{"id":12599,"date":"2017-01-07T06:01:00","date_gmt":"2017-01-07T05:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/12\/31\/zakaj-so-romanticne-komedije-slabe-za-tvoj-seks\/"},"modified":"2017-01-17T14:56:21","modified_gmt":"2017-01-17T13:56:21","slug":"zakaj-so-romanticne-komedije-slabe-za-tvoj-seks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/zakaj-so-romanticne-komedije-slabe-za-tvoj-seks\/","title":{"rendered":"Zakaj so romanti\u010dne komedije slabe za tvoj seks?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.zenska.si\/seks-partnerstvo\/spolnost\/kako-nam-romanticne-komedije-kvarijo-seksualno-zivljenje\/galerija\/how-to-lose-a-guy-in-10-days\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-202902\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-202902\" title=\"how-to-lose-a-guy-in-10-days\" src=\"http:\/\/www.zenska.si\/files\/2012\/01\/how-to-lose-a-guy-in-10-days-660x431.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"660\" height=\"431\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/01\/how-to-lose-a-guy-in-10-days-320x209.jpg 320w, http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/01\/how-to-lose-a-guy-in-10-days-660x431.jpg 660w, http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/01\/how-to-lose-a-guy-in-10-days.jpg 445w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Romanti\u010dne komedije proizvajajo nerealna pri\u010dakovanja<\/h2>\n<p>Psihologi z univerze v Edinburghu trdijo, da lahko nenehno gledanje <strong>romanti\u010dnih komedij pokvari<\/strong> na\u0161e ljubezensko in seksualno \u017eivljenje, saj nas navaja na nerealna pri\u010dakovanja glede partnerskih zvez. Strokovnjaki pojasnjujejo, da tisti, ki svoj odnos do ljubezni oblikujejo na podlagi dogajanja v filmskih prizorih, velikokrat pozabijo na komunikacijo s svojim partnerjem ali partnerko in se predajo golemu sanjarjenju. Veliko razmi\u0161ljajo o tem, kak\u0161no popolno zvezo bi radi s partnerjem imeli in ker je realnost druga\u010dna od filmskega platna, prihaja do velikih razo\u010daranj.<\/p>\n<h2>V filmih prevladujejo tipi\u010dni stereotipi<\/h2>\n<p>Strokovnjaki so preu\u010dili 40 filmskih hitov v obdobju od leta 1995 do leta 2000, v katerih so predstavljeni razli\u010dni stereotipni ljubezenski motivi, ki nimajo niti najmanj\u0161e primerjave z realnostjo. Raziskava je pokazala, da osebe, ki romanti\u010dne filme gledajo zelo pogosto, verjamejo v usodo in v usodno sre\u010danje z ve\u010dno ljubeznijo. Strokovnjaki poudarjajo, da je problem v tem, ker taki filmi dajejo vtis, da si osebe, ki so si usojene, povsem zaupajo in so si predane od tistega trenutka ko se sre\u010dajo. V resni\u010dnem \u017eivljenju pa je za to potrebnih kar nekaj let trdne zveze.<\/p>\n<h2>Seks mora biti vedno perfekten<\/h2>\n<p>\u010ceprav nas teoreti\u010dno ve\u010dina razume, da ideja o perfektnem zakonu in seksualnem \u017eivljenju ni realisti\u010dna, mediji in romanti\u010dne komedije vseeno vplivajo na nas v taki meri, da tega ne jemljemo ve\u010d za samoumevno. Nekateri tako smatrajo, da mora biti seks vedno perfekten, partner &#8220;ki je ustvarjen samo za nas&#8221; pa mora \u017ee takoj vedeti, kaj je tisto, kar nam v postelji najbolj ustreza, kljub temu, da mu tega ne povemo. Da ne govorimo o tem, da v filmih prakti\u010dno nikoli ne vidimo predigre in da pride do orgazma hitreje, kot bi mignil.<\/p>\n<p>Romanti\u010dne komedije nas torej vodijo v svet nerealnih pri\u010dakovanj, usodnih sre\u010danj in ve\u010dno sre\u010dnih koncev, ki pa se v realnosti spreobrnejo v marsikaj drugega.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Preveri, kako napa\u010dne predstave o ljubezni in seksu nam dajejo romanti\u010dni filmi. 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