{"id":12203,"date":"2016-02-01T10:15:20","date_gmt":"2016-02-01T09:15:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/02\/01\/kako-premagati-osamljenost-ko-smo-brez-partnerja\/"},"modified":"2016-02-01T10:15:20","modified_gmt":"2016-02-01T09:15:20","slug":"kako-premagati-osamljenost-ko-smo-brez-partnerja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/kako-premagati-osamljenost-ko-smo-brez-partnerja\/","title":{"rendered":"Kako premagati osamljenost, ko smo brez partnerja?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2013\/06\/img-170690960-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2013\/06\/img-170690960-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2013\/06\/img-170690960-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>Foto: Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><strong>Te\u017eave samskega \u017eivljenja<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u010ceprav samsko \u017eivljenje prina\u0161a mnoge prednosti, ve\u010dkrat za seboj potegne tudi svoje te\u017eave. \u0160e posebej, \u010de imate ob\u010dutek, da niste samski po svoji volji, marve\u010d zaradi spleta okoli\u0161\u010din. Dodatne te\u017eave vam bodo morda povzro\u010dala tudi mnenja drugih, ki vas bodo priganjali v novo zvezo in govorili kli\u0161ejske stavke, da je skrajni \u010das, da se poro\u010dite in da \u010dakate predolgo \u010dasa. Za nekatere je intimnost samskega \u017eivljenja velika prednost, saj u\u017eivajo v situaciji, da lahko po\u010dnejo, kar jih je volja, za mnoge druge pa prav samota povzro\u010da najhuj\u0161i problem in celo depresijo. Posameznik, ki ima stalnega partnerja, ima verjetno redne spolne odnose in \u010dustveno kontinuiteto v enem samem razmerju. Za razliko od samskega posameznika, ki se mora zatekati k dvema popolnoma lo\u010denima izvoroma. Toplino in dru\u017ebo recimo najde pri prijateljih in sorodnikih, spolne odnose pa mora poiskati na povsem drugem naslovu. In prav tu se ve\u010dkrat pojavi problem, saj samski posameznik ve\u010dkrat pristane v spolne odnose, za katere mu je kasneje \u017eal, saj ga ne napolnijo tudi \u010dustveno, marve\u010d zadovoljijo le njegove telesne potrebe. Upanje, da bi dobil \u0161e kak objem in romanti\u010den ve\u010der, pa se ve\u010dkrat izka\u017ee za la\u017enega, saj je seksualni partner ponavadi vezan in poro\u010den.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Nikar se ne izolirajte od dru\u017ebe<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u010ce ste samski, boste \u0161e zmeraj hoteli biti navezani na koga, zato je pomembno, da imate okrog sebe mre\u017eo ljudi, ki vam kaj pomenijo in ki poskrbijo za vas. To so lahko prijatelji, sorodniki, morda celo nekdanji ljubimci, vseeno kdo, va\u017eno je, da se lahko kadarkoli obrnete nanje, \u0161e posebej, ko ste v stiski in ko potrebujete koga, da vas potola\u017ei ali da z vami kaj praznuje. Prijatelji morajo imeti ob\u010dutek, da se lahko tudi sami obrnejo kdaj na vas, tako da \u010dustvene opore ne sprejemajte samo vi, saj se lahko zgodi, da jim boste zaradi prevelikega tarnanja za\u010deli iti na \u017eivce. Prav tarnanje je klju\u010dnega pomena, zato se z dru\u017ebo tudi spro\u0161\u010dajte in sku\u0161ajte ob\u010dasno pozabiti na svoje osebne te\u017eave. Ob\u010dutek, da lahko u\u017eivate v bli\u017eini dolgoletnih prijateljev, je najbolj\u0161a kompenzacija za ob\u010dutek trajne gotovosti in pozornosti, ki ste ga lahko dele\u017eni v stalnem spolnem partnerstvu.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Kaj storiti, ko pride do potrebe po telesni bli\u017eini?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Ena od najhuj\u0161ih prikraj\u0161anosti, s katerimi se sre\u010duje samska oseba, je brez dvoma telesna naklonjenost, ali \u0161e bolje, telesna predanost partnerja. Samozadovoljevanje sicer lahko nadome\u0161\u010da seks, ampak za tola\u017ebo, ki jo prineseta \u010dlove\u0161ki stik in objem, \u0161e posebno pri \u017eenskah ni nadomestila. V pravem razmerju lahko izra\u017eate in sprejemate ljube\u010de kretnje, ki so samo to in ni\u010d drugega in ki ne pomenijo obveznosti, da bi jih morali razvijati naprej, \u010de niste razpolo\u017eeni za kaj takega. Ampak \u017eenskam je v stalnem heteroseksualnem razmerju te\u017eko priti do neseksualnih oblik naklonjenosti. \u010ce ste samski, se boste verjetno obrnili na prijatelje, saj boste potrebovali preproste oblike naklonjenosti, ki so osnovna \u010dlove\u0161ka potreba. Ko spoznavate nove partnerje, pa bodite pozorni na svojo \u010dustveno ranljivost, saj bi jo znali mo\u0161ki grdo izkoristiti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>V obdobju brez stalnega partnerja mnogi pogre\u0161amo toplino in bli\u017eino so\u010dloveka. 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