{"id":120758,"date":"2016-08-26T08:59:00","date_gmt":"2016-08-26T06:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2016\/08\/26\/triki-s-katerimi-zenske-manipulirajo-s-tabo\/"},"modified":"2016-09-08T10:43:45","modified_gmt":"2016-09-08T08:43:45","slug":"triki-s-katerimi-zenske-manipulirajo-s-tabo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/triki-s-katerimi-zenske-manipulirajo-s-tabo\/","title":{"rendered":"Triki, s katerimi \u017eenske manipulirajo s tabo"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/profimedia-0113568878-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/profimedia-0113568878-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/profimedia-0113568878-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>foto:Profimedia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Kakorkoli pogledamo, mo\u0161ki \u017eensk v prepiru ne moremo premagati. Mogo\u010dna \u017eenska oro\u017eja (tukaj ne govorimo samo o dekolteju) bodo razoro\u017eila tudi najbolj sposobnega prepirljivca in ga prisilila na poni\u017ene besede: \u201eDa, draga.\u201c Ravnanja \u017eensk v prepiru niso v duhu fair playa, kajti \u017eal prevladujejo nizki udarci.<\/p>\n<h2>Draga se prelevi v lisico<\/h2>\n<p>Vsak mo\u0161ki je do\u017eivel zoprne prepire s partnerko. Niso zoprni zaradi dejanja samega, ampak zaradi dejstva, da se v \u010dasu prepira va\u0161a ljubljena, seksi, prijazna partnerka spremeni v premeteno lisico, ki vas je sposobna spretno verbalno prelisi\u010diti. Na koncu mo\u0161ki le priznamo lastno krivdo. V\u010dasih smo res krivi, vendar znajo tudi v primeru nedol\u017enosti \u017eenske celotno zgodbo obrniti v lastno korist.<\/p>\n<h2>\u201eDragi, pogovoriti se morava\u201c<\/h2>\n<p>Stavek, ob katerem vsakemu mo\u0161kemu zaledeni kri v \u017eilah, ker nikoli ne prina\u0161a pozitivnih stvari. To je znak, da smo nekaj storili narobe in bomo dobili svojo pridigo. \u010ceprav \u201epogovor\u201c zveni povsem nedol\u017eno, vemo, da gre za prikrit prepir, ki bo izbruhnil kaj kmalu. S tem stavkom nas \u017eenske opozorijo, da nekaj ni v redu, s \u010dimer nam dajo zelo kratek \u010das za pripravo u\u010dinkovite obrambe, \u010deprav sami nimamo pojma, kaj smo storili narobe. Specifi\u010dno ravnanje \u017eensk v prepiru se ka\u017ee v tem, da imajo \u017ee vnaprej pripravljeno svojo plat zgodbe in so pri prepiru avtomati\u010dno v prednosti.<\/p>\n<h2>Solze nas hitro zmedejo<\/h2>\n<p>Najmo\u010dnej\u0161e \u017eensko oro\u017eje, ki bo v trenutku razoro\u017eilo vsakega mo\u0161kega, so solze. Nemo\u010dni smo, ko vidimo, da so se njene \u010dudovite o\u010di zasolzile. \u0160e posebej, ker vemo, da smo mi vzrok solzic oziroma da \u017eenske tako mislijo. Ne glede na to, koliko smo jezni nanjo, bomo naredili vse, da neha jokati. Vzeli jo bomo v naro\u010dje, jo tola\u017eili in se opravi\u010devali za stvari, za katere mislimo, da smo krivi. (\u010ceprav nismo ravno prepri\u010dani, da gre za iste stvari, zaradi katerih jo\u010dejo.) \u017denske solze nas zmedejo, so nekaj, kar se mora nujno ustaviti.<\/p>\n<h2>Nikoli ne pozabijo na stare zamere<\/h2>\n<p>Zanimiv na\u010din ravnanj \u017eensk v prepiru je, kako ob vsakem prepiru uspejo najti nekaj iz preteklosti, to obrniti in povezati s trenutnim problemom. Dokler se mi \u0161e posku\u0161amo znajti in se spomniti, o \u010dem to\u010dno govorijo, so \u017eenske \u017ee dosegle vi\u0161jo stopnjo, pri kateri analizirajo pomembno povezavo teh dveh problemov, ki je mi itak \u201ene razumemo\u201c. Na tej to\u010dki smo mo\u0161ki \u017ee izgubljeni, \u017eenske pa nam brezupen pogled zaradi izgubljene niti prepira o\u010ditajo, kakor da nam ni mar in jih ne spo\u0161tujemo. Edina stvar, ki je ne razumemo, je to, zakaj nam pri prepiru ne dajo ve\u010d \u010dasa za razmislek.<\/p>\n<h2>In seveda kuhanje mule<\/h2>\n<p>Neizogibno ravnanje \u017eensk v prepiru je kuhanje mule, zaradi katere se prepir razvle\u010de tudi na nekaj dni. Dokler mo\u0161ki menimo, da je problem re\u0161en in lahko nadaljujemo normalno \u017eivljenje, \u017eenske dvignejo nos v zrak in nam servirajo tiho ma\u0161o. Po nekaj dnevih ugotovimo, da se ne jezijo zaradi ne\u010desa novega, ampak da pri\u010dakujejo opravi\u010dilo za prej\u0161nji prepir. Seveda se opravi\u010dimo, ker \u017eelimo prekiniti sovra\u017eno vedenje, toda \u017eenske ne vedo, da bistva problema verjetno \u0161e vedno nismo dojeli.<\/p>\n<h2>Potrebujemo ve\u010d \u010dasa za obrambo<\/h2>\n<p>Ravnanje \u017eensk v prepiru, kot tudi ravnanje mo\u0161kih, do\u017eivljamo in vodimo na razli\u010dnih ravneh. Pravzaprav je pravi \u010dude\u017e, da se na\u0161i vzajemni problemi sploh uspejo re\u0161iti. Mo\u0161kim bi verjetno bilo la\u017eje, \u010de bi \u017eenske razumele, da jim v prepiru nismo kos in bi nam dovolile ve\u010d \u010dasa za pripravo bolj u\u010dinkovite obrambe.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tudi ti opa\u017ea\u0161, da v prepiru vedno potegne\u0161 ta kratko? 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