{"id":13521,"date":"2016-10-22T05:44:00","date_gmt":"2016-10-22T03:44:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/10\/31\/ne-isci-ljubezni-svojega-zivljenja\/"},"modified":"2016-11-02T13:46:27","modified_gmt":"2016-11-02T12:46:27","slug":"ne-isci-ljubezni-svojega-zivljenja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/ne-isci-ljubezni-svojega-zivljenja\/","title":{"rendered":"Ne i\u0161\u010di ljubezni svojega \u017eivljenja!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Kvantiteta ni kvaliteta<\/h2>\n

\u201eZ ve\u010d ljudmi grem na zmenek, ve\u010dja je mo\u017enost, da najdem ljubezen svojega \u017eivljenja!\u201c <\/em><\/p>\n

\u010ce bo\u0161 iskala ljubezen svojega \u017eivljenja, si verjetno obsojena na samsko \u017eivljenje. Pomembno je, da si si na jasnem, kaj si sploh \u017eeli\u0161 in kaj si pripravljena dati. Podobno je z iskanjem slu\u017ebe. Lahko se prijavi\u0161 na vsak razgovor in upa\u0161, da bo delo tam prosto, tebi v\u0161e\u010dno in poleg vsega ti bodo dali bajno pla\u010do, dopust in slu\u017ebeni avto. Ampak mo\u017enost, da se ti to zgodi z naklju\u010dnim delodajalcem, je zelo majhna. Zato je pomembno, da vnaprej omeji\u0161 svojo izbiro.<\/p>\n

Po eni strani omeji svoj doseg, po drugi vnaprej izlo\u010di neprimerne kandidate. Na zmenek mora\u0161 s pravo osebo, ne z naklju\u010dno osebo. Zato si ustvari filter, sito. Presej mo\u017ene kandidate in ne zapravljaj \u010dasa z vsemi priporo\u010denimi \u201eidealnimi\u201c partnerji. Ta filter seveda ne lo\u010duje na podlagi predpostavk, ampak vklju\u010duje samo o\u010ditne in pomembne to\u010dke. O vsakem \u010dloveku nekaj vemo, preden gremo z njim na zmenek, in ocenimo lahko telesne zna\u010dilnosti. Edini kriterij je vizualna podoba in maska, ki ti jo predstavi zmenkujo\u010di. \u010ce ti maska ni v\u0161e\u010d, niti videz, potem z njim ne hodi na zmenek. Ne upaj, da je za masko resnica in da se bo videz spremenil. Ljudje se ne spreminjajo.<\/p>\n

Naravna selekcija je kaos<\/h2>\n

\u201eVsi lepi in pametni so \u017ee oddani! (da ne govorim o bogatih …)\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

Naravna selekcija deluje po klju\u010du \u010distega naklju\u010dja. Poleg tega sta obe besedi, lep in pameten, prazni, ne pomenita ni\u010d dokon\u010dnega. V ljudskem izra\u017eanju pameten pomeni predvsem nekoga, ki je pragmati\u010den in prakti\u010den. Ki se ne oklepa skrajnosti in v \u017eivljenju ubira lahke poti. Ne pri\u010dakuje preve\u010d, je zadovoljen in se znajde. V tem smislu \u201epametnih\u201c res ni mnogo na voljo. Ampak so. Veliko ve\u010d je res pametnih samskih ljudi, ljudi na robu genialnosti ali genijev, vendar jih je manj po \u0161tevilu. Te ljudi mnogo bolj zanima znanost kot ljubezen, \u010deprav nanjo niso imuni. Ampak noben stereotip ne dr\u017ei.<\/p>\n

Mo\u0161ki se bojijo pametnih \u017eensk<\/h2>\n

Pomembna je tudi razlika med mo\u0161kim in \u017eensko. Pametna \u017eenska predstavlja nekaj drugega kot pameten mo\u0161ki. Pametna \u017eenska je ponavadi tista, ki razume \u201epametnega\u201c mo\u0161kega. In teh pametnih \u017eensk res ni ve\u010d na voljo. Razgrabijo jih \u017ee v srednji \u0161oli. Ostajajo inteligentne \u017eenske, ki si jih \u201epametni\u201c mo\u0161ki niti ne upajo osvajati. Ni ve\u010djega strahu za mo\u0161kega kot \u017eenska, ki je \u201ebolj\u0161a\u201c od njega. \u0160e bolj stra\u0161ljiva je \u017eenska, ki mo\u0161kega ne rabi, ki je samozadostna.<\/p>\n

Ljubezen je (s)lepa …<\/h2>\n

Pri lepoti so te\u017eave \u0161e ve\u010dje. Vse lepe punce in lepi fantje so ponavadi oddani. Kar seveda ne pomeni, da niso na voljo. Borba za lepega partnerja je neizprosna in zato mora\u0161 hitro izkoristiti \u010das, ko je tak\u0161na oseba samska, ker zagotovo ne bo dolgo. Lepi ljudje imajo velikokrat probleme s samopodobo. \u010ce nimajo nikogar, ki bi jih obo\u017eeval, za\u010denjajo dvomiti v svojo lepoto. Poleg tega jih preganja misel, da bodo postali grdi in stari, ta strah hrani njihovo potrebo po partnerju in zato nikoli niso dolgo brez njega. Kak\u0161en je partner, ni pomembno, samo da jih obo\u017euje. \u010ce res ho\u010de\u0161 lepega partnerja, mu hrani njegovo ne\u010dimrnost.<\/p>\n

Star pregovor dr\u017ei!<\/h2>\n

\u010ce so torej zate vsi lepi in pametni \u017ee oddani, se spomni starega slovenskega pregovora: \u201eZa prav vsako metlo se najde svoj \u0161til!\u201c Veliko te\u017eje ga je izbrati med milijoni razli\u010dnih, posebej, \u010de ho\u010de\u0161 najlep\u0161ega in najbolj\u0161ega, ampak za tvojo metlo popolnoma neprimernega. Izmeri svojo luknjo in i\u0161\u010di primernega zate. Najprej pospravi podstre\u0161je, potem ropotarnico (spomina) in nato poglej okoli vogalov hi\u0161e in pri sosedu. Vedno se najde kaj …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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