{"id":11741,"date":"2016-06-20T05:25:23","date_gmt":"2016-06-20T03:25:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/09\/01\/katera-zenska-ni-zate\/"},"modified":"2016-06-30T10:14:01","modified_gmt":"2016-06-30T08:14:01","slug":"katera-zenska-ni-zate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/katera-zenska-ni-zate\/","title":{"rendered":"Katera \u017eenska ni zate?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Zagotovo se je tudi tebi kdaj zgodilo, da si se zapletel s simpati\u010dno punco, strasti kar ni in ni bilo konca, ko si ona na lepem premisli, da \u00bbji ve\u010d ni\u00ab. Ves razo\u010daran sam nad seboj, zmeden, ker si spet naletel na eno zme\u0161anko, bi si najraje kar sam prisolil zau\u0161nico.<\/p>\n

LE KAJ MORA\u0160 NAREDITI, DA TE BO HOTELA NAZAJ?<\/h2>\n

V takih primerih je najbolje narediti popolnoma ni\u010d. Vzemi si \u010das, da jo pozabi\u0161 in se ji hkrati zahvali, da je bila del tvoje romanti\u010dne izku\u0161nje. V\u010dasih smo preve\u010d usmerjeni v to, kaj smo izgubili, medtem ko tisto, kar smo dobili, spregledamo. Pri\u0161la je do tebe, dala noge narazen, ti omogo\u010dila spolni u\u017eitek, le zakaj bi vrtal globlje? Bodi vesel, da ima\u0161 aktivno spolno \u017eivljenje.<\/p>\n

KAJ NAREDITI, KO TE PONOVNO KONTAKTIRA?<\/h2>\n

Dosegel si \u017ee, da je ne oblega\u0161 in ji ne po\u0161ilja\u0161 obupanih sporo\u010dil, \u010de si je mogo\u010de premislila\u2026 Z eno nogo si prakti\u010dno \u017ee prebolel to zavrnitev, ko te punca kontaktira! Upanje!!! Ves trud, da jo preboli\u0161, je v sekundi padel v vodo. Vnema je ista kot takrat, ko sta se spoznala in znova gre\u0161 v akcijo. Ta akcija bo seveda vedno znova spodletela\u2026 Mogo\u010de se bo punca malo zmeh\u010dala, a bo \u010dez \u010das ponovno pri\u0161la do istega zaklju\u010dka, da nisi ti mo\u0161ki njenega \u017eivljenja.<\/p>\n

Zmagovalna reakcija, ki jo je absolutno te\u017eko izvesti, je ta, da jo jemlje\u0161 kot vsakega drugega \u010dloveka. Ko si za\u010dnemo delati v glavi scenarije, si lahko po\u0161teno zagrenimo \u017eivljenje. Kontaktirala te je, ker ji je mogo\u010de dolg\u010das. Mogo\u010de si ji dober prijatelj in ne bi rada prekinila stikov \u2013 to je vse, kar je. Ne napletaj si zgodb, da si je premislila in da se bo zaljubila vate. Mogo\u010de je tisti dan malo osamljena, mogo\u010de je imela slab dan in je ravno tak\u0161ne volje, da ga \u017eeli pokvariti tudi tebi. Seveda ji tega ne pusti.<\/p>\n

\u010cE IMA\u0160 OB\u010cUTEK, DA NISI DOVOLJ DOBER<\/h2>\n

Mnogi mo\u0161ki se v taki situaciji po\u010dutijo u\u0161ivo. Spra\u0161ujejo se, kaj bi bilo potrebno narediti, da bi ji bili v\u0161e\u010d. Ves ta trud je zaman. Zagotovo ti si tapravi mo\u0161ki, le zanjo nisi tapravi. To je osnovno znanje, ki te bo poneslo do ljube\u010de punce, ki ne bo premi\u0161ljevala, \u010de si pravi ali ne. Enostavno se bo priklopila nate in se je ne bo\u0161 mogel ve\u010d re\u0161iti. Tak\u0161na je prava. Seveda naj bo obsedena s teboj v mejah normale, \u010de ne ti \u017eiv\u010dni zlom ne uide.<\/p>\n

\u010cAS CELI VSE RANE, NEUMNOSTI PA \u017dAL NE POZDRAVI<\/h2>\n

Po nepri\u010dakovani zavrnitvi se marsikdo umakne s trga, se zapre vase ali od razo\u010daranja celo neha verjeti v ljubezen. Ne bodi tudi ti med njimi. \u010ce si ranjen, ni potrebno, da se obna\u0161a\u0161 neumno. Nobene zavrnitve ne jemlji osebno, ker se bo\u0161 tako le \u0161e bolj zatiral. Na vseh podro\u010djih smo kdaj zavrnjeni, le zakaj bi bilo pri ljubezni druga\u010de? \u010ce ti mama kdaj ni dovolila \u010dokolade pred ve\u010derjo, to \u0161e ne pomeni, da ta opcija nikoli ni obstajala. Zagotovo je bila kdaj dobre volje in ti je pogledala skozi prste. Tako je tudi pri ljubezni. Ko ne obupamo, se prilo\u017enost zagotovo pojavi. Mogo\u010de ne to\u010dno tisti dan kot bi ti \u017eelel in z osebo, s katero bi ti \u017eelel, a te zagotovo za naslednjim ovinkom \u010daka nova izku\u0161nja. Le ne zapiraj si vrat in dvigni glavo.<\/p>\n

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\u010ce se tudi ti kdaj po\u010duti\u0161 \u00bbzaspan\u00ab in \u010duti\u0161, da bi potreboval navdih, brco ali si morda \u017eeli\u0161 na zmenek s simpati\u010dno punco, mi lahko pi\u0161e\u0161 na lidija.mursek@gmail.com<\/a><\/strong> . \u017divljenje je trening. Pot do cilja pa v\u010dasih sploh ni zahtevna.<\/p>\n

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Lahko ti najdem zmenek ali pa te samo prestra\u0161im, da me\u010de\u0161 vstran svoj najbolj\u0161i del \u017eivljenja in bo\u0161 od tam naprej zmogel sam.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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