{"id":12465,"date":"2017-01-17T07:01:27","date_gmt":"2017-01-17T06:01:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/01\/11\/5-stvari-ki-jih-moski-najbolj-zamerijo-svojim-zenskam\/"},"modified":"2017-01-27T09:05:29","modified_gmt":"2017-01-27T08:05:29","slug":"5-stvari-ki-jih-moski-najbolj-zamerijo-svojim-zenskam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/5-stvari-ki-jih-moski-najbolj-zamerijo-svojim-zenskam\/","title":{"rendered":"5 stvari, ki jih mo\u0161ki najbolj zamerijo svojim \u017eenskam"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2015\/01\/img-465251909-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2015\/01\/img-465251909-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2015\/01\/img-465251909-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>Foto: Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><strong>1. &#8220;Slabe&#8221;prepire<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Definicija sre\u010dnega para ni, da sta to dva zaljubljenca, ki se nikoli ne kregata, ampak dva zaljubljenca, ki to po\u010dneta kvalitetno in konstruktivno.Raziskave so pokazale, da obi\u010dajno \u017eenske na\u010dnejo problem, ki jih mu\u010di, mo\u0161ki pa od takih\u00a0pogovorov ob prvi negativni opazki\u00a0pobegnejo. Zato, namesto da re\u010dete: &#8220;Spet bova zamudila zaradi tebe,&#8221; recite: &#8220;\u010ce greva nekam skupaj in zamujava, mi gre to na \u017eivce.&#8221; Torej, ne obsojajte in valite krivde nanj, ampak samo iskreno povejte, kaj \u010dutite.<\/p>\n<h2><strong> 2. Pokroviteljski odnos<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>V velikem \u0161tevilu parov imajo mo\u0161ki ob\u010dutek, da \u017eenska dela z njimi kot z otrokom oziroma da na njih gleda z vi\u0161ka. Pokroviteljski nastop lahko zelo vpliva na samozavest mo\u0161kega in se bo ob tem po\u010dutil nelagodno. Nih\u010de si ne \u017eeli, da ga v zvezi nekdo ves \u010das nadzira, zato se vsekakor izogibajte izvajanju pritiska. Vzdr\u017eite se tega, da \u017eelite svojega partnerja ves \u010das spreminjati, pa naj gre za \u010disto povr\u0161insko stvar, recimo glede njegove vizualnosti, ali pa za kak\u0161no karakterno lastnost.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>3. Prito\u017eevanje prijateljicam<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Na videz ne\u0161kodljivo pojasnjevanje svojih problemov najbli\u017ejim prijateljicam lahko naredi veliko \u0161kode v partnerskem odnosu. Mo\u0161ke namre\u010d \u0161e posebno boli, \u010de izvejo, da za njihovo &#8220;umazano perilo&#8221; v zvezi vedno \u0161e tretje osebe. &#8220;Zaradi tega so osramo\u010deni in jezni,&#8221; trdi ameri\u0161ka terapevtka Norene Gonsiewski. \u010ce \u017ee imate potrebo po tem, da se z nekom pogovorite o va\u0161i zvezi, za to raje izberite profesionalnega svetovalca.<\/p>\n<h2><strong> 4. Premalo hvale\u017enosti in pohval<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Nih\u010de ne \u017eeli biti v zvezi, v kateri ni cenjen. \u017denske vedno rade potarnamo partnerju, kako ne ceni dovolj vsega, kar postorimo po stanovanju, medtem ko je mo\u0161kim te\u017eko na glas priznati, da nih\u010de ne ceni njihovega dela. No, \u017ee redna zahvala za opravljanje gospodinjskih opravil, pohvala za dobro opravljeno delo oziroma na nek na\u010din izra\u017eanja tega, da smo nanj in na to, kar po\u010dne, ponosni, je pomemben faktor za oba spola. Bodite pozorni na vsakodnevne malenkosti in bodite hvale\u017ene svojemu partnerju.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Izklju\u010devanje iz pomembnih odlo\u010ditev<\/h2>\n<p><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong>\u0160tevilne raziskave so pokazale, da je denar glavni razlog za prepire med partnerjema. Tudi v takih zvezah, kjer imata oba dovolj denarja. \u0160tevilno denar izena\u010dujejo z mo\u010djo, zato odlo\u010ditve o tro\u0161enje tega denarja lahko pripeljejo do \u0161tevilnih problemov. Ne glede na to, ali kupujete nov pralni stroj\u00a0ali pa na\u010drtujete dopust, oba partnerja bi morala o tem izraziti svoje mnenje in skupaj priti do odlo\u010ditve. Enako velja glede vabil gostov na ve\u010derjo, vpisovanje otrok na ob\u0161olske dejavnosti in podobno.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nih\u010de ni popoln in vsaka zveza zahteva veliko dela, da bi bila uspe\u0161na. Dolgoletni partnerji pogosto pozabljajo, da si ne morejo brati misli in \u017eelja drug drugemu, pomanjkanje iskrene in odprte komunikacije pa izzove slabo voljo in pripelje do problemov, ki se zdijo nere\u0161ljivi. Poglejte, katere so najve\u010dje \u017eenske napake v zvezi in kako se jim izogniti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1092],"tags":[1400,1689,2852],"source":[1365,1364,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>5 stvari, ki jih mo\u0161ki najbolj zamerijo svojim \u017eenskam - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/5-stvari-ki-jih-moski-najbolj-zamerijo-svojim-zenskam\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"5 stvari, ki jih mo\u0161ki najbolj zamerijo svojim \u017eenskam - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Nih\u010de ni popoln in vsaka zveza zahteva veliko dela, da bi bila uspe\u0161na. 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