{"id":110082,"date":"2016-08-08T05:03:00","date_gmt":"2016-08-08T03:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2016\/08\/08\/kako-ga-udomaciti\/"},"modified":"2016-08-17T14:15:08","modified_gmt":"2016-08-17T12:15:08","slug":"kako-ga-udomaciti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/kako-ga-udomaciti\/","title":{"rendered":"Kako ga udoma\u010diti?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Seveda tu pa tam najdemo mo\u0161ke gospodinje, ki pomagajo \u017eenski pri hi\u0161nih opravilih. Kuhajo, \u010distijo, pospravljajo, nekateri tudi likajo. Vendar je takih, za nekatere \u017eenske tudi popolnih mo\u0161kih, malo. V dru\u017einah \u0161e vedno prevladuje nenapisano pravilo, da so \u017eenske tiste, ki opravljajo ve\u010dino hi\u0161nih opravil, medtem ko se jim mo\u0161ki izogibajo z razli\u010dnimi izgovori: da jim \u010di\u0161\u010denje ni v\u0161e\u010d, da je kuhanje prete\u017eko, da jih brisanje prahu dolgo\u010dasi …<\/p>\n

Mo\u0161ki se ne \u010dutijo dovolj sposobne<\/h2>\n

Razlog za neznanje in nezmo\u017enost pomo\u010di v gospodinjstvu se skriva v vzgoji njegove mame, o\u010deta ter posebno starih star\u0161ev, ki mnenja o mo\u0161ki gospodinji nimajo najbolj\u0161ega. V zavest so jim namre\u010d vtisnili, da so vsa dela v gospodinjstvu obvezno rezervirana za \u017eenske, ne pa tega, da so dovolj sposobni, da lahko vsa ta dela opravijo tudi sami. Taka vzgoja traja od\u00a0rojstva in se nadaljuje tudi, ko ima njihov sin ali vnuk svojo dru\u017eino. To lahko opazi\u0161 \u017ee z grdimi pogledi, ko svojemu partnerju pred njegovimi sorodniki naro\u010di\u0161, naj ti pomaga kaj postoriti. Vendar je tu nekaj krivde tudi na \u017eenski, saj za mo\u0161ko gospodinjenje nima potrpljenja, zato vse prej opravi sama.<\/p>\n

Mo\u0161ki potrebujejo jasna navodila<\/h2>\n

Ko \u017eenske potrebujejo pomo\u010d pri gospodinjstvu se velikokrat za\u010dnejo prepiri, ki imajo ravno nasproten u\u010dinek na mo\u0161kega od \u017eelenega. Potrebna je spodbuda in razlaga, kaj naj naredi in kako. \u017dalitve v smislu “ni\u010desar ne zna\u0161” ali “nikoli mi ne pomaga\u0161 v hi\u0161i” in solze tu ne bodo imele u\u010dinka. Potrebna so jasna navodila, kaj natan\u010dno je treba postoriti. Tu je predvsem pomembna razdelitev dela med mo\u0161kim in \u017eensko ter sklepanje kompromisov. \u010ce \u017eenski primanjkuje \u010dasa za dolo\u010deno opravilo, lahko to postori mo\u0161ki in se za nekaj \u010dasa postavi v vlogo gospodinje. Vsa hi\u0161na opravila so tako veliko hitreje in bolje opravljena, \u010de se delijo na dve delovni sili.<\/p>\n

V sodobni dru\u017ebi \u0161e vedno obstajajo “tipi\u010dne” razlike med spoloma in njihovo delitvijo dela. Kljub temu moramo te razlike sprejeti in jih sku\u0161ati \u010dim bolj uskladiti svojimi potrebami v gospodinjstvu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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