{"id":12929,"date":"2015-12-04T06:00:36","date_gmt":"2015-12-04T05:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/12\/04\/ste-dober-stars\/"},"modified":"2015-12-04T06:00:36","modified_gmt":"2015-12-04T05:00:36","slug":"ste-dober-stars","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/ste-dober-stars\/","title":{"rendered":"Ste dober star\u0161?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2015\/12\/thinkstockphotos-475154764-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2015\/12\/thinkstockphotos-475154764-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2015\/12\/thinkstockphotos-475154764-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>Foto: Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Preplavljeni smo z nasveti in teorijami, kako pravilno vzgajati. Kaj narediti, da bo otrok uspe\u0161en, zdrav, da bo maksimalno izkoristil in razvil vse svoje potenciale. Za vsak problem na katerega naletimo pri vzgoji, se najde par teorij kako to re\u0161iti.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sama sem se odlo\u010dila, da teorijam sicer prisluhnem, predvsem pa pri vzgoji poslu\u0161am sebe in otroka. Pri delu z otroki in pri vzgoji moje h\u010derke, sem se nau\u010dila, da je najpomembnej\u0161e ravno to, da je vsak otrok druga\u010den. Edinstven. Seveda so razvojni mejniki, ampak \u0161e te otroci dosegajo razli\u010dno in s tem ni ni\u010d narobe.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Star\u0161i\u00a0moramo v prvi meri zaupati sebi<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sem pa pri delu s star\u0161i in vzgojnim osebjem opazila, da si ne upamo ve\u010d verjeti sebi. Najprej moramo zaupati sebi, da lahko zaupamo otroku in on nam. Ko nave\u017eemo pozitiven odnos, je tudi vzgoja la\u017eja. Za odnos in klimo v katerem smo z otrokom, pa smo vedno odgovorni zgolj odrasli. Kak\u0161en odnos bomo torej imeli z otrokom? \u010ce dovolimo, da nas preplavijo \u0161tevilne teorije in se ne zmoremo odlo\u010dati sami, bomo to neodlo\u010dnost in zmedo vnesli v odnos. Nedoslednost v vzgoji je lahko klju\u010dnega pomena, ko govorimo o nemo\u010di star\u0161ev. Otrok mora vedeti kak\u0161ne so na\u0161e vrednote in na\u010dela, da se lahko ob nas po\u010duti varnega. In verjemite, otrok bo la\u017eje sprejel kak\u0161no va\u0161o napako, kot \u00bbpopoln\u00ab pristop, za katerega bo hitro za\u010dutil, da sami ne verjamete vanj.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Star\u0161i se moramo malo sprostiti<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ve\u010dkrat sem \u017ee opazovala s star\u0161e, ki sku\u0161ajo otroka umiriti ali prepri\u010dati z metodo, v katero ne verjamejo in je ne morejo preslikati na svoj vrednostni sistem. V takih primerih je vsak poizkus neuspe\u0161en in pomeni zgolj pove\u010danje frustracije za oba. V\u010dasih je bolje, da stvari ne re\u0161ujete, \u010de tako \u010dutite, kot da to po\u010dnete na silo. Proti sebi in proti otroku.\u00a0<\/span>Predvsem pa je potrebno, da se star\u0161i malo sprostimo. Da zajamemo sapo in u\u017eivamo v vzgoji. \u017dalosti me, ko berem koliko te\u017eav je z otroki in vzgojo, tako redko pa preberemo, da je vzgoja \u010dudovita. Vzgoja namre\u010d ni ni\u010d drugega kot vzpostavitev toplega, spo\u0161tljivega odnosa, v katerem dobimo to, kar dajemo. Ne moremo jih nau\u010diti in jim privzgojiti ne\u010desa, \u010desar sami ne \u017eivimo. Zato se sprostimo in za\u010dnimo za za\u010detek v odnosu z otrokom u\u017eivati. Saj poznate tisti izrabljen rek, ki pa \u0161e kako dr\u017ei: Otroci tako hitro zrastejo.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In ko vas naslednji\u010d kdo vpra\u0161a, \u010de ste dober star\u0161, povejte, da ste. Svojega otroka imate radi in mu \u017eelite najbolj\u0161e. Vzgajate ga tako kot najbolje znate. In \u017ee zato ste odli\u010den star\u0161. Ko si boste to priznali, vam bo vzgoja in odnos z otrokom \u0161e v ve\u010dje veselje.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Avtorico\u00a0\u010dlanka lahko spremljate\u00a0na njenem blogu<\/strong>\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\"><a style=\"color: #ff00ff;\" href=\"http:\/\/dailynaspicena.blogspot.si\/\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/dailynaspicena.blogspot.si\/<\/a>\u00a0<span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>oziroma jo kontaktirate na mail<\/strong>\u00a0<strong><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\"><a style=\"color: #ff00ff;\" href=\"mailto:fabularna.komunikacije@gmail.com\">fabularna.komunikacije@gmail.com<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Na kaj ste najprej pomislili ob tem vpra\u0161anju? Si upate na glas re\u010di, da ste odli\u010dni v vlogi star\u0161a in da veste, da svojega otroka vzgajate prav?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[2931,1408,1409],"source":[1410,1335,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Ste dober star\u0161? - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/ste-dober-stars\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Ste dober star\u0161? - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Na kaj ste najprej pomislili ob tem vpra\u0161anju? 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