{"id":116637,"date":"2016-08-19T09:03:57","date_gmt":"2016-08-19T07:03:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2016\/08\/19\/naucite-se-ucinkovito-resevati-nesporazume\/"},"modified":"2016-08-29T08:47:02","modified_gmt":"2016-08-29T06:47:02","slug":"naucite-se-ucinkovito-resevati-nesporazume","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/naucite-se-ucinkovito-resevati-nesporazume\/","title":{"rendered":"Nau\u010dite se u\u010dinkovito re\u0161evati nesporazume!"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2013\/02\/photoxpress_219328822-660x440-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2013\/02\/photoxpress_219328822-660x440-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2013\/02\/photoxpress_219328822-660x440-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>(Photoxpress)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Nesporazumi<\/strong> so del zveze vsakega para, ne glede na to, kako se imata dva rada ali se spo\u0161tujeta. Vsi kdaj naletimo na nesoglasje ali neusklajenost. Slabih vzorcev re\u0161evanja konfliktov se te\u017eko znebimo, saj so privzgojeni in se na\u0161ih reakcij najve\u010dkrat niti ne zavedamo. Preve\u010dkrat je zato prepir prilo\u017enost in izgovor, da smo nerazumni in otro\u010dji. Trmasto mol\u010danje ali zadajanje povra\u010dilnih udarcev ter vztrajanje na svojem enem in edinem prav so najpogostej\u0161i in najmanj konstruktivni vzorci v katere zapadamo, ko se stvari ne odvijajo po na\u0161ih pri\u010dakovanjih. Ko se <strong>nesporazume<\/strong> nau\u010dimo pravilno re\u0161evati, so dosti manj stresni.<\/p>\n<h2>Kdor mol\u010di, devetim odgovori<\/h2>\n<p>Ljudski pregovori sicer niso iz trte izviti in najve\u010dkrat dr\u017eijo, a ne za vsako situacijo. V\u010dasih je vendar potrebno pogledati tudi iz druga\u010dne perspektive. Ko s partnerjem naletimo na oviro, ki je ne znamo premostiti, se vse preve\u010dkrat zate\u010demo k molku, ki lahko traja tudi dneve. Z molkom presku\u0161amo partnerjevo resni\u010dno predanost in ljubezen. Partnerjev odziv na molk naj bi bilo merilo, \u010de nas ima resni\u010dno rad. \u010ce se na molk odzove, potem mu je mar, nas ima rad; \u010de molk prezre, potem je njegova ljubezen vpra\u0161ljiva. V molk se zavijemo, ko \u017eelimo vso pozornost in pokazati prizadetost. V resnici molk ustvarja med vama prepad. Z ignoranco in odtegovanjem pozornosti ne \u0161kodujemo le partnerju, ampak tudi samim sebi in torej posledi\u010dno odnosu. Odkrit <a href=\"record:tt_news:1631\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"typo3\/sysext\/rtehtmlarea\/htmlarea\/plugins\/TYPO3Browsers\/img\/internal_link.gif\" alt=\"Opens internal link in current window\" \/>pogovor<\/a> je dosti bolj\u0161a aleternativa za re\u0161evanje nesoglasij, kot je to molk. Tu in tam se \u017ee zgodi, da smo tako prizadeti, da enostavno ne zmoremo ve\u010d kot mol\u010dati. A naj to ne postane ustaljen na\u010din vajine <a href=\"record:tt_news:1343\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"typo3\/sysext\/rtehtmlarea\/htmlarea\/plugins\/TYPO3Browsers\/img\/internal_link.gif\" alt=\"Opens internal link in current window\" \/>komunikacije<\/a> in nikakor naj ne bo namenski.<\/p>\n<h2>Ti mene, jaz tebe<\/h2>\n<p>Ko smo prizadeti je nemalokrat na\u0161 prvi, nagonski odziv, da \u017eelimo prizadeti nazaj. Na\u0161a jeza je sicer lahko na ta na\u010din tudi konstruktivna, ampak \u017eal bolj redko. Kdaj nam na ta na\u010din celo uspe ukrotiti partnerjevo jezo. Najve\u010dkrat pa se na ta na\u010din prepir, nesporazum in zmerjanje le \u0161e stopnjuje. Pomislite, kdaj ste nazadnje v resnici na ta na\u010din re\u0161ili konflikt in pomislite, kolikokrat ste ga poglobili. Ponovno gre za situacijo, ko vsak partner vle\u010de na svojo stran in ni pripravljen popustiti. Najve\u010dkrat sta za to oba na izgubi. Bolje kot obojestransko zmerjanje brez konca in kraja je seveda odkritost. 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