{"id":12117,"date":"2016-02-10T06:01:00","date_gmt":"2016-02-10T05:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/02\/10\/sta-z-bivsim-res-lahko-prijatelja\/"},"modified":"2016-02-10T06:01:00","modified_gmt":"2016-02-10T05:01:00","slug":"sta-z-bivsim-res-lahko-prijatelja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/sta-z-bivsim-res-lahko-prijatelja\/","title":{"rendered":"Sta z biv\u0161im res lahko prijatelja?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2010\/03\/img-121202503-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2010\/03\/img-121202503-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2010\/03\/img-121202503-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>foto: Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2>Bosta ostala prijatelja?<\/h2>\n<p>\u010ceprav bi vzajemno strinjanje o razhodu bistveno olaj\u0161alo konec veze, pa do tega le redkokdaj pride. Ponavadi konec predlaga eden izmed partnerjev in nekak\u0161no nenapisano pravilo velja, da on potem ne more odlo\u010dati, kak\u0161na bo narava nadaljnjega odnosa. Lahko samo predlaga, da se veza spremeni v prijateljstvo, na drugem pa je, ali bo to sprejel ali bodo prevladali premo\u010dni ob\u010dutki jeze in \u017ealosti. Prekiniti vezo nikoli ni lahko, saj par ve\u017eejo spomini na mnoge lepe dogodke, ob katerih tudi slabi trenutki zbledijo v ni\u010d. Prijateljstvo je mirovna ponudba, ki razhod malce omili, saj pu\u0161\u010denemu partnerju da vedeti, da bo ljubljena oseba \u0161e vedno ostala v njegovem \u017eivljenju in se od nje lahko lo\u010di postopoma. Kljub temu, da se z njo lahko \u0161e vedno ob\u010dasno dobi na kavici, pa lahko pogled na to osebo zbuja tudi \u017ealostne ob\u010dutke. Prav zato dobivanje na kavici ne traja dolgo in \u010de, se lahko kon\u010da \u0161e huje kot sam konec veze. Zelo te\u017eko je ostati z biv\u0161im partnerjem v prijateljskih odnosih.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Zakaj z biv\u0161im\/biv\u0161o ne moreta ostati prijatelja?<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Ni pravega zaupanja<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u010ceprav se biv\u0161a partnerja trudita ostati prava prijatelja, to le redkim resni\u010dno uspe. Namre\u010d biv\u0161emu partnerju zelo te\u017eko zaupa\u0161, da ima\u0161 zanimiv zmenek ali pa da gre\u0161 z nekom drugim na po\u010ditnice. Tudi debate o seksu z drugimi osebami ste\u010dejo izjemno te\u017eko. \u010ceprav se lahko mo\u010dno trudite izogibati se takim pogovorom, pa se bo vseeno prej ali slej zgodilo, da bo vsaj eden od vaju spoznal novega partnerja in \u010detudi se bosta trudila dajati vtis, da je vse v redu, nikoli resni\u010dno ne veste, kaj biv\u0161i partner ob tak\u0161nih novicah in pogovorih resni\u010dno \u010duti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pojavi se lahko ljubosumje<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Neprijetni ob\u010dutki, ki jih prinese konec veze, se nadaljujejo tudi v prijateljstvu. Tak\u0161ni ob\u010dutki nemalokrat prinesejo tudi ljubosumje, najve\u010dkrat ob novih poznanstvih in vstopanju novih oseb v \u017eivljenje biv\u0161ih partnerjev. Pod takimi pogoji je zelo te\u017eko biti iskreno vesel za partnerjevo sre\u010do v novi ljubezni. \u010ceprav ljubezenska \u010dustva s\u010dasoma minejo, pa je vseeno biv\u0161ega partnerja te\u017eko gledati v objemu drugega \u010dloveka.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tekmovalnost<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Poleg ljubosumja se lahko pojavi tekmovanje v smislu, kdo si bo prej na\u0161el novega partnerja. To je \u0161e posebno velik izziv za tisto osebo, ki je bila pu\u0161\u010dena, saj \u017eeli dati ob\u010dutek, da je vse v redu, da se je zelo hitro pobrala na noge in ponovno za\u017eivela v novem razmerju.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Strast, ki vodi v seks<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Na prijateljstvo dveh biv\u0161ih partnerjev lahko vpliva tudi strast, ki med njima kljub koncu veze \u0161e ni ugasnila. To lahko vodi ali v bole\u010dino ali pa v seks brez obveznosti, ki prav tako vodi v bole\u010dino, saj tak\u0161en seks z osebo, do katere imate, za razliko od nje, \u0161e vedno ljubezenska \u010dustva, nikoli ni pametna ideja. V to vaju lahko vodijo \u017ee malenkosti kot je vonj parfuma ali pesem, ki sta jo iz tak\u0161nega ali druga\u010dnega razloga ozna\u010dila za vajino.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vpra\u0161anje novega partnerja<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dostikrat se zgodi, da se prijateljstvo biv\u0161ih partnerjev zaklju\u010di takrat, ko v \u017eivljenje enega od njiju vstopi nova ljubljena oseba. To se lahko zgodi popolnoma spontano, lahko je odraz spo\u0161tovanja do novega partnerja, ali pa je to direktna \u017eelja novega partnerja.<\/p>\n<p>Kakorkoli \u017ee, veliko je razlogov, da biv\u0161a partnerja ostaneta prijatelja, \u0161e ve\u010d pa jih je, da prijateljstvo ne traja dolgo.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mnogi partnerji si po koncu zveze obljubijo, da bodo ostali prijatelji. 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