{"id":11851,"date":"2016-03-04T09:16:29","date_gmt":"2016-03-04T08:16:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/03\/04\/kdaj-bom-koncno-spoznala-pravega\/"},"modified":"2016-03-04T09:16:29","modified_gmt":"2016-03-04T08:16:29","slug":"kdaj-bom-koncno-spoznala-pravega","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/kdaj-bom-koncno-spoznala-pravega\/","title":{"rendered":"Kdaj bom kon\u010dno spoznala pravega?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Foto: Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

V \u010dem\u00a0je problem?<\/b><\/h2>\n

Najve\u010dji problem, ki ga marsikatera \u017eenska NE VIDI, je za\u010daran krog! To je tisti krog, ki nam servira vedno iste izku\u0161nje z razli\u010dnimi mo\u0161kimi. Morda med menjavo preberemo kak\u0161no knjigo, ki nam nabije ego do plafona, in mislimo, da smo se re\u0161ile za\u010daranega kroga. Naslednji, ki ga spoznamo, je tako super fant, da kar ne moremo verjeti svojim o\u010dem\u2026 A s\u010dasoma se izka\u017ee, da se zgodba znova ponovi. Na za\u010detku nima nih\u010de na sebi nalepke: \u00bbPrizadel te bom.\u00ab To\u010dno zato se vedno znova \u017eenka pusti speljati na isti led. <\/span><\/p>\n

Na to, koga izbere\u0161, ne more\u0161 vplivati!<\/b><\/h2>\n

\u010ceravno so na eni strani fantje (dobri fantje), ki bi zate naredili prakti\u010dno vse, a ne \u010duti\u0161 kemije, to \u0161e ne pomeni, da mora\u0161 izbrati ravno tak\u0161nega mo\u0161kega in se dobesedno prisiliti v vezo. Po nekaj letih bo\u0161 postala tako zagrenjena kot \u00a0\u0161vedska gren\u010dica. Na drugi strani te mamijo vsi tisti mo\u0161ki, ki ti \u010dez nekaj \u010dasa servirajo razo\u010daranje. Temu se re\u010de za\u010darani krog. Kako to presekati, ne da izgubi\u0161 sebe in najde\u0161 osebo, ki ti je naklonjena kot vsi dobri fantje in obenem zanimiva kot vse tiste barabe, ki so ti strle srce? To je umetnost!<\/span><\/p>\n

Na\u0161a cona udobja je tista, ki nam uni\u010duje \u017eivljenje!<\/b><\/h2>\n

Ljudje smo mahnjeni na navade. Navade so tako globoko zakoreninjene, da v\u010dasih mislimo, da obstaja le to, kar mi do\u017eivljamo, ostalo (druga\u010dno) ne obstaja. \u0160e pred kratkim sem nekemu dekletu predlagala, da gre na zmenek z mo\u0161kim, ki ga sama ne bi nikoli izbrala, in ona mi odvrne, da ni \u010dutila, da bi on lahko bil pravi! Njen ob\u010dutek, ki je navajen zgolj enih in istih dra\u017eljajev, ji kroji \u017eivljenje! Ko sli\u0161im tak\u0161no cvetko, z vsem navdu\u0161enjem lahko odgovorim: \u00bbKako lahko zaupa\u0161 tem svojim ob\u010dutkom, \u010de te sploh ne pripeljejo na \u017eeljeno destinacijo?\u00ab V\u010dasih mislimo, da je potrebno zaupati ob\u010dutku (se strinjam), toda, \u010de nas ta isti ob\u010dutek vedno znova vodi na kriva pota, potem je logi\u010dno, da je ta ob\u010dutek pokvarjen. Nujno potreben popravila!<\/span><\/p>\n

Kako iz cone udobja?<\/b><\/h2>\n

V\u010dasih pogledam proti Kamni\u0161ko Savinjskim Alpam in si odpo\u010dijem o\u010di na belih vrhovih, ki se na soncu res prekrasno lesketajo. V\u010dasih tega razgleda ni, saj vreme tega ne dopu\u0161\u010da. Takrat mi pogled se\u017ee le do najbli\u017ejega hriba, ki je zavit v meglo. Tak\u0161en razgled je bistveno bolj omejen od tistega ob son\u010dnem dnevu. Podobno funkcionira na\u0161a kletka: Ko smo zataknjeni v svojem \u017eivljenju, vidimo zelo omejeno. Takrat je na\u0161e po\u010dutje kot de\u017e. Ko si pogledamo kak\u0161en romanti\u010dni film, preberemo \u010dlanek ali knjigo, ki nam ulije upanja, se nam pogled razbistri in takrat smo sposobni videti dlje. Takrat v na\u0161e \u017eivljenje posije sonce. A kaj nam to pomaga, \u010de vse skupaj gledamo le od dale\u010d? Slej kot prej bo spet pri\u0161el de\u017e, \u010de bomo ostajali v na\u0161i kletki. Da gremo ven iz nje, se je treba fizi\u010dno premakniti \u2013 tja, kjer je razgled, kjer sonce sije ve\u010dino \u010dasa. <\/span><\/p>\n

Da se premaknemo iz cone udobja, je potrebno narediti nekaj, \u010desar na\u0161 organizem ni navajen. Iti na zmenek z nekom, s komer sicer ne bi \u0161li \u2013 npr. Le tako lahko presenetimo na\u0161e stare navade in na\u0161im t.i. ob\u010dutkom poka\u017eemo, kdo je \u0161ef. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u010ce ima\u0161 dovolj razo\u010daranja na ljubezenskem podro\u010dju, se lahko prijavi\u0161 na zmenkarije, kjer ti mi izberemo osebe, s katerimi bo\u0161 \u0161la na zmenek. S tem bo\u0161 presekala s starimi navadami, se odprla novim ob\u010dutkom in \u00a0se dejansko premaknila v \u017eivljenju. Brezpla\u010dne prijave zbiramo na transformacija.si@gmail.com. Ve\u010d si lahko prebere\u0161 na spletni strani <\/strong><\/span>www.transformacija.si<\/a> <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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