{"id":11821,"date":"2016-03-07T06:25:00","date_gmt":"2016-03-07T05:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/03\/07\/ali-dusite-partnerja\/"},"modified":"2016-03-07T06:25:00","modified_gmt":"2016-03-07T05:25:00","slug":"ali-dusite-partnerja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/ali-dusite-partnerja\/","title":{"rendered":"Ali du\u0161ite partnerja?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/03\/photoxpress_219328822-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/03\/photoxpress_219328822-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/03\/photoxpress_219328822-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>Ne i\u0161\u010dite stalne pozornosti pri partnerju (Photoxpress)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2 class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">Iskanje pozornosti zaradi slabe komunikacije<\/h2>\n<p>Potrebo po iskanju pozornosti velikokrat ustvari prav slaba komunikacija med partnerjema, kar lahko zaradi ob\u010dutka nesigurnosti privede v nekonstruktivne pogovore ali zasli\u0161evanje. V takem primeru partnerju zaupajte svoje ob\u010dutke glede ve\u010derov, ko gre ven s prijatelji in se ne javi ali pa ne pokli\u010de, kadar obljubi, ker vas to navdaja z dvomom o njegovi iskrenosti. Najbolj\u0161a komunikacija med partnerjema je direktna komunikacija, saj nih\u010de izmed vaju ne more prebrati misli drugega. Zelo zdravo je, da partnerja v zvezi direktno spregovorita o svojih tegobah in \u017eeljah, zatem pa se lahko pri\u010dne konstruktiven dialog ter iskanje re\u0161itev in kompromisov.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">Iskanje pozornosti zaradi pomanjkanja bli\u017eine<\/h2>\n<p>V\u010dasih se zgodi, da zaradi vsakodnevnih obveznosti in skrbi partnerja pozabita, kako zelo pomemben je ob\u010dutek medsebojne bli\u017eine, ki ga v\u010dasih lahko zbudi \u017ee malenkost. V\u010dasih je dovolj \u017ee lep pogled, kratek objem ali pa majhen kompliment. Kadar to izgine, se pojavi potreba po ne\u010dem, kar na videz deluje kot pretirano iskanje pozornosti od partnerja. V resnici gre zgolj za iskanje ob\u010dutka bli\u017eine.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">Kaj storiti?<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Pojdite na za\u010detek<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Spomnite se, kak\u0161ni ste bili na za\u010detku, ko ste partnerja komaj spoznali in razloga, zakaj se je zaljubil prav v vas. Imeli ste prijatelje, hobije in ogromno stvari, v katerih on ni bil sredi\u0161\u010de vsega. \u010ce imate v \u017eivljenju stvari, ki vas osre\u010dujejo, potem se boste tudi na splo\u0161no po\u010dutili bolje. Tudi pogovori o tem, kaj bi vas osre\u010dilo v zvezi, bodo stekli la\u017eje, \u010de se boste malce sprostili in se ne obremenjevali stalno s stvarmi, ki vas motijo. Sre\u010den partner je dober partner.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Na\u010drtujte aktivnosti v dvoje<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u010ce opazite, da v va\u0161i zvezi manjka bli\u017eine, potem je na\u010drtovanje skupnih aktivnosti zelo dobra ideja. Ne \u010dakajte, da bo to nalogo prevzel va\u0161 partner. Prav ni\u010d ne bo narobe, \u010de se tega lotite vi. Aktivnosti lahko na\u010drtujete letno, mese\u010dno ali pa tudi tedensko, saj vama bo to dalo nekaj, \u010demur se lahko veselita. Pozornost, ki jo od njega i\u0161\u010dete, bo pricurljala prav skozi skupne sprehode, obiske kino predstav, igre ali \u0161portne aktivnosti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Umirite svoje demone<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ko se za\u010dnejo prebujati va\u0161i dvomi v obliki vpra\u0161anja \u00bbkaj, \u010de\u2026\u00ab, se \u0161e isti trenutek ustavite in jih pomirite. \u00bbKaj, \u010de spozna bolj privla\u010dno punco?\u00ab \u00bbKaj, \u010de me ne kli\u010de zato, ker je ta trenutek z drugo?\u00ab Vsa ta vpra\u0161anja so odve\u010d, saj je od \u00bbkaj, \u010de\u2026\u00ab veliko bolj pomembno \u00bbkaj je\u00ab. Poleg tega vas lahko vsaka sekunda tak\u0161nega razmi\u0161ljanja brez potrebe spravlja ob pamet. Pomembno je, kak\u0161ni ste v tem razmerju vi. Bodite sre\u010dni in to bo opazil tudi va\u0161 partner, ki vas ne bo zamenjal za ni\u010d na svetu, \u010de ostanete tista zabavna punca, ki jo je spoznal.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Direktna komunikacija<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Stvari, ki vas obremenjujejo, ne dr\u017eite v sebi. \u010ce je razlog, da od njega stalno i\u0161\u010dete pozornost, dejstvo, da z vami ravna kot da ne obstajate, potem je \u010das za odkrit pogovor. Saj veste, direktna komunikacija je najbolj\u0161a komunikacija. A preden se je lotite, umirjeno in tehtno razmislite, kaj mu \u017eelite sporo\u010diti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Zapomnite si, da ste krasna oseba<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pomembno je, da se vsake toliko \u010dasa zaveste, da ste lepa, \u010dudovita in pametna oseba z dobrim smislom za humor. \u010ce ne bi bili vse to, se niti ne bi v vas zaljubil na za\u010detku. Tak\u0161ne misli vam bodo podarile ve\u010djo samozavest in ve\u010d volje do vsega, \u010desar se lotite.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u017denska postane pretirano potrebna pozornosti takrat, ko izgubi ob\u010dutek sigurnosti v zvezi, a te\u017eava ti\u010di drugje. 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