uspe\u0161na in ljube\u010da, da bom tako ustrezala kriterijem teh “mo\u0161kih”, ki so po mojem mnenju produkt tega, da se absolutno predolgo dr\u017eijo mame za krilo. Ker jim je vse prineseno na pladnju se no\u010dejo za ni\u010d ve\u010d potruditi. Ne da se jim. Ampak ker se to, da so leni ne sli\u0161i ravno lepo, kot izgovor raje re\u010dejo, da s tak\u0161no \u017eensko preprosto ne morejo biti. Problem je torej v resnici v meni, ne v njem.<\/p>\n

Seveda je la\u017eje drugega kriviti za svoje te\u017eave, kot pa iti v akcijo, kon\u010dno pokazati, da si mo\u0161ki in stvari vzeti v svoje roke. Se ne ustra\u0161iti \u017eenske, ki bi bila tvoj enakovreden partner, ne tiha mi\u0161ka, poni\u017ena slu\u017eabnica brez prava govora, nekdo, ki bi cele dneve sedel doma, te \u010dakal s kosilom na mizi in prikimaval vsemu, kar re\u010de\u0161. Kaj se mora zgoditi, da bodo mo\u0161ki kon\u010dno spet stvari vzeli v svoje roke, prepoznali dobro \u017eensko in jo zagrabili z vsemu \u0161tirimi, pa \u010deprav jih je mogo\u010de tega strah. Takega mo\u0161kega si \u017eeli vsaka \u017eenska. Ja, popolnega mo\u0161kega. Priznam!<\/p>\n

Zakaj bi si kdorkoli \u017eelel kaj manj kot to, pristal na kaj manj kot popolnega partnerja? Vsak si zaslu\u017ei ob sebi \u010dudovitega \u010dloveka, najbolj\u0161ega, kar si ga lahko zamisli. \u010cloveka, ki bo vedno ob tebi, na katerega se bo\u0161 lahko vedno zanesla, ki se s tabo hvalil pred prijatelji, bo ponosen na to, da si uspe\u0161na, da zna\u0161 razmi\u0161ljati s svojo glavo, ki ti bo pustil svobodo in bo cenil to, da si samostojna \u017eenska, ki sledi svojim ciljem, po\u010dne stvari, ki jo veselijo, ohranja stike s prijatelji, a je hkrati samosvoj, stabilen \u010dlovek tudi on. Mo\u0161ki, ki ve kaj ho\u010de in ga ni strah se za to potruditi, ki je zrel, samostojen, sposoben, ki se ne dr\u017ei mame za krilo in ki \u017eivi svoje \u017eivljenje natanko tako kot ho\u010de in te \u017eeli v njem imeti ob sebi. Brez kompromisov, omahovanja, dvomov. Ho\u010de in te ima!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

V\u010dasih je bil najpogostej\u0161i mo\u0161ki izgovor, zakaj si ne \u017eeli zveze s tabo, ker je problem v njem ne v tebi. Danes to zveni nekoliko druga\u010de. Danes razlog pojasnijo takole: “Popolna si. Si vse, kar bi si mo\u0161ki \u017eelel. Predobra si zame.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1605],"tags":[2437,2843,5319,1435],"source":[2582,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nSem predobra zanj? - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/aktualno\/mnenja\/sem-predobra-zanj\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Sem predobra zanj? - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"V\u010dasih je bil najpogostej\u0161i mo\u0161ki izgovor, zakaj si ne \u017eeli zveze s tabo, ker je problem v njem ne v tebi. Danes to zveni nekoliko druga\u010de. 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