{"id":12449,"date":"2016-01-12T06:03:17","date_gmt":"2016-01-12T05:03:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/01\/12\/ali-drzi-da-se-nasprotja-privlacijo\/"},"modified":"2016-01-12T06:03:17","modified_gmt":"2016-01-12T05:03:17","slug":"ali-drzi-da-se-nasprotja-privlacijo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/ali-drzi-da-se-nasprotja-privlacijo\/","title":{"rendered":"Ali dr\u017ei, da se nasprotja privla\u010dijo?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/03\/img-470827647-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/03\/img-470827647-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/03\/img-470827647-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>Foto: Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2>Po poteh ljudske modrosti<\/h2>\n<p>Ljudska modrost povzema izku\u0161njo \u2013 ki so jo raziskave \u0161e potrdile \u2013 v kratek stavek: \u00bbNasprotja se privla\u010dijo\u00ab. Vse ka\u017ee na to, da je medsebojna privla\u010dnost partnerjev z razli\u010dnimi lastnostmi v zvezi z nagnjenjem posameznika, ki i\u0161\u010de partnerja, in hkrati z nagonom za ohranitev vrste.<\/p>\n<p>Vsakdo nosi v sebi nekaj takega, kar bi lahko poimenovali \u00bbpopolna podoba \u010dloveka\u00ab. Tisto, kar njemu manjka, se mu zdi pri drugem posebno za\u017eeleno in vredno ljubezni.<\/p>\n<h2>Narava pri tem odigra pomembno vlogo<\/h2>\n<p>Zdi se, da ho\u010de narava z novimi in novimi zdru\u017eitvami nasprotujo\u010dih si zasnov in bistvenih struktur prepre\u010diti ve\u010dje polarizacije in nezdru\u017eljivosti v nadaljnjem razvoju dedne zasnove. Tako ostaja komunikacija mo\u017ena, ker nastaja zmeraj spet nova me\u0161anica najrazli\u010dnej\u0161ih zasnov in pogojev. Kar privede do situacije, da se vrsta morda razbremenjuje napetosti in polarizacij \u2013 posamezno partnerstvo pa trpi in mora za to pla\u010devati svoj prispevek v obliki ve\u010djih napetosti.<\/p>\n<h2>Neko\u010d je bilo druga\u010de<\/h2>\n<p>Neko\u010d je bila koncentracija nasprotij v partnerskih razmerjih zato manj\u0161a, ker so se v stanovsko raz\u010dlenjeni dru\u017ebi, urejeni v \u0161e preglednih enotah, ljudje poro\u010dali znotraj iste dru\u017ebene skupine. Posameznik se je poro\u010dil s sebi enako \u017eensko in se s tem izognil konfliktom. Kolikor bolj se dru\u017eba me\u0161a in zdru\u017euje, toliko ve\u010dja in bolj mnogostranska je ponudba nasprotij, ki delujejo kot magnetni poli.<\/p>\n<p>Zato zasanjan, \u010dustven \u010dlovek i\u0161\u010de in najde hladnega in treznega; klepetavi najde mol\u010de\u010dega partnerja; tisti, ki zgodaj vstaja pa takega, ki rad dolgo spi;\u00a0 dru\u017eaben tip pa najde samotarja.<\/p>\n<h2>Statistika je na strani &#8216;nasprotja se privla\u010dijo&#8217;<\/h2>\n<p>\u0160tiri petine vseh zakonov se sklene po na\u010delu \u00bbnasprotja se privla\u010dijo\u00ab in kve\u010djemu ena petina po nasprotnem pravilu \u00bbgliha vkup \u0161triha\u00ab. To najprej zadovoljuje iskanje dopolnitve, na dalj\u0161i rok pa povzro\u010da spore in zmeraj spet ob\u010dutek, da partner \u010dloveka ne razume. \u010ce partnerja poleg nasprotij nimata tudi skupnih lastnosti, je re\u0161itev ali vsaj ubla\u017eitev konfliktov te\u017eavna. Glede nasprotnih in skupnih lastnosti partnerjev si lahko predstavljamo tri modele:-\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0harmoni\u010dna skupnost-\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0konstruktivna nasprotnost-\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0destruktivna nasprotnost<\/p>\n<p>Zveza, v kateri je veliko dejavnikov skupnih, poteka dokazljivo trdneje in z manj spori. Taki skupni dejavniki pa naj bi bili: poreklo in dru\u017eabno okolje, starost in \u0161olska izobrazba, poklic in prosto\u010dasni interesi, veroizpoved in politi\u010dno prepri\u010danje, privzgojeni na\u010dini partnerskega so\u017eitja in seveda tudi prirojene ali pridobljene lastnosti zna\u010daja in temperamenta. Slika je preprosta: ve\u010d skupnega imata partnerja, ve\u010d obojestranskega potrjevanja in razumevanja je med njima. Kdor i\u0161\u010de, ta najde, ali pa se vse to enostavno zgodi?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To, da se &#8216;nasprotja se privla\u010dijo&#8217; ve\u010dini zveni zelo znano, koliko pa je takih, ki to stanje dejansko \u017eivijo, je pa drugo vpra\u0161anje.\u00a0So nasprotja gonilo veze? Se jih da zgladiti? 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