{"id":10827,"date":"2016-01-09T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2016-01-09T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/01\/09\/kdaj-je-cas-za-skupno-selitev\/"},"modified":"2016-01-09T08:00:00","modified_gmt":"2016-01-09T07:00:00","slug":"kdaj-je-cas-za-skupno-selitev","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kdaj-je-cas-za-skupno-selitev\/","title":{"rendered":"Kdaj je \u010das za skupno selitev?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Photoxpress_8414104_01.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Photoxpress_8414104_01-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Photoxpress_8414104_01.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>S selitvijo v skupno stanovanje bosa nadgradila vajino zvezo (Photoxpress)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Selitev v skupno stanovanje je velik in pomemben korak v razmerju. To pomeni, da sta pripravljena na resnej\u0161o zvezo in vidita v njen perspektivo in prihodnosti. In \u010de so morda \u017eenske nekoliko hitreje pripravljene na ta korak, pa mo\u0161ke pogosto stiska v grlu, ko nekdo omeni, da bi morali svoje samsko gnezdece zamenjati za napol dru\u017einsko \u017eivljenje. \u010ce si tudi ti eden od teh in se ti zdi, da tvoje dekle namiguje in ti daje znake ali pa ti je celo jasno povedala, da se \u017eeli preseliti v skupno stanovanje, preberi nadaljevanje \u010dlanka. Izvedel bo\u0161, katere zadeve morata pred skupno selitvijo razjasniti in tudi, kako kar najbolj slo\u017eno in nestresno pre\u017eivljati skupno \u017eivljenje.<\/p>\n<h2>Kako ve\u0161, da je pripravljena na skupno \u017eivljenje?<\/h2>\n<p>\u010ce ima\u0161 sre\u010do, ti skritih namigov in znakov ne bo treba iskati, temve\u010d ti je tvoja partnerka kar naravnost povedala, da \u017eeli vajino vezo nadgraditi tudi s selitvijo v skupno stanovanje. No, \u010de pa temu ni tako, pa mora\u0161 biti pozoren na dolo\u010dene znake. \u010ce so se na primer obdobja, ko prespi pri tebi, razvlekla z ene no\u010di na cel vikend, potem je lahko to pokazatelj tega, da se v vajinem razmerju po\u010duti dobro (in to je seveda odli\u010dno), da ji tvoja bli\u017eina prija (tudi to je odli\u010dno) in da rada kar najve\u010d \u010dasa pre\u017eivi s tabo. Se je morda tvoja kopalnica spremenila v dekli\u0161ko, saj je na vseh poli\u010dkah in v vseh omarah mogo\u010de najti kaj njenega, od parfumov, vlo\u017ekov, tamponov do li\u010dil, britvic za noge in sponk za lase? Ali pa je morda okupirala zgornji predal v predalniku v spalnici in ga napolnila s spodnjim perilom in pi\u017eamami? Vse to so lahko poskusi, s katerimi \u017eeli preveriti, kako se na pove\u010dano stopnjo intimnosti odziva\u0161 ti \u2013 ali te ob tem grabi panika ali pa se ti vse zdi precej normalno in celo prijetno.<\/p>\n<h2>Razlogi za skupno \u017eivljenje naj bodo pravi<\/h2>\n<p>\u010ce in ko si prepoznal znake, s katerimi ti sporo\u010da, da si \u017eeli skupnega \u017eivljenja, je \u010das, da o tem razmisli\u0161 tudi sam. Zapomni si, da morajo biti razlogi pravi. To, da si bo\u0161 s tem zagotovil dokaj redno spolnost ali dejstvo, da se ti ne ljubi ve\u010d prati perila in kuhati, nikakor niso razlogi, zaradi katerih je smiselna skupna selitev. Razmisli, kako se ujemata, ali imata skupne interese in skupne poglede na dolo\u010dene stvari in podobno. Vsekakor pa mora biti pomembno merilo tudi, ali si skupnega \u017eivljenja \u017eeli\u0161. \u010ce se namerava\u0161 v to prisiliti le zato, ker je ne \u017eeli\u0161 prizadeti, bo\u0161 ob te\u017eave tr\u010dil kaj kmalu, oba pa bosta tudi bolj prizadeta, kot bi bila, \u010de se eden od vaju v skupnem \u017eivljenju pa\u010d ne vidi.<\/p>\n<h2>Ne pozabita na odkrit in temeljit pogovor<\/h2>\n<p>Preden se odlo\u010dita za ta korak, je neobhodno, da se o nekaterih stvareh pogovorita brez dlake na jeziku. Skupno \u017eivljenje namre\u010d prinese tudi nekatera povsem prakti\u010dna vpra\u0161anja. Bosta stro\u0161ke pla\u010devala oba? Kak\u0161no bo razmerje deljenja pla\u010devanja stro\u0161kov? Kdo bo kupoval hrano? Bosta imela skupni fond, v katerega bosta prispevala vsak enako vsoto ali oba isti dele\u017e od pla\u010de? Kako si bosta razdelila gospodinjska opravila? Morata kupiti kak\u0161ne ve\u010dje kose pohi\u0161tva? Kdo jih bo kupil? Kaj se bo z njimi zgodilo, \u010de se razideta? Vse to so morda vpra\u0161anja, ki se ti sedaj niti ne zdijo bistvena, vendar vama lahko olaj\u0161ajo in prihranijo marsikateri prepir glede pomivanja posode in praznega hladilnika. Poleg tega pa so lahko tudi dober pokazatelj, ali je skupna selitev sploh smiselna. \u010ce se bosta na smrt sprla \u017ee ob pogovoru, ki vklju\u010duje na\u010delna vpra\u0161anja, predstavljaj si potem, kak\u0161en prepir bi nastal, \u010de bi se katera od teh stvari tudi dejansko zgodila. Si pripravljen na to?<\/p>\n<h2>Kako se izogniti dolgo\u010dasju?<\/h2>\n<p>Skupno \u017eivljenje lahko poleg lepih in pozitivnih stvari prinese tudi potencialne nevarnosti. Zgodi se lahko, da se drug za drugega ni\u010d ve\u010d ne potrudita, postaneta apati\u010dna in ve\u010dino \u010dasa pre\u017eivljata pred televizijskim zaslonom. Vse to lahko vodi celo do razpada zveze. Da bi se temu izognila, so dovolj \u017ee majhna, a sladka presene\u010denja. Pripravi ji zajtrk v postelji ali jo preseneti z romanti\u010dno ve\u010derjo ob sve\u010dah, za sprostitev pa jo nato razvajaj \u0161e v pene\u010di kopeli in videl bo\u0161, kako malo je treba, da vneseta v razmerje tisti kan\u010dek dra\u017eljivosti, ki je potrebna, da ne postaneta vsega naveli\u010dana. Pomembno pa je tudi, da se ne prisesata drug na drugega, temve\u010d si pustita dihati. Ohrani svoje hobije iz samskih dni ter ne pre\u017eivljajta vseh trenutkov skupaj. Privo\u0161\u010di si ob\u010dasne mo\u0161ke ve\u010dere in jo vzpodbujaj, da si tudi ona privo\u0161\u010di ve\u010dere s prijateljicami. Z neprestanim ti\u010danjem skupaj si bosta \u0161la po dolo\u010denem \u010dasu namre\u010d \u017ee hudo na \u017eivce, od tam pa je le majhen korak do stanja, ko se ne bosta mogla ve\u010d gledati.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Skupno \u017eivljenje je pomemben korak v razmerju. 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