{"id":13557,"date":"2016-07-21T06:07:42","date_gmt":"2016-07-21T04:07:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/10\/28\/pismo-namenjeno-vsem-samskim-zenskam\/"},"modified":"2016-07-29T10:10:27","modified_gmt":"2016-07-29T08:10:27","slug":"pismo-namenjeno-vsem-samskim-zenskam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/aktualno\/mnenja\/pismo-namenjeno-vsem-samskim-zenskam\/","title":{"rendered":"Pismo, namenjeno vsem samskim \u017eenskam!"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2015\/10\/thinkstockphotos-486962714-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2015\/10\/thinkstockphotos-486962714-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2015\/10\/thinkstockphotos-486962714-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>Foto: Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Drage samske \u017eenske, to, da ste samske, ni najhuje, kar se vam je v \u017eivljenju zgodilo. Ni bolezen, ni trajno stanje, ni konec sveta. Samo zato, ker ste stare \u010dez trideset in \u0161e vedno nimate dru\u017eine, \u0161e ne pomeni, da je z vami nekaj narobe in da bo do konca \u017eivljenja ostalo tako. Razen seveda, \u010de ste se v glavi prepri\u010dale, da za vas ni ve\u010d upanja. Ampak to bi bilo zelo nespametno.<\/p>\n<p>Nehajte se obremenjevati s tem. Nehajte kot la\u010den jastreb pogledovati za vsakim mo\u0161kim, ki pride mimo. Nehajte vsakega mo\u0161kega ocenjevati, \u010de bi bil primeren za o\u010deta va\u0161ih otrok. Opustite vse nesmiselne kriterje, kaj vse mora mo\u0161ki imeti. Raje se prepustite toku in bodite odprti za vse, kar vam prihaja naproti. Toda vsega, kar vam prihaja naproti, se tudi ni treba okleniti z vsemi \u0161tirimi, kot zadnjo re\u0161ilno bilko. Globoko zadihajte, dajte prilo\u017enost, \u010de vidite, da stvar nikamor ne pelje, jo pustite in pojdite naprej. Za\u010dnite dajati prilo\u017enost. Ni\u010desar nimate izgubiti, le dobite lahko. Nehajte trmasto \u010dakati, da bo mo\u0161ki naredil prvi korak. Prej kot se sprijaznite, da so ti \u010dasi mimo, bolje je. Vzemite svoje \u017eivljenje v roke.<\/p>\n<p>Ni treba, da si vrhunska kuharica,\u00a0dovolj je, da zna\u0161 poskrbeti, da nista la\u010dna. V tem primeru pride v po\u0161tev tudi to, da naro\u010di\u0161 pico, skuha\u0161 testenine, ali pa kuhinjo prepusti\u0161 njemu. Znajdi se. \u010ce si romanti\u010dna du\u0161a, ne zahtevaj, da mora biti tak tudi on. Prej kot opusti\u0161 previsoka pri\u010dakovanja, manj bo razo\u010daranj. \u010ce si \u017eeli\u0161 romantike, sama poskrbi za njo, hkrati pa imej odprte o\u010di. Romantika se skriva v razli\u010dnih oblikah.\u00a0Romanti\u010dna gesta mo\u0161kega je recimo tudi\u00a0to, da gre s tabo po na kupih, \u010deprav ve\u0161, kako tega ne mara. In se ob tvojem neskon\u010dnem pomerjanju oblek ni\u010d ne prito\u017euje. Mo\u0161ki si \u017eelijo \u017eensko, ki je \u017eenstvena, ki je ni strah pokazati, da ne zna vsega, da je ranljiva, ob\u010dutljiva, ki si \u017eeli nekoga, ki jo bo varoval, jo za\u0161\u010ditil, poskrbel za njo. \u010ceprav v na\u0161ih \u017eenskih glavah velja prepri\u010danje, da moramo same znati storiti vse, \u0161e vse tisto, kar naj bi bilo sicer v domeni mo\u0161kih, se zelo motimo. Pustimo mo\u0161kemu, da je mo\u0161ki.<\/p>\n<p>Nehajte iskati izgovore, zakaj ste samski. Nima smisla. Vse teorije so odve\u010d in ni pravila. Pomembno je, da ostanete taki kot ste, razen \u010de veste, da kaj delate zelo narobe. V tem primeru je \u010das, da pogledate vase, sprejmete odlo\u010ditev, da boste na sebi nekaj spremenile, in to storite. Potem izgovorov ne bo ve\u010d. Ste vedele, da za to, da ste samski,ni kriv va\u0161 videz. No, \u010de niste, vam sedaj jaz po povem! Ni va\u017eno koliko tehtate, ali je va\u0161 nos malo kriv, imate celulit. Va\u017eno je, da skrbite za zase, za svoje psihi\u010dno in fizi\u010dno zdravje, da ste urejeni. Va\u017eno je tudi to, kaj iz\u017earevate. To je tisto, kar mo\u0161ki opazijo. Nasmeh, iskrico v o\u010deh, pozitiven odnos. Vse ostalo je nepomembno. Verjemite v to, da je na svetu kar nekaj mo\u0161kih, ki i\u0161\u010dejo natanko tako \u017eensko, kot ste vi. Zato bi bilo \u0161koda karkoli, kar ni potrebe spreminjati, spreminjati. Nehajte dvomiti vase in v mo\u0161ke. Ko bo pravi \u010das, se bo namre\u010d vse poklopilo. Zaupajte v to in bodite odprte glave in srca.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Samska \u017eenska naslavljam vse samske \u017eenske.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1605],"tags":[2437,2749,2254,3145],"source":[2582,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Pismo, namenjeno vsem samskim \u017eenskam! - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/aktualno\/mnenja\/pismo-namenjeno-vsem-samskim-zenskam\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Pismo, namenjeno vsem samskim \u017eenskam! 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