{"id":14053,"date":"2016-06-27T05:10:00","date_gmt":"2016-06-27T03:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/09\/12\/zakaj-nekatere-zenske-vedno-izbirajo-napacne-moske\/"},"modified":"2016-07-06T09:11:37","modified_gmt":"2016-07-06T07:11:37","slug":"zakaj-nekatere-zenske-vedno-izbirajo-napacne-moske","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/zakaj-nekatere-zenske-vedno-izbirajo-napacne-moske\/","title":{"rendered":"Zakaj nekatere \u017eenske vedno izbirajo napa\u010dne mo\u0161ke?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Verjetno mora obstajati razlog, zakaj se nekatere \u017eenske znova in znova obna\u0161ajo po istem vzorcu. En sam slab izbor se \u0161e lahko opravi\u010di kot slu\u010daj, \u010de pa se zgodba ponavlja, je \u010das za temeljit premislek. Napa\u010dne izbire partnerjev so pogosto posledica neracionalnih strahov, podzavestnih kompleksov, anksioznosti in nerazre\u0161enih travm iz preteklosti. Po pravilu so vsi ti ob\u010dutki nezavedni, a zato prav ni\u010d \u0161ibkej\u0161i. \u010custva, ki se jih niti ne zavedate, lahko popolnoma obvladujejo va\u0161e obna\u0161anje, odzivanje in \u010dustvovanje ter uni\u010dijo \u017eivljenje \u0161e tako mo\u010dnim in bistrim osebam. Poglobite se vase in z malo sre\u010de boste na\u0161li in odpravili vzrok va\u0161e nesre\u010de.<\/p>\n

Bojite se izgube<\/h2>\n

\u010ce ste v mladosti nenadoma izgubili osebo, ki vam je zelo veliko pomenila in ste jo nadvse ljubili, je povsem mogo\u010de, da kasneje razvijete strah pred izgubo ali zapustitvijo. Va\u0161o \u017eeljo po osnovanju dru\u017eine ohromi nezavedni strah pred tem, da bi izgubili partnerja ali bi vas partner zapustil. Zato boste praviloma izbirali mo\u0161ke, ki se tudi sami bojijo resnega razmerja, se ne \u017eelijo vezati in be\u017eijo od odgovornosti. Z njimi boste lahko ustvarili le povr\u0161inski odnos brez globlje povezanosti in bli\u017eine in se tako za\u0161\u010ditili pred \u010dustvenimi bole\u010dinami v primeru, da vas zapusti.<\/p>\n

Podlegli ste predsodkom<\/h2>\n

Morda vas preobremenjujejo pritiski dru\u017ebenega okolja, ki vas silijo v lov na mo\u017ea. Trudite se jim ustre\u010di, pri tem pa ne razmi\u0161ljate trezno in pristanete na prvega vsaj pribli\u017eno sprejemljivega mo\u0161kega na katerega naletite. Pozabljate na svoje resni\u010dne \u017eelje in kon\u010date s partnerjem, ki ga v resnici ne \u017eelite imeti ob sebi. Seveda va\u0161a nami\u0161ljena sre\u010da nikoli ne more trajati dolgo, razo\u010daranje pa je neizbe\u017eno.<\/p>\n

\"Zakaj<\/p>\n

Manjka vam samozavesti<\/h2>\n

\u010ce se ne boste sami cenili in se imeli radi, vas tudi drugi ne bodo. Nezavedno prepri\u010danje, da niste vredni ljubezni vam nikakor ne bo pomagalo, da bi jo na\u0161li. Za vsako mrvico pozornosti ste preve\u010d hvale\u017eni, zato za\u010dnete zanemarjati svoje potrebe in storite vse, da bi ugodili partnerju, s tem pa mu le sporo\u010date, kako obupani ste. Dokler ne boste vzpostavili ljube\u010dega odnosa do sebe, vas podobno klavrn scenarij \u010daka tudi v va\u0161em ljubezenskem razmerju. Zavedati se morate, da le samozavestna \u017eenska lahko privla\u010di samozavestnega mo\u0161kega.<\/p>\n

Kako si lahko pomagate?<\/h2>\n

Da bi spremenili va\u0161e \u017eivljenje, morate najprej spremeniti sebe. Poglobite se vase in se posku\u0161ajte razumeti. Nau\u010dite se spo\u0161tovati samo sebe v vsakem pogledu in ceniti svoje vrline. Problemov ne pometajte pod preprogo, ampak jih odgovorno in konstruktivno re\u0161ujte, enega za drugim. Pri tem vam lahko pomaga psiholo\u0161ka literatura, psihoterapija, in samoanaliza. Prvi korak je, da odkrijete, \u010desa si pravzaprav sploh \u017eelite. Iskreno odgovorite na naslednja vpra\u0161anja:<\/p>\n

1. Kaj zares ho\u010dem?
\n2. Kaj pri\u010dakujem od razmerja?
\n3. Kaj sem pripravljena dati in kaj zahtevam v zameno?
\n4. Katere kompromise sem pripravljena skleniti?
\n5. Na kaj ne bom nikoli pristala?<\/p>\n

Zatem opi\u0161ite \u010dloveka, ki bi ga zares \u017eeleli imeti poleg sebe. Najprej naredite seznam njegovih idealnih karakternih in telesnih lastnosti, nato pa se posvetite podrobnostim. Kaj naj bo po poklicu, kak\u0161na naj bodo njegova zanimanja, kak\u0161en mora imeti odnos do otrok,\u2026 Izdelajte si jasno predstavo o va\u0161em idealnem partnerju, nato pa se pogumno odpravite v svet in z malo sre\u010de ga boste tudi na\u0161li.<\/p>\n

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