{"id":11781,"date":"2016-03-10T10:21:02","date_gmt":"2016-03-10T09:21:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/03\/10\/kaj-z-nami-delajo-nasa-pricakovanja\/"},"modified":"2016-03-10T10:21:02","modified_gmt":"2016-03-10T09:21:02","slug":"kaj-z-nami-delajo-nasa-pricakovanja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/aktualno\/mnenja\/kaj-z-nami-delajo-nasa-pricakovanja\/","title":{"rendered":"Kaj z nami delajo na\u0161a pri\u010dakovanja?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Vsi ljudje imamo neka pri\u010dakovanja. Pri\u010dakovanja do sebe, do na\u0161ega \u017eivljenja, na\u0161e okolice, na\u0161ega partnerja, na\u0161ih otrok \u010de ho\u010dete. Ta pri\u010dakovanja izhajajo iz neke popolne slike, ki smo si jo ustvarili v svoj glavi na podlagi tistega, kar vidimo v medijih, kar vidimo v svoji okolici, ali pa izhajamo kar iz sebe. Pogosto predvidevamo, da \u010de mi nekaj delamo ali dojemamo na nek na\u010din, da je to edini pravi, smiseln na\u010din, in da je logi\u010dno, da se bodo tako obna\u0161ali tudi ljudje okrog nas. S takim na\u010dinom razmi\u0161ljanjem pa delamo \u0161kodo predvsem sebi.<\/p>\n

Zaradi previsokih oziroma kakr\u0161nih koli pri\u010dakovanj smo pogosto razo\u010darani. Ne moremo zahtevati oziroma pri\u010dakovati, da bo na\u0161a dru\u017eina tako “popolna” kot sosedova, otroci tako nadarjeni kot otroci na\u0161ega brata ali sestre, da bomo v slu\u017ebi tako uspe\u0161ni kot na\u0161a najbolj\u0161a prijateljica, in da se bo na\u0161 partner do nas obna\u0161al tako romanti\u010dno kot vidimo v romanti\u010dnih filmih. Ljudje smo razli\u010dni in razli\u010dno po\u010dnemo oziroma reagiramo na stvari. In \u010de nekdo ne\u010desa ne po\u010dne ali se ne odziva tako kot smo si zamislili, \u0161e ne pomeni, da to po\u010dne napa\u010dno.<\/p>\n

Svoja nerealna pri\u010dakovanja bi morali opustiti in pustiti, da se stvari same odvijajo kot se morajo, pustiti, da se ljudje odzivajo kot se pa\u010d odzivajo. Morali bi sprejeti stvari take kot so in v njih videti najbolj\u0161e. In \u010de se recimo ljudje ne odzivajo kot mi od njih pri\u010dakujemo, \u0161e ne pomeni, da se odzivajo napa\u010dno. Recimo ko gre\u0161 na prvi zmenek in pre\u017eivita super ve\u010der, avtomatsko pri\u010dakuje\u0161, da ti bo \u0161e isti ve\u010der po zmenku poslal sms sporo\u010dilo, da ti pove, kako lepo se je imel. Tako si obi\u010dajno navajena, tako bi naredila tudi sama, tako se dogaja obi\u010dajno v filmih. Toda sms-a ni. Zaradi previsokih pri\u010dakovanj bi bili v tem primeru razo\u010darani in bi si pa\u010d mislili, ker ni poslal tistega sms-a, da se ni imel tako lepo na zmenku, da mu niste tako v\u0161e\u010d. Toda razo\u010daranje je v tem primeru popolnoma nepotrebno. \u010ce ste \u010dutiti, da se imata na zmenku lepo in da ste mu v\u0161e\u010d, potem zaupajte temu ob\u010dutku in ne pustite, da ga pri\u010dakovanja zbri\u0161ejo. \u010ce ste mu res v\u0161e\u010d se bo \u017ee javil in se \u017eelel \u0161e dobiti z vami, \u010de pa ne, je pa tudi \u017ee prav tako. Sicer pa, kje pa pi\u0161e, da vi ne bi smeli poslati tistega prvega sms-a, \u010de tako \u010dutite in bi mu radi to povedali. V\u010dasih bi se morali preprosto ustaviti, globoko zadihati, odvre\u010di svoja pri\u010dakovanja in se prepustiti trenutku oziroma situaciji.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Na\u0161a pri\u010dakovanja lahko popolnoma popa\u010dijo realno sliko. Lahko ustvarijo ogromno slabe volje in razo\u010daranja. 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