{"id":10885,"date":"2015-12-31T08:42:00","date_gmt":"2015-12-31T07:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/12\/31\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/"},"modified":"2015-12-31T08:42:00","modified_gmt":"2015-12-31T07:42:00","slug":"preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/","title":{"rendered":"PREVERI: Si mogo\u010de mamin sin\u010dek?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n

\n\t\t\t\t\t
foto:Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Kaj pomeni biti mamin sin\u010dek?<\/h2>\n

Pomislimo, kaj pomeni biti \u201cmamin sin\u201d. Nestrokovno povedano je to mo\u0161ki, ki je pretirano vezan za svojo mater in ima pomanjkanje mo\u0161kih interesov. Normalen, zdrav odnos med mo\u0161kim in njegovo materjo bi moral biti tak\u0161en: mo\u0161ki mora spo\u0161tovati svojo mati, nenazadnje je to oseba, ki te je spravila na svet, trpela tvoje dretje, prena\u0161ala tvoje nezrelo obna\u0161anje skozi puberteto \u2013 \u010de omenimo samo nekaj glavnih to\u010dk. Zate je kuhala (verjetno to vsaj ob\u010dasno \u0161e vedno po\u010dne), \u010distila, skrbela zate finan\u010dno in \u010dustveno ter vse ostalo, za kar ji mora\u0161 biti hvale\u017een. Dobra mati vzgoji svojega sina tako, da postane neodvisen, odgovoren in da zna samostojno poskrbeti zase. Dokler popkovnica med materjo in sinom ni prerezana, bo sin ostal <\/span>mamin sin\u010dek<\/span> in nikoli ne bo povsem zrela oseba.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kak\u0161en je mamin sin\u010dek?<\/h2>\n

Ni nujno, da so vsi <\/span>mamini sin\u010dki<\/span> jokice. Pogosto so celo visoki, \u010dokati in mo\u010dni tipi mo\u0161kih. Zato se ne prepri\u010duj, da \u010de lahko dvigne\u0161 50 kil v fitnessu, ne more\u0161 biti <\/span>mamin sin\u010dek<\/span>. Kajti to je psiholo\u0161ka zna\u010dilnost, ki je skupaj s tabo zrasla iz tvojega odnosa s star\u0161i. \u010ce se zave\u0161 svoje odvisnosti od matere, si \u017ee na pol poti, da se iztrga\u0161 iz njenega varnega objema. Prav tako se mora\u0161 nau\u010diti prepoznati, kdaj je mati tista, ki te ne pusti odleteti in te s \u010dustvenim izsiljevanjem dr\u017ei blizu sebe. V obeh primerih bo lo\u010ditev, ki naj bi se v \u010dasu pubertete odvila zelo po\u010dasi in postopoma, v kasnej\u0161i starosti bole\u010da, vendar je to edina pot, \u010de s svojimi bodo\u010dimi partnerkami \u017eeli\u0161 imeti in ohraniti normalen, zdrav \u010dustveni odnos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vkolikor v svojem razmerju opa\u017ea\u0161 sam, ali pa te morda opozarja tvoja partnerka, da preve\u010d pogosto pomisli\u0161 na svojo mati, ali partnerko celo zavedno ali podzavestno primerja\u0161 z njo (na\u010din kuhanja, obla\u010denja, govorjenja, obna\u0161anja), bodi previden. Nikoli se ni odve\u010d samoanalizirati in ugotoviti, od kod izvirajo tak\u0161ne misli. Mogo\u010de si <\/span>mamin sin\u010dek<\/span>, pa si tega ne \u017eeli\u0161, oziroma ne upa\u0161 priznati. Naredi prvi korak, bodi pogumen, bodi mo\u0161ki in doka\u017ei, da se lahko re\u0161i\u0161 tega psiholo\u0161kega problema odvisnosti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mama za vedno \u017eeli sin\u010dka<\/h2>\n

Vse pogostej\u0161i so primeri, ko mati ne \u017eeli prerezati popkovnice, ker \u017eeli, da njen sin za vekomaj ostane njen mali dojen\u010dek, ali pa je ravno ta dojen\u010dek tako povezan z mamico, da si \u017eeli, da bi skrbela zanj do konca \u017eivljenja. Tak\u0161ni <\/span>mamini sin\u010dki<\/span> v odrasli dobi postanejo zmedeni v svojih razmerjih z \u017eenskami. Njihovi miselni koncepti ustvarjajo probleme med njimi in bodo\u010dimi soprogami ali dekleti. Ponavadi je tako, da se de\u010dek v \u010dasu pubertete bolj opira na pomembno mo\u0161ko kot \u017eensko osebo \u2013 v ve\u010dini primerov je to o\u010de, ki mu slu\u017ei kot model za \u017eivljenjsko usmeritev. V \u010dasu pubertete se de\u010dek levi v mo\u0161kega in pridobiva mo\u0161ke zna\u010dilnosti. Toda nekateri mo\u0161ki v \u010dasu odra\u0161\u010danja nikoli ne prenehajo biti pod vplivom svoje matere. Razlog temu je lahko tudi \u010dustvena ali fizi\u010dna odsotnost o\u010deta \/ pomembne mo\u0161ke figure.
\n<\/span><\/p>\n

O\u010de kot model za mo\u0161kost<\/h2>\n

Idealno bi bilo, da se v \u010dasu najstni\u0161tva fantek iztrga iz maminega objema , njenega vpliva in varnosti ter za\u010dne pod o\u010detovim vplivom raziskovati bolj \u201cnevarno\u201d \u017eivljenje. Kot tradicionalne o\u010de-sin mo\u0161ke vloge smatramo delo z orodjem v gara\u017ei, popravljanje tehni\u010dnih predmetov, ribolov, interes do \u0161porta, avtomobilov, kampiranja in podobno. De\u010dek tako do\u017eivlja \u201cmo\u0161ko\u201d \u017eivljenje, ki mu postaja zgled in ga spodbuja v \u017eelji za neodvisnostjo in mo\u017eatostjo. Tukaj pa nikakor ne trdimo, da bo de\u010dek, ki u\u017eiva v kuhanju z mamico in nima interesa do kampiranja, pozneje postal <\/span>mamin sin\u010dek<\/span> in ga je pod prisilo potrebno vpisati med skavte.
\n<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Preveri, ali pri sebi opa\u017ea\u0161 nezdravo, pretirano navezanost na mater, oziroma ali te mogo\u010de mati ne pusti biti odrasel mo\u0161ki.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1091],"tags":[2232,1407],"source":[1518,1540,1529],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nPREVERI: Si mogo\u010de mamin sin\u010dek? - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"PREVERI: Si mogo\u010de mamin sin\u010dek? - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Preveri, ali pri sebi opa\u017ea\u0161 nezdravo, pretirano navezanost na mater, oziroma ali te mogo\u010de mati ne pusti biti odrasel mo\u0161ki.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2015-12-31T07:42:00+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2016\/03\/thinkstockphotos-520624405.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"1733\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"1733\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"hudo\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@hudo_si\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@hudo_si\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"hudo\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minute\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"hudo\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707\"},\"headline\":\"PREVERI: Si mogo\u010de mamin sin\u010dek?\",\"datePublished\":\"2015-12-31T07:42:00+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2015-12-31T07:42:00+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/\"},\"wordCount\":676,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization\"},\"keywords\":[\"dru\u017einski odnosi\",\"materinstvo\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Lifestyle\"],\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/\",\"name\":\"PREVERI: Si mogo\u010de mamin sin\u010dek? - Hudo Slovenija\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2015-12-31T07:42:00+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2015-12-31T07:42:00+00:00\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"PREVERI: Si mogo\u010de mamin sin\u010dek?\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/\",\"name\":\"Hudo Slovenija\",\"description\":\"Vse novice iz Slovenije in sveta\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":\"required name=search_term_string\"}],\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization\",\"name\":\"VSN Media\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/hudo-app-2.png\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/hudo-app-2.png\",\"width\":2185,\"height\":2167,\"caption\":\"VSN Media\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\"},\"sameAs\":[\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si\",\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hudo_si\"]},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707\",\"name\":\"hudo\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c4ca25fa72cace7a696b52ff5db9e095?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c4ca25fa72cace7a696b52ff5db9e095?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"hudo\"},\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/author\/hudo\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"PREVERI: Si mogo\u010de mamin sin\u010dek? - Hudo Slovenija","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/","og_locale":"sl_SI","og_type":"article","og_title":"PREVERI: Si mogo\u010de mamin sin\u010dek? - Hudo Slovenija","og_description":"Preveri, ali pri sebi opa\u017ea\u0161 nezdravo, pretirano navezanost na mater, oziroma ali te mogo\u010de mati ne pusti biti odrasel mo\u0161ki.","og_url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/","og_site_name":"Hudo Slovenija","article_publisher":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si","article_published_time":"2015-12-31T07:42:00+00:00","og_image":[{"width":1733,"height":1733,"url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2016\/03\/thinkstockphotos-520624405.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"hudo","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_creator":"@hudo_si","twitter_site":"@hudo_si","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"hudo","Est. reading time":"3 minute"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/"},"author":{"name":"hudo","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707"},"headline":"PREVERI: Si mogo\u010de mamin sin\u010dek?","datePublished":"2015-12-31T07:42:00+00:00","dateModified":"2015-12-31T07:42:00+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/"},"wordCount":676,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization"},"keywords":["dru\u017einski odnosi","materinstvo"],"articleSection":["Lifestyle"],"inLanguage":"sl-SI"},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/","url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/","name":"PREVERI: Si mogo\u010de mamin sin\u010dek? - Hudo Slovenija","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#website"},"datePublished":"2015-12-31T07:42:00+00:00","dateModified":"2015-12-31T07:42:00+00:00","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"sl-SI","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/preveri-si-mogoce-mamin-sincek\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"PREVERI: Si mogo\u010de mamin sin\u010dek?"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#website","url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/","name":"Hudo Slovenija","description":"Vse novice iz Slovenije in sveta","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":"required name=search_term_string"}],"inLanguage":"sl-SI"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization","name":"VSN Media","url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"sl-SI","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/hudo-app-2.png","contentUrl":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/hudo-app-2.png","width":2185,"height":2167,"caption":"VSN Media"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"},"sameAs":["https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si","https:\/\/twitter.com\/hudo_si"]},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707","name":"hudo","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"sl-SI","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c4ca25fa72cace7a696b52ff5db9e095?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c4ca25fa72cace7a696b52ff5db9e095?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"hudo"},"url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/author\/hudo\/"}]}},"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10885"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10885"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10885\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10885"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10885"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10885"},{"taxonomy":"source","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/source?post=10885"},{"taxonomy":"supertag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/supertag?post=10885"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}