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Danes zjutraj se je moja 5-letnica oblekla z nadzvo\u010dno hitrostjo. Obi\u010dajno se ne. Nato se je pognala proti vhodnim vratom. \u0160ele takrat sem dojela. Zanima jo, \u010de je Dedek Mraz vzel njeno pismo, ki mu ga je v\u010deraj zve\u010der pustila na pragu. Pohitela sem za njo; ne zaradi nje, ampak ker sem sama \u017eelela biti del tega. \u017delela sem biti del \u010darobnega trenutka. Odklenili sva vrata, jih odprli in oh! Pisma ni bilo ve\u010d! Ko me je objela, sem \u010dutila kako sre\u010dna in polna pri\u010dakovanja je. Da je pred \u00a0njo teden, ko bo hrepenela, se spra\u0161evala in pri\u010dakovala.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne vzemimo otroku hrepenenja<\/h2>\n

Pot v vrtec je bila danes nekaj posebnega. Nisva veliko govorili, \u010dutiti pa je bilo oblak \u010darobnosti v katerega se je danes odela. Cel dan bo poseben zaradi tega drobnega \u010dude\u017ea. In zdaj lahko \u010daka ter hrepeni. Motimo se, \u010de mislimo, da otrok najlep\u0161e do\u017eivi ob samem darilu. Darilo je zadnja postaja, takrat vse uplahne. \u010carobnost pri\u010dakovanja, lepota hrepenenja je tista, ki otroku da najlep\u0161a ob\u010dutenja in pomembno izku\u0161njo. Ne gre za to, da ga moramo nau\u010diti \u010dakanja. Gre za to, da mu ne odvzamemo hrepenenja. Da mu \u017eelje ne izpolnimo takoj, ko se porodi, ali celo \u0161e preden se to zgodi. Otrok, ki je vedno znova oropan hrepenenja, je prikraj\u0161an za paleto najlep\u0161ih ob\u010dutkov. Otrok, ki nima mo\u017enosti \u010dakati in hrepeneti, bo v najstni\u0161kih letih poln nestrpnosti do samega sebe in v nevarnosti, da bo \u017eelel hitrih zadovoljitev, ki jih na naraven na\u010din ni mogo\u010de dobiti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Moje dekle \u0161e verjame. Vem pa, da me \u010daka dan, ko me bo vpra\u0161ala, \u010de je res, da Dedek Mraz ne obstaja. In bolj ko razmi\u0161ljam o tem, bolj se tega dneva veselim. Ne bom ji razblinila sanj in \u010darobnosti tega meseca, temve\u010d ga bom oplemenitila.<\/span><\/p>\n

Veselje v osre\u010devaju drugih<\/h2>\n

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Povedala ji bom, da v taki obliki, kot si ga predstavlja res ne obstaja. Da ni stari mo\u017e s ku\u010dmo na glavi, ampak je veliko ve\u010d. Povedala ji bom, da je to \u010das, ko ga posvetimo drug drugemu. Je prilo\u017enost, da pomislimo na drobne \u017eelje drugih in jih posku\u0161amo uresni\u010diti. Je misel na vsakega posebej, ki ga imamo radi. Je \u010das hrepenenja, ki raste v nas, \u010das, ko pogledamo nazaj in na\u010drtujemo za naprej.<\/span><\/p>\n

Povedala ji bom, da ima sedaj, ko ve, da je veliko ve\u010d, tudi ona mo\u017enost, da pomisli na \u017eelje njej ljubih oseb. Da lahko razmi\u0161lja, kaj imajo radi, jim to skrbno zavije in nato do\u017eivi tisti neprecenljiv ob\u010dutek, ko se o\u010di obdarovanca zazrejo vate s pogledom, ki vpra\u0161a: Kako si vedela, da si ravno to \u017eelim?<\/span><\/p>\n

Povedala ji bom, da bova sedaj lahko skupaj zavijali darila in se veselili v osre\u010devanju drugih.<\/span><\/p>\n

Svet sprejemanja in dajanja<\/h2>\n

Povedala ji bom, da je Dedek Mraz \u010das, ko se lahko res posvetimo drug drugemu, in da sem vesela, da je prestopila magi\u010dno mejo iz sveta prejemanja, v svet prejemanja in dajanja. Da sem vesela, ker lahko zdaj v vsej polnosti do\u017eivlja \u010darobnost teh praznikov. Ker ne samo dajanje, tudi prejemanje dobi drugo noto. Vedela bo, da darila ne pridejo iz skrivnega sveta dobrih mo\u017e; spoznala bo, da je bilo vsako darilo skrbno izbrano in zavito z mislijo na njo in njene \u017eelje, od oseb, ki jo imajo rade. Spoznala bo, koliko ljubezni in naklonjenosti je v tem. Vem, da bo vesela in da bodo prazniki \u0161e vedno ali pa \u0161e bolj \u010darobni.<\/span><\/p>\n

Otrok nas vpra\u0161a, ko je pripravljen na odgovor. \u010ce smo mi pripravljeni otroku res prisluhniti, torej ne samo sli\u0161ati vpra\u0161anja, temve\u010d ga zares poslu\u0161ati in opaziti tudi sicer, bomo znali odgovoriti. Na vsa otro\u0161ka vpra\u0161anja, imamo odgovore vedno na dlani. On sam nam jih vsak dan ponuja. Koliko sprejmemo in se nau\u010dimo iz njegove ponujene dlani, pa je odvisno od nas samih.<\/span><\/p>\n

Avtorico\u00a0\u010dlanka lahko spremljate\u00a0na njenem blogu<\/strong>\u00a0http:\/\/dailynaspicena.blogspot.si\/<\/a><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0oziroma jo kontaktirate na mail<\/strong>\u00a0fabularna.komunikacije@gmail.com<\/a><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Otrok nas vpra\u0161a, ko je pripravljen na odgovor. \u010ce smo mi pripravljeni otroku res prisluhniti, torej ne samo sli\u0161ati vpra\u0161anja, temve\u010d ga zares poslu\u0161ati in opaziti tudi sicer, bomo znali odgovoriti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[2931,2867,1408,1409],"source":[1410,1335,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nMami, ali Dedek Mraz res ne obstaja? - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/mami-ali-dedek-mraz-res-ne-obstaja\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Mami, ali Dedek Mraz res ne obstaja? - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Otrok nas vpra\u0161a, ko je pripravljen na odgovor. \u010ce smo mi pripravljeni otroku res prisluhniti, torej ne samo sli\u0161ati vpra\u0161anja, temve\u010d ga zares poslu\u0161ati in opaziti tudi sicer, bomo znali odgovoriti.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/mami-ali-dedek-mraz-res-ne-obstaja\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2015-12-22T05:05:18+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2016\/04\/thinkstockphotos-492160018.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"2124\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"1417\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"hudo\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@hudo_si\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@hudo_si\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"hudo\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minute\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/mami-ali-dedek-mraz-res-ne-obstaja\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/mami-ali-dedek-mraz-res-ne-obstaja\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"hudo\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707\"},\"headline\":\"Mami, ali Dedek Mraz res ne obstaja?\",\"datePublished\":\"2015-12-22T05:05:18+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2015-12-22T05:05:18+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/mami-ali-dedek-mraz-res-ne-obstaja\/\"},\"wordCount\":701,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization\"},\"keywords\":[\"Anita Bogdanovi\u0107\",\"pozitivno star\u0161evstvo\",\"star\u0161evstvo\",\"vzgoja otroka\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Zdrav duh & telo\"],\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/mami-ali-dedek-mraz-res-ne-obstaja\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/mami-ali-dedek-mraz-res-ne-obstaja\/\",\"name\":\"Mami, ali Dedek Mraz res ne obstaja? 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