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Sociolo\u0161ko raziskovanje ljubosumja<\/h2>\n

Raziskovanje ljubosumja <\/b>zahteva preu\u010devanje vloge, ki jo ljubosumje <\/b>zavzema v dru\u017ebi in v odnosih med njenimi \u010dlani. Ralph B. Hupka v svojem prispevku z naslovom ‘Kulturne determinante ‘ljubosumja’<\/b> zapi\u0161e, da se nobena dru\u017eba ni mogla v preteklosti in se ne more danes izogniti ugotovitvi ogro\u017eenosti v polo\u017eaju ljubosumja<\/b>. Posamezni dru\u017ebeni modeli le spreminjajo situacije, v katerih ljubosumje<\/b> nastopi.<\/p>\n

Isti avtor nadaljuje: \u010dustva in \u010dustveni odzivi, tako kot vse delovanje \u010dloveka, so postala del socialnega okolja. Preden se ljubosumje<\/b> lahko zbudi, se moramo nau\u010diti vrednosti romanti\u010dnih odnosov, motivov za ljubosumje,<\/b> cilje ljubosumja<\/b>, dogodkov, ki ga proizvedejo in njegovih izrazov.<\/p>\n

Nasvete za bolj\u0161i partnerski odnos in spolnost najdete na IntimateMedicine!<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Se ljubosumja res nau\u010dimo?<\/h2>\n

Tudi O’Neill pojasnjuje, da je ljubosumje<\/b> v prvi vrsti nau\u010den odgovor, ki ga dolo\u010da stali\u0161\u010de posamezne kulture. \u010ce je v nekaterih kulturah ljubosumje<\/b> zelo redko, denimo pri Eskimih, pri plemenu Toda v Indiji pa ga skoraj ni, drugje pa je splo\u0161en pojav, lahko re\u010demo, da ljubosumje<\/b> ni prirojen na\u010din obna\u0161anja.<\/p>\n

Ljubosumje je povezano s spolnimi navadami<\/h2>\n

Kot zanimivosti so v nadaljevanju opisana razli\u010dna pravila \u010dustvovanja za ljubosumje<\/b> in spolne navade, ki veljajo oz. so veljale v razli\u010dnih kulturnih okoljih. Ljubosumje<\/b> je namre\u010d tesno povezano s spolnimi navadami dolo\u010dene kulture in ker ve\u010dina poro\u010dil o teh navadah ne govori o \u010dustvih oz. izrecno o ljubosumju<\/b>, je skoraj nemogo\u010de ugotoviti, kdaj gre za re\u0161evanje situacije ljubosumja, kdaj pa za golo upo\u0161tevanje navad dolo\u010denega kraja, kot pravita Lutz in White.<\/p>\n

Nasvete za bolj\u0161i partnerski odnos in spolnost najdete na IntimateMedicine!<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Dojemanje ljubosumja tu in tam<\/h2>\n

– Za Shone iz Zimbabveja ljubosumje<\/b> prepre\u010duje smrt otrok.<\/p>\n

– Indijsko pleme Toda: poro\u010dena oseba ima lahko ljubimca, kar ne povzro\u010di ljubosumja. Hudo ljubosumje <\/b>pa povzro\u010di razmerje \u017eene z nekom, ki ni iz njihovega plemena.<\/p>\n

– Med andaluzijskimi \u0160panci velja, da ljubosumje<\/b> mo\u0161kega ohranja njegovo \u010dast v o\u010deh skupnosti (Pitt-Rivers).<\/p>\n

– V plemenu Yanomana je za mo\u017ea pomembneje, da se \u017eeninemu ljubimcu odkupi z darili in s postre\u017ebo, kot pa da bi ga skrbela njena nezvestoba (Harris).<\/p>\n

– V plemenu Bakongo v Afriki velja pravilo, da mora mo\u0161ki pla\u010dati za ‘uporabo lastnine \u017eene mo\u017eu \u00bbnajemnino\u00ab’. \u010ce ne more pla\u010dati, mora delati na mo\u017eevem polju. Vi\u0161ina najemnine je odvisna od trajanja razmerja in vrednosti \u017eene, ki jo dolo\u010di mo\u017e (Weeks).<\/p>\n

– Plemena Plateau v Zimbabveju so prepri\u010dana, da je smrt otroka ali matere med porodom znak pre\u0161u\u0161tva. Ko med porodom umira mati ali njen otrok, jo vpra\u0161ajo za ime ljubimca, ki je prav tako kriv (Gouldsbury-Sheane).<\/p>\n

– Pripadniki plemena Yao iz Afrike verjamejo, da nezvetoba mo\u017ea pred ali nose\u010dnostjo lahko povzro\u010di po\u0161kodbo matere ali otroka (White-Mullen).<\/p>\n

Nasvete za bolj\u0161i partnerski odnos in spolnost najdete na IntimateMedicine!<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

– Dva para iz plemena Ammassalik v Grenlandiji se lahko dogovorita za izmenjavo partnerjev, \u010de sta oba za to. Pri tem je pomemben tudi obred ‘odna\u0161anja lu\u010di’. Mo\u0161ki namre\u010d vedno dovoli drugemu, da ima spolne odnose z njegovo \u017eeno, vendar mora pred tem obredno odnesti lu\u010d iz bivali\u0161\u010da (Mead, Mirsky)<\/p>\n

Iz opisanih primerov je poleg razli\u010dne vloge ljubosumja<\/b> v dru\u017ebi (npr. ohranjanje \u017eivljenja otrok, \u010dast mo\u0161kega) mogo\u010de opaziti tudi razli\u010den odnos do monogamije ter poligamnih spolnih odnosov. Ljubosumje je tako mo\u010dnej\u0161e v kulturi, ki temelji na monogamni obliki zakona, K. Davis pa gre \u0161e korak dlje, ko pravi, da dru\u017eba celo vzpodbuja posameznike, da na partnerjevo nezvestobo ljubosumno reagira z jezo in kaznovanjem, saj \u017eeli na tak na\u010din ohraniti ustanovo zakonske zveze.<\/p>\n

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