{"id":12441,"date":"2016-01-13T06:11:12","date_gmt":"2016-01-13T05:11:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/01\/13\/zenska-mora-potrpeti\/"},"modified":"2016-01-13T06:11:12","modified_gmt":"2016-01-13T05:11:12","slug":"zenska-mora-potrpeti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/zenska-mora-potrpeti\/","title":{"rendered":"\u017denska mora potrpeti!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Sama pravim, da to ni res in da je to percepcija mo\u0161kega, ki si je spri\u010do svoje fizi\u010dne nadmo\u010di podjarmil \u017eensko, a to se je zgodilo seveda \u017ee kar nekaj tiso\u010dletij nazaj. Danes pa \u017eivimo v svetu, v katerem eden brez drugega ne moremo in ne znamo. Tako mo\u0161ki kot \u017eenska imata svoje edinstvene lastnosti in ko se najdeta dva, ki \u00bbvle\u010deta\u00ab eden iz drugega tisto najbolj \u017elahtno in dobro, prijetno in zdravo, potem je par na odli\u010dni poti, da bo njuna zveza trdna, ljube\u010da in bosta pripadna eden drugemu za vekomaj.<\/p>\n

Ko pa sli\u0161im, da mora \u017eenska potrpeti in razumeti, da je njen mo\u0161ki po cele dneve po gostilnah, da ko pride domov, zahteva ve\u010derjo in seks, da se ne ukvarja z vzgojo otrok, ker je preve\u010d utrujen ali nima \u010dasa za potrebe svoje \u017eenske ali drugih dru\u017einskih \u010dlanov, potem pa mi zavre mal\u010dek kri, ker je tak\u0161en odnos dale\u010d od tega, da bi bil skladen in ljube\u010d. Preve\u010d je parov, ki \u017eivijo takole mimobe\u017eno, kot sem opisala v tem odstavku. Res jih je odlo\u010dno prevelika \u0161tevilka, da bi se jo dalo ignorirati. Ker tak\u0161ni pari vzgajajo sebi podobne potomce, s pribli\u017eno enakimi vzorci, ki bodo \u017ealibog, ponavljali \u017ealostno in mizerno zgodbo svojih star\u0161ev. Zato dajmo ta krog pretrgati, ga ozavestiti in mu dati novo energijo.<\/p>\n

Meje je treba postaviti \u017ee na za\u010detku!<\/h2>\n

Da se njen mo\u0161ki tako nespo\u0161tljivo vede do nje, je tudi odgovornost same \u017eenske. Prosim, da si tukaj kar nalijemo \u010distega vina ali vode! Ker, ko me dame ne postavimo odlo\u010dne meje \u017ee pri prvem prestopku partnerja in mu jasno, spo\u0161tljivo in odlo\u010dno ne povemo, da se z njegovim dejanjem ali odlo\u010ditvijo nikakor ne strinjamo ter smo pri izra\u017eanju lastnih potreb in \u017eelja odlo\u010dne in jasne, transparentne, potem verjemite, da bo tudi na\u0161 mo\u0161ki spremenil svoj odnos v bolj pozitivno in ustrezno smer. No, seveda, poudarjam: tak\u0161ne meje mu je potrebno dati \u017ee takoj na za\u010detku zaljubljenosti, ko je \u0161e ves nor na vas in bo vse naredil, da vas osre\u010di. Kasneje \u00bbprevzgajati\u00ab partnerja, ko je \u017ee dobil nadvlado in ste \u017ee bili ustrahovani, je na \u017ealost zelo prepozno.<\/p>\n

Zato, dame moje, nikar si recite \u00bbeh, bom \u017ee potrpela, saj bo bolj\u0161e, enkrat se bo pa \u017ee spremenil\u00ab. Ker se sam od sebe zagotovo ne bo in ne bo \u010dez no\u010d postal tisti mo\u0161ki, v katerega ste se mnoga leta nazaj zagledale in ki vam je dajal za za\u010detku zveze mnogo ve\u010d kot sedaj. Ker ste tudi same dovolile, da vam ni ve\u010d dajal tega, do \u010desar ste upravi\u010dene, to pa je spo\u0161tovanje, ljube\u010da naklonjenost, dr\u017eanje dogovorov in zvestoba. Pri tem vam lahko pomagam tudi jaz, saj svetujem mnogim damam, kako iz tak\u0161nega \u00bbza\u010daranega\u00ab kroga. Rezultati so, ko za\u010dnemo delati na lastnih strahovih in vsajenih prepri\u010danjih. Pogumno. Same smo ustvarjalke lastnih odlo\u010ditev.<\/p>\n

Avtorica prispevka sem univerzitetna diplomirana socialna pedagoginja in diplomirana socialna delavka Melita Kuhar<\/strong>, ki vodim projekt Svetovalnica<\/strong>, www.svetovalnica.si<\/a><\/strong><\/span>, dosegljiva sem na tel.\u0161t. 031 666 168<\/strong>. \u010ce bi se radi naro\u010dili na individualno svetovanje ali me kaj povpra\u0161ali, pi\u0161ite na: info@svetovalnica.si<\/a><\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Ve\u010d o zgoraj napisanem si lahko preberete tudi socialnem omre\u017eju www.facebook.com\/Svetovalnica<\/a><\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Poslu\u0161am zadnji\u010d debato, da kako smo \u017eenske v partnerskem odnosu lahko mo\u010dne, pa sposobne, pa izobra\u017eene, pa iznajdljive, pa ve\u010d opravil hkrati lahko po\u010dnemo, obenem pa da moramo znati tudi potrpeti nesposobnost ali lenobo, nespo\u0161tovanje in \u017ealjiv ali podcenjevalen odnos partnerja. Ker to baje nekako spada v arzenal \u017eenskih lastnosti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1092],"tags":[1427],"source":[1365,1364,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n\u017denska mora potrpeti! - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/zenska-mora-potrpeti\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"\u017denska mora potrpeti! - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Poslu\u0161am zadnji\u010d debato, da kako smo \u017eenske v partnerskem odnosu lahko mo\u010dne, pa sposobne, pa izobra\u017eene, pa iznajdljive, pa ve\u010d opravil hkrati lahko po\u010dnemo, obenem pa da moramo znati tudi potrpeti nesposobnost ali lenobo, nespo\u0161tovanje in \u017ealjiv ali podcenjevalen odnos partnerja. 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