{"id":12051,"date":"2016-02-16T06:06:00","date_gmt":"2016-02-16T05:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/02\/16\/se-sprasujes-zakaj-si-se-vedno-samska\/"},"modified":"2016-02-16T06:06:00","modified_gmt":"2016-02-16T05:06:00","slug":"se-sprasujes-zakaj-si-se-vedno-samska","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/se-sprasujes-zakaj-si-se-vedno-samska\/","title":{"rendered":"Se spra\u0161uje\u0161, zakaj si \u0161e vedno samska?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Na tiso\u010de \u017eensk in mo\u0161kih si vsakodnevno zastavlja vpra\u0161anja, \u010demu so \u0161e vedno samski<\/strong>, v njihovih o\u010deh pa je mo\u010d opaziti strah in brezupnost . Kot ponavadi \u2013 treba se je zamisliti in preiskati svoj karakter!<\/p>\n

1. Naredi analizo prej\u0161njega razmerja<\/h2>\n

Za za\u010detek razmi\u0161ljanja o ne\u017eeleni samskosti<\/strong> predlagamo, da naredite podrobno analizo va\u0161ega prej\u0161njega razmerja. Kje se je zalomilo in ne v smislu valjenja krivde na nasprotno stran. Zazrite se v ogledalo in si nato\u010dite \u010distega vina, ostanite trezni. S treznim pristopom se boste namre\u010d kaj koristnega nau\u010dili na napakah iz preteklosti.<\/p>\n

2. Razi\u0161\u010di problem!<\/h2>\n

Priznajte si kak\u0161en ustroj delovanja je imelo va\u0161e zadnje razmerje. \u010ce je v ve\u010dini zvez pobuda za prekinitev odnosa prihajala z va\u0161e strani, pomeni, da ste odkrili zlato \u017eilo. In zato pri\u010dnite s kopanjem. Problem, zaradi katerega ste \u0161e vedno samski<\/strong>, namre\u010d izvira iz vas. Ker ste sami sebi kreator do\u017eivetih izku\u0161enj in imate kontrolo nad odlo\u010ditvami, ki jih v \u017eivljenju sprejemate. Osebne odlo\u010ditve se nujno rojevajo na podlagi va\u0161ih karakternih lastnosti in kot take imajo posledice, za katere pa\u010d morate prevzeti odgovornost.<\/p>\n

3. Prenehaj se pretvarjati – bodi to, kar ste!<\/h2>\n

Ne pretvarjajte se, da ste nekdo, ki to ni. Pristnost je sicer te\u017eko dosegljiv ideal, pa vendar. Samoustrahovanje in obsojanje samega sebe slej ko prej privede do tega, da vam okolica za\u010dne diktirati, kak\u0161na oseba naj bi bili. Pretvarjanje je ve\u010d kot slaba popotnica pri iskanju zveze. Dovolite si in bodite kar ste oziroma si snemite masko vsaj pred \u010dlovekom, ki vas privla\u010di. Naj vam blefiranje lastne osebnosti nikakor ne pride v navado.<\/p>\n

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4. Misli pozitivno!<\/h2>\n

Pomen notranjega monologa je ravno v tem, da se projecira navzven. Misli, ki se vam porajajo tekom dneva, vas usmerjajo kot program, ki okolici ne bo ustrezal, \u010de bo visoke \u00bbte\u017eavnostne stopnje\u00ab. Negativne misli enostavno odbijajo. Na primer, \u010de boste sami sebe okarakterizirali kot \u00bbmagnet za \u010dudake\u00ab, medtem ko \u010dakate na zmenek na slepo, se zna zgoditi, da boste prav tako delovali v o\u010deh tistega, ki ga \u010dakate. Prvi vtis je napa\u010den, a naredi globok pe\u010dat.<\/p>\n

5. Zaupaj v svoj uspeh!<\/h2>\n

Ker se sestavljanka sestavlja postopoma, je pametno vsako situacijo ocenjevati lo\u010deno. Tako kot je vsak ko\u0161\u010dek sestavljanke unikatna enota zase, je podobna situacija pri iskanju in spoznavanju \u010dloveka. \u010ce vam bo v glavi odmevalo \u00bbvse dobre \u017eenske\/vsi dobri mo\u0161ki\u00ab so \u017ee zasedeni, to pomeni, da se podajate v lov za izgubljenim zakladom, ker se prepri\u010dujete, da se podite za \u00bbostanki\u00ab \u0161e preden bi sploh poskusili zaklad najti. \u017divali naj ne bi imele tega vedenjskega vzorca, ljudje pa\u010d: samodestruktivna nagnjenja namre\u010d, nau\u010dena nemo\u010d ipd.<\/p>\n

6. Ni potrebe, da brezpogojno ugaja\u0161!<\/h2>\n

Generalna napaka samskih<\/strong> oseb je to, da bi radi spremenili sebe z namenom brezpogojnega ugajanja nasprotni strani. Ta proces deluje kot bumerang. Se \u0161e spomnite to\u010dke 3?<\/p>\n

7. Bodite fleksibilni!<\/h2>\n

\u010ce nekaj ne deluje, to preprosto opustite. Edina konstanta \u010dlovekovega bivanja so spremembe. Ne bodite to, kar niste, imejte pa \u0161irok nabor tega, kar ste.<\/p>\n

8. Gibajte se v okolju, ki vam ustreza<\/h2>\n

Prepoznavanje okoli\u0161\u010din, v katerih se po\u010dutite najbolje, vam bo precej olaj\u0161alo proces iskanja. Okolje, ki vam ustreza, je najbolj primerno za osvajanje nepoznanih ljudi. Na doma\u010dem terenu je prednost neizpodbitna.<\/p>\n

9. Ne pozabite na govorico telesa<\/h2>\n

Manj kot 20% komunikacije poteka na besedni ravni. Kar spet pomeni, da se bodo va\u0161e misli preko telesnih kretenj zlivale v okolico. Tako lahko koga popolnoma o\u010darate, ali pa tudi odbijete.<\/p>\n

10. Nau\u010dite se sprejemati komplimente<\/h2>\n

Mogo\u010de delujete nedostopno in ne opazite, da vam ljudje laskajo, ker se vam ne zdi mo\u017eno, da se to dogaja prav vam. Prestre\u010di pozornost je sladka stvar. Flirt vzburja, \u0161e vedno pa ste oble\u010deni!<\/p>\n

Biti samski<\/strong> \u0161e ne pomeni biti osamljen<\/strong>, kajti najpomembnej\u0161e razmerje, ki ga je pametno negovati, je razmerje s samim seboj. \u0160ele potem si lahko zastavite vpra\u0161anje \u00bbsi zveze \u017eelim\u00ab ali \u00bbsi moram \u017eeleti\u00ab, ker je to norma. Prvo obljublja odkrivanje lepot v dvoje, drugo zgolj \u00bbobe\u0161anje na grbo\u00ab drugega.<\/p>\n

Prijavi se na ljubezenski te\u010daj Love Coaching in postanite sanjska \u017eenska vsakega mo\u0161kega.<\/span><\/strong> <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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