{"id":11797,"date":"2017-01-24T06:03:00","date_gmt":"2017-01-24T05:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/03\/09\/zakaj-se-moski-bolj-bojijo-da-bi-bili-prevarani\/"},"modified":"2017-02-03T12:56:15","modified_gmt":"2017-02-03T11:56:15","slug":"zakaj-se-moski-bolj-bojijo-da-bi-bili-prevarani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/zakaj-se-moski-bolj-bojijo-da-bi-bili-prevarani\/","title":{"rendered":"Zakaj se mo\u0161ki bolj bojijo, da bi bili prevarani?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/12\/img-186209775-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/12\/img-186209775-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/12\/img-186209775-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>Foto: Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Pregled ob\u0161irne literature o ljubosumju ne razkriva ve\u010djih razlik med mo\u0161kimi in \u017eenskami. Podatki o tem, kolikokrat je kdo ljubosumen in kako mo\u010dno ljubosumje ob\u010duti, so si pri obeh spolih zelo podobni. Evolucijski psihologi pa so \u017ee dolgo slutili, da morda obstajajo razlike v dojemanju razli\u010dnih vrst nezvestobe, ki ljubosumje povzro\u010dijo.<\/p>\n<h2>Mo\u0161ke bolj skrbi spolna nezvestoba, \u017eenske pa \u010dustvena.<\/h2>\n<p>Mo\u0161ki so se namre\u010d v evolucijski zgodovini morali prilagoditi na problem, ki ga \u017eenske ne poznajo \u2013 negotovost o\u010detovstva. Ker je bila spolna nezvestoba edina gro\u017enja posameznikovemu o\u010detovstvu, se je mo\u0161ko ljubosumje osredoto\u010dilo predvsem na znake spolne nezvestobe oziroma pre\u0161u\u0161tva. Mo\u0161ki, katerih partnerke so bile nezveste, so z reproduktivnega stali\u0161\u010da tvegali vse napore in stro\u0161ke dvorjenja, vse investicije v razmerje, in vse star\u0161evske napore, tako svoje kot partnerkine, ki bi bili usmerjeni v vzgojo potomcev drugega mo\u0161kega. Z \u017eenskega reprodukcijskega vidika partnerjevo pre\u0161u\u0161tvo samo po sebi ni problemati\u010dno. \u017denske so se bolj bale izgube partnerjevega \u010dasa, energije, sredstev, obveze in star\u0161evskega vlo\u017eka, ki bi bil namenjen rivalski \u017eenski in njenemu otroku. Zaradi teh razlogov naj bi bilo mo\u0161ko ljubosumje bolj predvidljivo, povzro\u010dila pa naj bi ga predvsem spolna nezvestoba. \u017densko ljubosumje pa je, nasprotno, bolj spremenljivo, odvisno od konteksta in bolj osredoto\u010deno na dolgoro\u010dno preusmeritev obveze, ki se ka\u017ee predvsem v mo\u0161ki \u010dustveni povezavi z neko drugo \u017eensko.<\/p>\n<h2>Kaj so pokazale raziskave?<\/h2>\n<p>Spolna in \u010dustvena nezvestoba sta seveda nelo\u010dljivo povezani. Oba spola prizadeneta obe obliki nezvestobe, kar potrjujejo tudi raziskave. Vseeno pa je velika ve\u010dina vpra\u0161anih \u017eensk potrdila, da bi jih emocionalna nezvestoba prizadela bolj kot spolna, \u010de bi jih hipoteti\u010dno lahko lo\u010dili. Mo\u0161ki so bili manj enotni, a v primerjavi z \u017eenskami se jim spolna nezvestoba zdi ve\u010dji greh kot pa \u010dustvena. Odgovori anketirancev so tudi pokazali, da bi se po\u010dutili bolj ogro\u017eene in ljubosumne, \u010de bi tekmec imel bolj\u0161o slu\u017ebo ali ve\u010d premo\u017eenja od njih, \u017eenske pa, \u010de bi rivalka bila mlaj\u0161a in lep\u0161a od njih. To pa so ravne tiste lastnosti, ki so po teoriji spolnih strategij\u00a0najbolj za\u017eelene pri nasprotnem spolu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mo\u0161ke naj bi bolj skrbelo pre\u0161u\u0161tvo, \u017eenske pa \u010dustvena navezanost partnerja na drugo \u017eensko. Zakaj? 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