{"id":11362,"date":"2015-10-31T08:23:15","date_gmt":"2015-10-31T07:23:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/10\/31\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/"},"modified":"2015-10-31T08:23:15","modified_gmt":"2015-10-31T07:23:15","slug":"kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/","title":{"rendered":"Kaj bi moral vedeti vsak mo\u0161ki, preden se rodi otrok?"},"content":{"rendered":"
\n\t\t\t\t\t
foto:Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Navdih \u010drpam iz zgodb ljudi, ki so se zna\u0161li po rojstvu otroka v ni\u010d kaj zavidljivi situaciji: \u00bbKo se je rodil otrok, me je partnerka postavila v kot. Ko se je rodil drugi otrok, me je postavila v klet. Najin odnos se je ohladil, zdaj sva skupaj le zaradi otrok. Ko bodo odrasli, se bova zagotovo lo\u010dila, saj do nje ne \u010dutim ve\u010d ni\u010d.\u00ab<\/p>\n

\u017divljenje je eno samo potovanje! <\/b><\/h2>\n

Ko se odpravljamo na potovanje, se je potrebno pripraviti in v\u010dasih celo cepiti proti nevarnim oku\u017ebam. Z rojstvom otroka se prav tako za\u010dne potovanje, na katerega se je priporo\u010dljivo pripraviti. Ve\u010d kot ima\u0161 \u00bbdodatne opreme\u00ab v smislu zavedanja, ve\u010dje so mo\u017enosti, da bo tvoje potovanje uspe\u0161no.<\/p>\n

Ob rojstvu otroka \u017eenska do\u017eivi premike na \u010dustveni, hormonski, fizi\u010dni in psihi\u010dni ravni. Neravnovesje hormonske slike zmanj\u0161a razsodnost. Takrat nas vodijo samo \u010dustva. Razumske funkcije odpovejo. \u010ce se zaveda\u0161, da \u017eenska takrat pade v film, kjer se ji aktivirata \u00bbmedvedkin nagon\u00ab in skrb, da poskrbi za svoj zarodek, dogajanja ne bo\u0161 do\u017eivljal preve\u010d osebno.<\/p>\n

Ljubosumje ubija odnos! <\/b><\/h2>\n

V ve\u010dini primerov se zgodi, da ob rojstvu otroka mati vso energijo in pozornost usmeri vanj, zato se mo\u0161ki takrat po\u010duti odrinjenega. Namesto da te doleti ta ob\u010dutek , ti lahko zdravorazumska razlaga pomaga pri opazovanju situacije: Dojen\u010dek je majhen, ljubek in nebogljen. Nima\u0161 \u0161ans, \u017eal je takrat precej bolj simpati\u010den od tebe. Ko se soo\u010di\u0161 s temi dejstvi, ni razloga za ljubosumje.<\/p>\n

Ve\u010dina mo\u0161kih takrat naredi najve\u010djo napako, ker se za\u010dnejo obna\u0161ati kot veliki dojen\u010dki. \u00bbNe zmeni se zame! Po\u010dutim se tako osamljenega in zapostavljenega! Vse se je za\u010delo vrteti okoli otroka,\u00ab so najpogostej\u0161i komentarji. V tistem klju\u010dnem obdobju ostani mo\u0161ki! Glavno mo\u0161ko poslanstvo je, da je \u017eenski v oporo. Ne zmeni se za pomanjkanje pozornosti in lepo v miru po\u010dakaj, da se stvari pole\u017eejo.<\/p>\n

\u010ce izgubita razsodnost oba, lahko svoji ljubezni pomahata v slovo<\/b><\/h2>\n

Ve\u010dina mo\u0161kih takrat napa\u010dno reagira, se za\u010dne zapirati vase in iskati pozornost drugje. Zaradi tega se marsikateri odnos ohladi in nikoli ve\u010d ne more biti isti. Odigraj svojo pomembno vlogo v odnosu tudi takrat, ko se spreminjate v dru\u017eino.<\/p>\n

Ko bo tvoja partnerka enkrat na koncu z \u017eivci od vsega dela in joka, ki ji ga povzro\u010da dojen\u010dek, ji bo \u0161e kako pri\u0161lo prav tvojo zavetje in ljubezen. Zaradi tega lahko vajin odnos \u0161e dodatno poglobita in za\u010dneta delovati kot \u0161e mo\u010dnej\u0161i team<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Spremembe so klju\u010d za razvoj odnosa! <\/b><\/h2>\n

V \u010dasu rojstva otroka nisi ti do\u017eivel korenitih sprememb, zato ni razloga, da si \u017ertveno jagnje. Do\u017eivela jih je tvoja draga, zato ji poglej skozi prste, \u010de se obna\u0161a malo \u00bbnepri\u0161tevno\u00ab. Resni\u010dno \u017eenska ni sama kriva, ko so hormoni na pa\u0161i.<\/p>\n

Vse kar tvoja partnerka takrat potrebuje, je nesebi\u010dno, razumno oporo, ki ji bo pomagala priti spet nazaj v ustaljene tire. Ob rojstvu otroka so vloge prav tako porazdeljene. Ne postani veliki dojen\u010dek, ki joka, ker ne dobi pozornosti, ki je je bil vajen. Ne nalo\u017ei ji obveznosti, da se za\u010dne soo\u010dati z dvema otrokoma, \u010deprav je rodila samo enega. Raje uberi drugo pot in postani \u0161e bolj\u0161i mo\u0161ki, ki razume, da je otrok vajino \u017eivljenje postavil na glavo in \u010dimprej poi\u0161\u010di kompas za nadaljnje potovanje.<\/p>\n

\n

\u010ce imate te\u017eave v ljubezni, lahko avtorico prispevka Lidijo Mur\u0161ek, ki vas s pomo\u010djo kanaliziranja pripelje do re\u0161itev,\u00a0kontaktirate preko elektronske po\u0161te na\u00a0lidija.mursek@gmail.com, ali pa obi\u0161\u010dete njeno spletno stran transformacija.si<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Lidija Mur\u0161ek na podlagi izku\u0161enj z ‘novope\u010denimi’ o\u010deti razmi\u0161lja o klju\u010dnih stvareh, ki bi se jih pred rojstvom otroka moral zavedati vsak mo\u0161ki.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1091],"tags":[1399,2006,1409],"source":[1518,1530,1529],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nKaj bi moral vedeti vsak mo\u0161ki, preden se rodi otrok? - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Kaj bi moral vedeti vsak mo\u0161ki, preden se rodi otrok? - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Lidija Mur\u0161ek na podlagi izku\u0161enj z 'novope\u010denimi' o\u010deti razmi\u0161lja o klju\u010dnih stvareh, ki bi se jih pred rojstvom otroka moral zavedati vsak mo\u0161ki.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2015-10-31T07:23:15+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2016\/03\/img-99002464.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"724\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"483\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"hudo\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@hudo_si\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@hudo_si\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"hudo\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minute\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"hudo\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707\"},\"headline\":\"Kaj bi moral vedeti vsak mo\u0161ki, preden se rodi otrok?\",\"datePublished\":\"2015-10-31T07:23:15+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2015-10-31T07:23:15+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/\"},\"wordCount\":636,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization\"},\"keywords\":[\"Lidija Mur\u0161ek\",\"o\u010detovstvo\",\"vzgoja otroka\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Lifestyle\"],\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/\",\"name\":\"Kaj bi moral vedeti vsak mo\u0161ki, preden se rodi otrok? - Hudo Slovenija\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2015-10-31T07:23:15+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2015-10-31T07:23:15+00:00\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Kaj bi moral vedeti vsak mo\u0161ki, preden se rodi otrok?\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/\",\"name\":\"Hudo Slovenija\",\"description\":\"Vse novice iz Slovenije in sveta\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":\"required name=search_term_string\"}],\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization\",\"name\":\"VSN Media\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/hudo-app-2.png\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/hudo-app-2.png\",\"width\":2185,\"height\":2167,\"caption\":\"VSN Media\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\"},\"sameAs\":[\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si\",\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hudo_si\"]},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707\",\"name\":\"hudo\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c4ca25fa72cace7a696b52ff5db9e095?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c4ca25fa72cace7a696b52ff5db9e095?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"hudo\"},\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/author\/hudo\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Kaj bi moral vedeti vsak mo\u0161ki, preden se rodi otrok? - Hudo Slovenija","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/","og_locale":"sl_SI","og_type":"article","og_title":"Kaj bi moral vedeti vsak mo\u0161ki, preden se rodi otrok? - Hudo Slovenija","og_description":"Lidija Mur\u0161ek na podlagi izku\u0161enj z 'novope\u010denimi' o\u010deti razmi\u0161lja o klju\u010dnih stvareh, ki bi se jih pred rojstvom otroka moral zavedati vsak mo\u0161ki.","og_url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/","og_site_name":"Hudo Slovenija","article_publisher":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si","article_published_time":"2015-10-31T07:23:15+00:00","og_image":[{"width":724,"height":483,"url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2016\/03\/img-99002464.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"hudo","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_creator":"@hudo_si","twitter_site":"@hudo_si","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"hudo","Est. reading time":"3 minute"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/"},"author":{"name":"hudo","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707"},"headline":"Kaj bi moral vedeti vsak mo\u0161ki, preden se rodi otrok?","datePublished":"2015-10-31T07:23:15+00:00","dateModified":"2015-10-31T07:23:15+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/"},"wordCount":636,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization"},"keywords":["Lidija Mur\u0161ek","o\u010detovstvo","vzgoja otroka"],"articleSection":["Lifestyle"],"inLanguage":"sl-SI"},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/","url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/","name":"Kaj bi moral vedeti vsak mo\u0161ki, preden se rodi otrok? - Hudo Slovenija","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#website"},"datePublished":"2015-10-31T07:23:15+00:00","dateModified":"2015-10-31T07:23:15+00:00","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"sl-SI","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-bi-moral-vedeti-vsak-moski-preden-se-rodi-otrok\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Kaj bi moral vedeti vsak mo\u0161ki, preden se rodi otrok?"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#website","url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/","name":"Hudo Slovenija","description":"Vse novice iz Slovenije in sveta","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":"required name=search_term_string"}],"inLanguage":"sl-SI"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization","name":"VSN Media","url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"sl-SI","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/hudo-app-2.png","contentUrl":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/hudo-app-2.png","width":2185,"height":2167,"caption":"VSN Media"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"},"sameAs":["https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si","https:\/\/twitter.com\/hudo_si"]},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707","name":"hudo","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"sl-SI","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c4ca25fa72cace7a696b52ff5db9e095?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c4ca25fa72cace7a696b52ff5db9e095?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"hudo"},"url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/author\/hudo\/"}]}},"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11362"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11362"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11362\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11362"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11362"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11362"},{"taxonomy":"source","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/source?post=11362"},{"taxonomy":"supertag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/supertag?post=11362"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}