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Enih je strah zvez, drugih je strah osamljenosti. Enih je tako strah osamljenosti, da ska\u010dejo iz ene zveze v drugo, drugih je tako strah zvez, da so raje osamljeni in naredijo vse, da bi ljudi odgnali od sebe.<\/p>\n

Tisti, ki jih je strah osamljenosti se na vse pretege trudijo ljudem ugajati. Naredili bi vse, da bi jih ljudje imeli radi, da bi jih kdo vzljubil. Pripravljeni so marsikaj potrpeti, marsikaj pri sebi spremeniti, celo popolnoma pozabiti nase, samo zato, da bi kon\u010dno na\u0161li svoje mesto pod soncem. Svoje mesto v objemu nekoga, ki jih bo izkoristil samo toliko kot jih potrebuje, potem pa zavrgel kot staro krpo. In to samo zato, ker sami s sabo delamo kot z ni\u010dvredno krpo. Tak odnos, kot imamo sami s sabo, tako nas bodo dojemali tudi drugi in z nami delali natanko tako. V\u010dasih je bolje biti sam, kot pa z nekom, ki nas ni vreden. Saj veste kako pravijo: “Ne lovite napa\u010dnega, tisti pravi ne bo be\u017eal!”<\/p>\n

Tisti, ki pa jih je strah zvez, bodo naredili vse, da bi ljudi odbili stran od sebe. To ni te\u017eko narediti. Taki ljudje, ki jih je strah tega, da bi se navezali, da bi se kdo navezal na njih, da bi koga pustili blizu, ker to pomeni, da obstaja mo\u017enost, da jih bo ta, ki jim je najbli\u017eje, lahko ranil, so zelo dobri v tem, da raje prizadenejo sami. S tem, ko prizadenejo druge, jim dajo odli\u010dno prilo\u017enost, da jih zapustijo sami od sebe, izgovor da to naredijo. In zanimivo taki ljudje tudi v trenutku, ko nekoga morda celo spustijo za pol koraka\u00a0bli\u017eje, hitro stopijo \u0161tiri korake nazaj. In to tako, da odreagirajo na stvari popolnoma v nasprotju s pri\u010dakovanim, veliko bolj negativno in hladno. To je obrambni mehanizem. Taki ljudje potrebujejo nekoga, ki bo kljub temu, da ga ves \u010das odbijajo, vztrajal naprej, dajal \u0161e ve\u010d ljubezni in jim pokazal, da jih ne bo prizadel in da ne misli iti nikamor stran. Le v takem primeru se bo led stopil, zid podrl. Toda za to je potrebno veliko vztrajanja, mo\u010di in potrpe\u017eljivosti. Ve\u010dina ljudi tega \u017eal ne zmore, zato bi moral \u010dlovek, ki se boji navezanosti, bli\u017eine in zvez sam pri sebi raz\u010distiti, zakaj, se tako upira temu, da bi nekoga spustil blizu. Obi\u010dajno to izvira iz dru\u017einskih odnosov.<\/p>\n

Vsi se torej kdaj oziroma ne\u010desa bojimo. Razlika pa je, ali pustimo, da ta strah vpliva na na\u0161e \u017eivljenje, nas ovira, ali pa smo pripravljeni iti \u010dez njega in tvegati. Vsi se bojimo biti prizadeti, toda v\u010dasih, \u010de imamo ob\u010dutek, da je vredno tvegati, dati prilo\u017enost, moramo preprosto sko\u010diti v vodo. Kar bo pa bo. \u017divljenje je prekratko za dvome, za to, da bi se vedno spra\u0161evali, kaj pa \u010de bi … Na koncu bolj ob\u017ealujemo tisto, kar nismo storili, kot pa tisto kar smo. In \u010de se ope\u010demo, ni\u010d zato, \u0161e vse smo pre\u017eiveli in se na koncu dvignili \u0161e mo\u010dnej\u0161i. Treba je naprej in poskusiti, \u0161e stokrat \u010de je treba, pa \u010deprav se bojimo …vsi se bojimo … Ne pustite, da strah upravlja z va\u0161im \u017eivljenjem!<\/p>\n

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