{"id":14560,"date":"2015-07-26T05:24:29","date_gmt":"2015-07-26T04:24:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/07\/26\/to-kar-si-zelis-ni-nujno-tisto-kar-potrebujes\/"},"modified":"2015-07-26T05:24:29","modified_gmt":"2015-07-26T04:24:29","slug":"to-kar-si-zelis-ni-nujno-tisto-kar-potrebujes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/to-kar-si-zelis-ni-nujno-tisto-kar-potrebujes\/","title":{"rendered":"To, kar si \u017eeli\u0161, ni nujno tisto, kar potrebuje\u0161"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2013\/10\/dv1451051-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2013\/10\/dv1451051-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2013\/10\/dv1451051-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>Sre\u010da se ne skriva nujno v uresni\u010ditvi na\u0161ih \u017eelja (Thinkstock)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\">Nam uresni\u010ditev na\u0161ih \u017eelja vedno prinese sre\u010do?<\/h2>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Velikokrat se zgodi, da na\u0161e \u017eelje niso v skladu s tem, kar resni\u010dno potrebujemo in s tem, kar je dobro za nas, na\u0161o sre\u010do in tudi na\u0161o osebnostno rast. Pogosto se \u017eenemo za \u017eeljami, ki nam na koncu ne prinesejo nikakr\u0161ne sre\u010de, zadovoljstva ali rasti, prav nasprotno, ko se enkrat \u017eelja uresni\u010di, ugotovimo, da si tega pravzaprav sploh nismo iskreno \u017eeleli.<\/p>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\">Ali na\u0161e \u017eelje res izvirajo iz nas samih?<\/h2>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Pomembno je, da se zavedamo, kaj poganja na\u0161o mo\u010dno \u017eeljo. Ali je to res nekaj, kar si mi resni\u010dno \u017eelimo ali pa je to v bistvu \u017eelja nekoga drugega. Pogosto se ne zavedamo, da se \u017eenemo za \u017eeljami samo zato, da bi se dokazali drugim, da bi zadostili na\u0161emu egu, da bi pote\u0161ili potrebo po ugajanju, da bi sebi dokazali, da smo vredni, da bi sebe bolj ljubili ali, da bi se po\u010dutili zadostne in izpopolnjene.<\/p>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\">Ali ena\u010dimo na\u0161o vrednost z na\u0161imi uspehi?<\/h2>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Te\u017eava nastane, ko ugotovimo, da kljub temu, da smo cilj dosegli, \u0161e vedno ne \u010dutimo ljubezni do sebe, \u0161e vedno se ne spo\u0161tujemo, \u0161e vedno skrbimo za to, kaj si drugi mislijo, se spra\u0161ujemo ali nas cenijo in \u0161e vedno nezavedno i\u0161\u010demo potrditev, zato si postavimo nove cilje, tokrat te\u017eje dosegljive. Mislimo si, da morda pa, ko bomo dosegli te, ko bomo bili uspe\u0161nej\u0161i, imeli ve\u010d denarja, dosegli ve\u010d uspehov, morda pa bomo takrat zares za\u010dutili mir sami s seboj. Vendar ne, prav ni\u010d ne pote\u0161i na\u0161e lakote po doseganju vedno vi\u0161jih ciljev. Uspeh, ki ga osvojimo, nam nudi kratkotrajno zadovoljitev in kaj kmalu se lahko ponovno po\u010dutimo prazne.<\/p>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\">Ali na\u0161e \u017eelje poganja strah ali ljubezen?<\/h2>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Ne razumite me narobe, seveda je pomembno, da imamo cilje in jih dosegamo, ter v \u017eivljenju ustvarjamo, vendar na\u0161i uspehi, ne smejo biti pogoj za na\u0161o vrednost. Pomembno je, da \u010dutimo brezpogojno ljubezen do sebe, se spo\u0161tujemo in cenimo ne glede na na\u0161e uspehe. Smo edinstveno bitje, ki si zaslu\u017ei vso mo\u017eno ljubezen. Pravzaprav bomo \u0161ele, ko bomo resni\u010dno ljubili sebe, brez da ljubezen do sebe pogojujemo z na\u0161imi uspehi in neuspehi, resni\u010dno pripravljeni, da do\u017eivimo uspehe in smo v \u017eivljenju ustvarjalni. Takrat nas namre\u010d ne bo strah, da bi vse, kar imamo, izgubili, saj to, kar imamo, ne ena\u010dimo z na\u0161o lastno vrednostjo. In tako bomo uspeh obdr\u017eali v \u017eivljenju. Kadar pa nas bo strah, takrat bomo izgubili vse, saj energija strahu vedno izgubi v primerjavi z energijo ljubezni.<\/p>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\">Sledi svojim najglobjim \u017eeljam, te so prave!<\/h2>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Pomembno je torej, da resni\u010dno prisluhnemo sebi in se vpra\u0161amo, kaj so na\u0161e resni\u010dne in iskrene \u017eelje, kajti to ponavadi tudi resni\u010dno potrebujemo. Ne zaganjajmo se za nekimi iluzornimi \u017eeljami, za katere bomo na koncu ugotovili, da niso ni\u010d od tega, kar kot oseba resni\u010dno potrebujemo. Bodimo iskreni sami do sebe in na\u0161e \u017eivljenje bo enostavnej\u0161e, zagotovo pa bomo tudi sre\u010dnej\u0161i. Zakaj bi \u017eiveli \u017eivljenje \u017eelj nekoga drugega? Vsakdo od nas ima edinstvene \u017eelje in strasti, le dovolj poguma in volje moramo zbrati, ter biti dovolj vztrajni, da sledimo tem na\u0161im \u017eeljam. Tako bomo izstopili iz \u010drede in za\u017eiveli \u017eivljenje po na\u0161e in ne po njihovo. Kaj pa oni prevzaprav vedo o tem, kaj si mi \u017eelimo globoko v sebi? Ni\u010d! Kaj pa ti, ve\u0161, kaj si \u017eeli\u0161 globoko v sebi?<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kaj pa, \u010de nas to, kar si \u017eelimo, sploh ne bo osre\u010dilo? 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