{"id":112048,"date":"2016-08-15T05:26:04","date_gmt":"2016-08-15T03:26:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?p=112048"},"modified":"2016-08-25T09:26:20","modified_gmt":"2016-08-25T07:26:20","slug":"zgodbice-s-katerimi-si-rade-zatiskamo-oci","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/zgodbice-s-katerimi-si-rade-zatiskamo-oci\/","title":{"rendered":"Zgodbice, s katerimi si rade zatiskamo o\u010di"},"content":{"rendered":"

Zakaj bi vedno morali najti odgovor na vsako na\u0161e vpra\u0161anje, na vsako na\u0161o te\u017eavo? Namesto, da posku\u0161amo ugotoviti, zakaj se nam dogaja v \u017eivljenju to, kar se nam dogaja, zakaj se ljudje na dolo\u010den na\u010din obna\u0161ajo do nas, zakaj se po\u010dutimo kot se itd., raje u\u017eivajmo v tem, da ne poznamo odgovora. Velikokrat ga ne poznamo, tudi takrat, ko mislimo, da smo ga na\u0161li.<\/p>\n

Zgodbice zapolnijo nevednost<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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Nevednost pogosto zapolnimo z nekimi zgodbicami, ki nam dajo dober ob\u010dutek (foto Thinkstock)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Namesto, da bi po\u010dakali, da se odgovor ali re\u0161itev pojavita, ko bomo nanju pripravljeni, pogosto na vsak na\u010din takoj \u017eelimo izvedeti razloge nekega dogajanja. V takih primerih si \u00bbizmi\u0161ljujemo\u00ab zgodbice in scenarije, ki zapolnijo na\u0161o nevednost. Izraz \u00bbizmislimo\u00ab uporabljam zato, ker te zgodbe pogosto niso resni\u010dne, nastanejo na podlagi na\u0161ih prepri\u010danj in izku\u0161enj in so zato le ene od mo\u017enih razlag. Te razlage pa obi\u010dajno prilagodimo tako, kot nam najbolje ustrezajo.<\/p>\n

Zakaj so te zgodbice problemati\u010dne?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Problem nastane, ko v na\u0161e razlage in zgodbice za\u010dnemo verjeti. Na ta na\u010din si ustvarjamo lastno realnost. Pogosto pa te zgodbice niso konstruktivne in nam ne pomagajo, da bi se ne\u010desa nau\u010dili in osebnostno zrasli. So le za\u010dasne re\u0161itve za nastale situacije.<\/p>\n

Ne rabite jih!
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Vse razlage in zgodbice so posledica na\u0161ega neprestano delujo\u010dega uma, ki velikokrat \u017eeli prevzeti oblast nad na\u0161imi \u010dusti. Vse \u017eelimo razjasniti, ker \u010de ne, se po\u010dutimo izgubljene. \u010ce si \u017eelimo olaj\u0161ati \u017eivljenje, si moramo priznati, da veliko ve\u010dino stvari v \u017eivljenju nikoli ne bomo zares razumeli. Za vsako stvar namre\u010d obstaja toliko razlag, kolikor obstaja ljudi na svetu.<\/p>\n

Prepustimo se …
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Veliko bolj\u0161a vendar pogosto tudi te\u017eja pot je zaupanje. Zaupanje, da se vse dogaja tako kot se mora in z dolo\u010denim namenom. \u010ceprav tega namena v dolo\u010denem trenutku morda \u0161e ne poznamo ali pa ga nikdar ne bomo, moramo kljub temu zaupati. Na\u0161a naloga je, da poslu\u0161amo svoje ob\u010dutke in to, kar nam govori srce, ter pustimo, da se odgovori pojavijo, ko bomo nanje pripravljeni. Ni potrebno, da na\u0161i mo\u017egani nenehno garajo in i\u0161\u010dejo razlage za vsak trenutek. \u010ce bi \u017eiveli na tak na\u010din, bi te\u017eko \u017eiveli v trenutku in ob\u010dutili pravo sre\u010do.<\/p>\n

Odgovori v razli\u010dnih oblikah<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Kadar i\u0161\u010demo odgovore, nezavedno pogosto i\u0161\u010demo na napa\u010dnih mestih. Oklepamo se na\u0161ih preteklih izku\u0161enj in prepri\u010danj, ki nas pripeljejo na isto pot in v za\u010darani krog, v katerem smo \u017ee nekaj \u010dasa. \u010ce \u017eelimo osebnostno napredovati, se nau\u010diti lekcij, ki nam jih \u017eivljenje prina\u0161a in se premakniti dalje v \u017eivljenju, moramo spoznati, da se nam odgovori pogosto razkrijejo na na\u010dine, katere najmanj pri\u010dakujemo. Razkrijejo se nam v obliki ljudi in situacij, dogodkov in stvari, ki morda na videz niso povezani z na\u0161im vpra\u0161anjem. Ko smo dovolj odprti in zaupamo procesu \u017eivljenja ter proscesu prisotnosti, ugotovimo, da se prav vse v na\u0161em \u017eivljenju povezuje. Takrat spoznamo, da se lahko prepustimo toku \u017eivljenja, ter da se nam bodo \u0161ele takrat skriti odgovori razkrili sami od sebe. Ni potrebno, da razumemo, da si izmi\u0161ljujemo zgodbice, da druge ljudi spra\u0161ujemo za nasvete in mnenja ter brskamo pa na\u0161ih umih. Ne, vse kar potrebujemo je, da u\u017eivamo v vpra\u0161anjih, v na\u0161i nevednosti in v ob\u010dutkih, ki se ob tem porajajo. Ljubezni, na primer, nikoli ne moremo zares razumeti, lahko pa jo zelo dobro ob\u010dutimo in se ji prepustimo. Vsakr\u0161no posku\u0161anje razumevanja ljubezni, bi namre\u010d uni\u010dilo ves njen \u010dar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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