{"id":115080,"date":"2016-08-17T09:49:08","date_gmt":"2016-08-17T07:49:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2016\/08\/17\/po-rojstvu-otroka-kar-naenkrat-ni-vec-prostora-za-moskega\/"},"modified":"2016-08-26T12:20:56","modified_gmt":"2016-08-26T10:20:56","slug":"po-rojstvu-otroka-kar-naenkrat-ni-vec-prostora-za-moskega","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/po-rojstvu-otroka-kar-naenkrat-ni-vec-prostora-za-moskega\/","title":{"rendered":"Po rojstvu otroka kar naenkrat ni ve\u010d prostora za mo\u0161kega …"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Zaljubita se dva razli\u010dna posameznika, a tej v fazi razli\u010dnost njunih osebnosti, pri\u010dakovanj, interesov, reagiranj ni pomembna, saj sli\u0161ita travo rasti<\/b>. Strastno se predajata eden drugemu in vse ostalo ni pomembno. <\/span>Za\u017eivita skupaj, metulj\u010dki pobegnejo neznano kam, ostaneta tak\u0161na kot sta v resnici<\/b>. Za\u010dne se prilagajanje in oblikovanje odnosa, ki bolj ali manj ‘pije vodo’. Ne spra\u0161ujeta se kaj dosti, kako lahko na zdrav na\u010din komunicirata in sodelujeta, temve\u010d nekako pustita, da ju odna\u0161a tok skupnega \u017eivljenja.<\/span><\/p>\n

Par dobi otro\u010dka<\/b>. Se ga veselita, skupaj ga previjata, pono\u010di vstajata, \u010detudi on dela do poznih ve\u010dernih ur in je popolnoma neprespan in iz\u010drpan. Ona se po nekaj mesecih po\u010duti prazno, naveli\u010dano, ve\u010dinoma je sama po cele dneve z dojen\u010dkom in pravi, da je zgolj nekak\u0161na mlekarna in da ni ve\u010d \u017eenska, kot je neko\u010d bila. <\/span>Oba postajata zagrenjena, jezna eden na drugega, odtujevanje se za\u010dne<\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Intimnost izgine …<\/h2>\n

Intimnosti ni, \u010detudi so po porodu in nekaj mesecih od tedaj vsi \u0161ivi izginili, brazgotine so se lepo zacelile, ona \u0161e vedno, ko on predlaga, da bi se objela in se ljubila, izgovarja, da jo \u0161e vse boli. Tako mine kar lepo \u0161tevilo mesecev. Poprej spolno zelo aktivna \u017eenska, ki je dajala pobudo za ljubljene \u0161e dolgo v nose\u010dnost, je, kot sama pravi, ostala brez libida. <\/span>Porod in prihod novega \u010dlana dru\u017eine res razdre poprej oblikovan partnerski odnos.<\/b> Na ramenih obeh partnerjev je ali bosta zmogla toliko nove privr\u017eenosti in \u017eelje po oblikovanju zdravega dru\u017einskega vzdu\u0161ja in partnerstva, kar je zagotovo tudi najbolj\u0161e gnezdo za dojen\u010dka. Kajti, na\u0161i otroci nezavedno posrkajo vase na\u0161a ob\u010dutenja, \u017eal tudi na\u0161o jezo, \u017ealost, zagrenjenost, razo\u010daranje. <\/span>Polni so na\u0161ih te\u017ekih \u010dustev, a ne vedo kaj z njimi narediti, pa so nemirni, jokavi, razdra\u017eljivi.<\/b> Vam je kaj znano? Zagotovo, saj je res ogromno parov, ki naredijo to za\u010detni\u0161ko napako, da se po rojstvu otroka no\u010deta, ne moreta ali ne znata ve\u010d partnersko osre\u010devati. <\/span>In s tem se tlakuje pot v \u0161e eno nesre\u010dno dru\u017eino, v kateri bo otrok iskal neprimerne na\u010dine osvoboditve obremenjujo\u010dih \u010dustvenih stanj star\u0161ev. <\/b><\/p>\n

Z malo poguma, vztrajnosti in odlo\u010ditve, da stopita skupaj na pot novega in sre\u010dnega partnerskega odnosa, lahko pri\u010dakujete tudi umirjenega, zadovoljnega in nasmejanega otro\u010dka. Enostavno.<\/span><\/p>\n

Avtorica prispevka sem univerzitetna diplomirana socialna pedagoginja in diplomirana socialna delavka <\/span>Melita Kuhar<\/b>, ki vodim projekt <\/span>Svetovalnica<\/b>, <\/span>www.svetovalnica.si<\/span><\/a>, dosegljiva sem na tel.\u0161t. <\/span>031 666 168<\/b>. \u010ce bi se radi naro\u010dili na individualno svetovanje ali me kaj povpra\u0161ali, pi\u0161ite na: <\/span>info@svetovalnica.si<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ve\u010d o zgoraj napisanem si lahko preberete tudi socialnem omre\u017eju <\/span>www.facebook.com\/Svetovalnica<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Prihod novega dru\u017einskega \u010dlana zelo vpliva na partnerski odnos, toda na obeh partnerjih je, da se kar najbolj potrudita pri oblikovanju zdravega dru\u017einskega vzdu\u0161ja in partnerstva, ki bo hkrati tudi najbolj\u0161e gnezdo za dojen\u010dka. Otroci namre\u010d nezavedno posrkajo vase na\u0161a negativna ob\u010dutenja in to se ka\u017ee v njihovem obna\u0161anju.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1427,2738,1408],"source":[1410,1335,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nPo rojstvu otroka kar naenkrat ni ve\u010d prostora za mo\u0161kega … - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/po-rojstvu-otroka-kar-naenkrat-ni-vec-prostora-za-moskega\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Po rojstvu otroka kar naenkrat ni ve\u010d prostora za mo\u0161kega … - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Prihod novega dru\u017einskega \u010dlana zelo vpliva na partnerski odnos, toda na obeh partnerjih je, da se kar najbolj potrudita pri oblikovanju zdravega dru\u017einskega vzdu\u0161ja in partnerstva, ki bo hkrati tudi najbolj\u0161e gnezdo za dojen\u010dka. 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