{"id":11569,"date":"2016-10-01T06:14:01","date_gmt":"2016-10-01T04:14:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/10\/01\/kaj-narediti-ce-nima-pojma-o-seksu\/"},"modified":"2016-10-14T12:20:46","modified_gmt":"2016-10-14T10:20:46","slug":"kaj-narediti-ce-nima-pojma-o-seksu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/kaj-narediti-ce-nima-pojma-o-seksu\/","title":{"rendered":"Kaj narediti, \u010de nima pojma o seksu?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/thinkstockphotos-486706292-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/thinkstockphotos-486706292-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/thinkstockphotos-486706292-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>foto:Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2>Takoj po seksu le o tem, kaj ti je bilo v\u0161e\u010d<\/h2>\n<p>\u010cas po seksu je zelo ob\u010dutljiv. To so nadvse intimni trenutki, ko si mnogi za\u017eelijo telesne bli\u017eine s partnerjem, objemov in ne\u017enih poljubov. \u010cetudi seks ni bil tak, kot bi si ga \u017eeleli, bodi do svoje partnerice po seksu ljube\u010di ter mu namenite pozitivne besede. Ta \u010das izkoristite izklju\u010dno za pogovor o stvareh, ki so vam bile med seksom v\u0161e\u010d. Ker so trenutki po seksu nadvse ob\u010dutljivi, se zlahka zgodi, da bovsakr\u0161no neljubo besedo takrat vzela \u0161e toliko bolj tragi\u010dno in negativno, iz \u010desar lahko sledi le slaba volja, jeza ali prepir. O \u017eeljah in o stvareh, ki vam med seksom niso tako zelo prijale, se raje pogovorite ob kaki drugi prilo\u017enosti, ko bo vzdu\u0161je spro\u0161\u010deno in razigrano. Zelo pomembno je, da se o seksualnih \u017eeljah pogovorita, a tak\u0161nih pogovorov vseeno ne za\u010denjajte takrat, ko je vajina postelja \u0161e vro\u010da. \u010cetudi niste tako zadovoljeni, kot bi si \u017eeleli, ji tega ne poka\u017eite z zagrenjeno grimaso, negativnim pogovorom ali slabo voljo.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Uporabi pravi pristop<\/h2>\n<p>Pri pogovoru o spolnih te\u017eavah in seksualnih \u017eeljah je vedno priporo\u010deno imeti pozitiven pristop, ki ne vsebuje grajanja ali negativnih kritik. Partnerica ne sme dobiti ideje, da je slaba ljubimka. Najbolje je, \u010de je vzdu\u0161je kar se da spro\u0161\u010deno in pozitivno. Za\u010dnete lahko tako, da ji najprej na\u0161tejete stvari, ki jih med seksom po\u010dneta in so vam zelo v\u0161e\u010d. Nato jo lahko vpra\u0161ate po njenih najljub\u0161ih stvareh. Vpra\u0161ajte jo tudi, \u010de ji \u010desa pri seksu primanjkuje oziroma \u010de si \u017eeli kakih sprememb. Nato pridete na vrsto vi. Svoje \u017eelje izra\u017eajte kar se da previdno in pozitivno. Zelo dobro je, \u010de stavke za\u010dnete z : \u00bbBi naredila nekaj samo zame\u2026\u00ab ali pa \u00bbS tabo si mo\u010dno \u017eelim poskusiti\u2026\u00ab, ipd. Tudi \u010de bo njena prva reakcija neodobravajo\u010da, nikar ne postanite slabe volje, temve\u010d ji raje pustite nekaj dni, da o predlogu razmisli.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Med seksom vzemite stvari v svoje roke<\/h2>\n<p>Da bi ji pokazali, \u010desa si med seksom \u017eelite, to lahko storite tudi brez besed ali dolgih pogovorov. Med seksom jo primite za roko in jo popeljite na tisto mesto, kjer bi \u017eeleli, da vas bo\u017ea ali masira. Tega ne storite agresivno in na silo, temve\u010d kar se da ne\u017eno. Ko njena roka dose\u017ee erogeno cono, ji svoje u\u017eitke poka\u017eite tudi s stokanjem in globokimi vzdihljaji. \u010ceji va\u0161a poteza ne bo v\u0161e\u010d in se va\u0161a gesta spremeni v tekmovanje, kdo bo prej popustil, raje odnehajte in vendarle poskusite s pogovorom. Namre\u010d lahko se zgodi, da se bo po\u010dutila, kot da jo v nekaj silite in da vam njeno po\u010detje v postelji niti malo ne pa\u0161e ter bo tako izgubila svojo &#8216;seksualno samozavest&#8217;. Partnerica se mora kljub va\u0161emu vodenju njenih rok, ustnic ali telesa po\u010dutiti spro\u0161\u010deno in ob dogajanju u\u017eivati.<\/p>\n<h2>Lahko poskusita tudi s kvizom<\/h2>\n<p>V marsikateri knjigi o spolnosti je mo\u010d zaslediti razne kvize o tem, ali sta spolno kompatibilna. \u010ce resni\u010dno ne veste, kako ji pokazati, kaj vam v postelji odgovarja, lahko pose\u017eete tudi po tak\u0161nem na\u010dinu komunikacije. Rezultati kviza bodo brez dvoma pokazali, da imata zamol\u010dane \u017eelje glede seksa, kar lahko sledi v konstruktivno debato ter re\u0161evanje te\u017eav.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Je vajino razmerje super, seks pa le v redu ali celo popolnoma zani\u010d? 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