{"id":14542,"date":"2016-11-05T05:44:55","date_gmt":"2016-11-05T04:44:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/07\/28\/zenske-mislijo-da-si-ne-zasluzijo-ljubezni-ker-niso-lepe-moski-ker-niso-bogati\/"},"modified":"2016-11-15T03:48:56","modified_gmt":"2016-11-15T02:48:56","slug":"zenske-mislijo-da-si-ne-zasluzijo-ljubezni-ker-niso-lepe-moski-ker-niso-bogati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/zenske-mislijo-da-si-ne-zasluzijo-ljubezni-ker-niso-lepe-moski-ker-niso-bogati\/","title":{"rendered":"\u017denske mislijo, da si ne zaslu\u017eijo ljubezni, ker niso lepe, mo\u0161ki, ker niso bogati"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Vsaka osma oseba meni, da ljubezen ne obstaja in ne i\u0161\u010de ve\u010d svojega idealnega partnerja. Med temi ljudmi je ve\u010d \u017eensk kot mo\u0161kih, ki s\u010dasoma za\u010dnejo verjeti v to, da ljubezni svojega \u017eivljenja niso na\u0161le, ker niso dovolj lepe, pi\u0161e Dail Mail.<\/p>\n

Nerazumevanje in finan\u010dna negotovost<\/h2>\n

Portal eHarmony je opravil raziskavo na 2000 ljudeh iz Velike Britanije in kar 12 odstotkov med njimi je prepri\u010danih, da se ne bodo nikoli ve\u010d zaljubili. Tako mi\u0161ljenje si deli 29 odstotkov samskih ljudi in \u0161est odstotkov takih, ki so v zvezi. Kot razlog za to, da so dvignili roke od ljubezni, je to, da so prepri\u010dani, da prava oseba za njih ne obstaja (46 odstotkov). 45 odstotkov vpra\u0161anih meni, da je nemogo\u010de, da bi partnerja spoznali v krogih, kjer se gibljejo, 41 odstotkov pa je prepri\u010danih, da niso dovolj privla\u010dni.<\/p>\n

Ve\u010d mo\u0161kih kot \u017eensk je prepri\u010danih, da ljubezni ne najdejo, ker so brez slu\u017ebe (27 odstotkov) in ker nimajo stabilne finan\u010dne prihodnosti (17 odstotkov). \u017denske pa so prepri\u010dane, da svojemu partnerju ne morejo zaupati (46 odstotkov) in da jih partner ne bo razumel (31 odstotkov).<\/p>\n

Ni vse tako negativno!<\/h2>\n

Raziskava je pokazala, da vsaka tretja oseba misli, da ne bo nikoli na\u0161la ljubezni. Ena petina vpra\u0161anih v zadnjem letu dni ni bila v zvezi, kar 41 odstotkov pa jih je priznalo, da niso bili v zvezi zadnjih deset let. 44 odstotkov sodelujo\u010dih v raziskavi je priznalo, da imajo negativne izku\u0161nje pri spoznavanju potencialnih partnerjev. Najpogostej\u0161i problem je v tem, da s potencialnim parterjem nimajo skupnih interesov in ciljev, da potencialni partner v \u010dasu spoznavanja govori samo o sebi in da jih potencialni partner po prvem zmenku za\u010dne nadlegovati. Zaradi teh razlogov je 13 odstotkov \u017eensk in 10 odstotkov mo\u0161kih dvignilo roke od ljubezni.<\/p>\n

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No, ampak ni vse tako \u010drno. Vsak deseti vpra\u0161ani je po razo\u010daranju vseeno nadaljeval z iskanjem ljubezni. “V ve\u010dini primerih je izjava, da ste obupali nad ljubeznijo, oblika obrambnega mehanizma, da ne bi bili ve\u010d razo\u010darani. Toda to ne pomeni, da ste nehali upati ali da aktivno ne i\u0161\u010dete partnerja. Toda pri tem bi se morali ljudje zavedati, da tak odnos zmanj\u0161uje mo\u017enosti, da najdete pravo ljubezen,” pravi psihologinja Linda Papadopoulos.<\/p>\n

10 najpogostej\u0161ih izgovorov zakaj smo obupali nad ljubeznijo:<\/h2>\n

1. Zame ni partnerja<\/p>\n

2. Ne spoznavam novih ljudi<\/p>\n

3. Ne po\u010dutim se privla\u010dno<\/p>\n

4. Te\u017eko zaupam ljudem<\/p>\n

5. Videti je, da se ljudje ne zanimajo zame<\/p>\n

6. Po\u010dutim se prestaro za zmenke in dvorjenje<\/p>\n

7. Ne morem najti nekoga, ki bi me resni\u010dno razumel<\/p>\n

8. Nisem finan\u010dno stabilen oziroma stabilna<\/p>\n

9. Sem zelo naporna oseba<\/p>\n

10. V slu\u017ebi ne spoznavam novih ljudi<\/p>\n

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