{"id":153233,"date":"2016-10-13T08:42:30","date_gmt":"2016-10-13T06:42:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2016\/10\/13\/prva-pomoc-kaj-narediti-ce-med-seksom-upade-erekcija\/"},"modified":"2016-10-28T10:08:48","modified_gmt":"2016-10-28T08:08:48","slug":"prva-pomoc-kaj-narediti-ce-med-seksom-upade-erekcija","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/prva-pomoc-kaj-narediti-ce-med-seksom-upade-erekcija\/","title":{"rendered":"Prva pomo\u010d: Kaj narediti, \u010de med seksom upade erekcija?"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"foto:Profimedia\"<\/a>foto:Profimedia<\/h5>\n

Se zgodi. Kaj zdaj?<\/h2>\n

Pri spolnih odnosih za mo\u0161kega niso pomembni le za\u010detni trenutki pridobivanja erekcije, temve\u010d tudi nadaljnji trenutki ohranjevanja erekcije, na katerega pa lahko vpliva marsikateri dejavnik. Tako se recimo nekaterim lahko zgodi, da erekcija med seksom upade, kar mnoge partnerice le ste\u017eka razumejo. Prav zato se lahko ob partnerjevem upadu erekcije v postelji pojavijo zavrnitev ter frustrirajo\u010di ob\u010dutki \u017ealosti in jeze. Vendar to je napa\u010den pristop k re\u0161evanju problema, saj bo dodaten pritisk partnerice na mo\u0161kega zelo slabo vplival tudi pri nadaljnjih spolnih odnosih. Te\u017eavo lahko re\u0161ite na veliko bolj konstruktiven na\u010din.<\/p>\n

1. Za upad erekcije ne krivite partnerja<\/h2>\n

Kadar se pojavijo frustracije, zelo radi i\u0161\u010demo krivca zanje. Ko pride do nezmo\u017enosti nadaljevanja spolnega odnosa oziroma penetracije, \u017eenske naredijo to napako, da postavijo za krivca kar samega partnerja, \u010deprav globoko v sebi vedo, da so tak\u0161ne obto\u017ebe nelogi\u010dne in krivi\u010dne. Namre\u010d noben mo\u0161ki si med seksom ne \u017eeli upada erekcije sredi akcije. Prav tako to ne pomeni, da ga partnerica ne vzburja ve\u010d ali pa da je postal trajno impotenten. Gre le za neprijetno nezgodico, \u010dez katero je potrebno iti, da se seks lahko nadaljuje.<\/p>\n

Tudi partnerka ni vzrok upada erekcije. Namre\u010d zavoljo obrane ega ter seksualne samozavesti marsikateri mo\u0161ki v tak\u0161nem trenutku zlahka preusmerijo pozornost na partnerko ter jo tako postavijo za vzrok svoje te\u017eave. S tem namesto upada erekcije postane predmet debate to, zakaj ona v vsem tem \u010dasu \u0161e ni do\u017eivela orgazma, ali pa zakaj je izbrala dolo\u010deni spolni polo\u017eaj, itd. Ob vsem tem pa pozabljata na klju\u010dno dejstvo, in sicer na to, da kriv ni nih\u010de.<\/p>\n

Ko pride do upada erekcije, ne i\u0161\u010dite krivca, temve\u010d na\u010din kako se ponovno vzburiti. Preden to storita, lahko tudi po\u010dakata ter oble\u017eita objeta za nekaj minutk, kar vaju bo zbli\u017ealo ter vama dalo nov zagon energije ter pohote.<\/p>\n

2. Upad erekcije ne pomeni, da je konec seksa<\/h2>\n

Izguba erekcije \u0161e ne pomeni konec vajinega seksa. Torej ne ustavljajte se in ne spro\u017eajte nepotrebnih debat o tem, kaj je \u0161lo narobe. \u010ce je le mo\u017eno in \u010de veste, da boste erekcijo pridobili nazaj, \u010de le zamenjate spolni polo\u017eaj ali po\u010detje, potem to storite.<\/p>\n

\u010ce bi vas v tistem trenutku nazaj na tirnice postavil oralni seks ali karkoli drugega, enostavno zamenjajte penetracijo za oralno dra\u017eenje in erekcija bo v hipu nazaj. \u010ce bi vas ponovno vzburil pogled na to, kako se dra\u017ei sama, ji to v tistem trenutku \u00bbuka\u017eite\u00ab. Tudi partnerkam naj ne bo te\u017eko vpra\u0161ati, kaj bi ob upadu erekcije prijalo mo\u0161kemu, da bi pri\u0161lo do ponovne erekcije. Karkoli po\u010dnete, pa nikar ne odkorakajte iz postelje, saj s tem ne boste re\u0161ili ni\u010d. Te\u017eavo, ki je nastala v postelji, re\u0161ite tam.<\/p>\n

3. Ne pozabite na partnerko<\/h2>\n

\u010ce je upad erekcije med seksom znak, da potrebujete le malce predaha, ob tem ne pozabite na partnerko. Namre\u010d v tej to\u010dki je njen nivo vzburjenosti dokaj visok, zato poskrbite, da do va\u0161e ponovne pridobitve erekcije tam tudi ostane. Predlagajte ji oralno dra\u017eenje, ro\u010dno stimulacijo, dra\u017eenje s pripomo\u010dki … mo\u017enosti je veliko. \u010ce ob tem do\u017eivi orgazem, pa \u0161e toliko bolje.<\/p>\n

4. Ne bodite pasivno agresivni<\/h2>\n

Kadar zaradi upada erekcije spolnega odnosa ne morete nadaljevati, je zelo pomembno, da ubereta na\u010din komunikacije, ki ne bo povzro\u010dil negativnih ob\u010dutkov, jeze, \u017ealosti ali prepira. Klju\u010dnega pomena z va\u0161e strani je umirjena komunikacija, s partneri\u010dine pa razumevanje. Tudi \u010de se seks zaklju\u010di, je v postelji vedno dovolj prostora za umirjen pogovor, romantiko in objeme.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kadar se vam zgodi, da med seksom izgubite erekcijo, nikar ne po\u010dnite stvari, ki bi stanje lahko le poslab\u0161ale.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1092],"tags":[4149,1562],"source":[1518,2005,1535],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nPrva pomo\u010d: Kaj narediti, \u010de med seksom upade erekcija? - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/prva-pomoc-kaj-narediti-ce-med-seksom-upade-erekcija\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Prva pomo\u010d: Kaj narediti, \u010de med seksom upade erekcija? - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Kadar se vam zgodi, da med seksom izgubite erekcijo, nikar ne po\u010dnite stvari, ki bi stanje lahko le poslab\u0161ale.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/prva-pomoc-kaj-narediti-ce-med-seksom-upade-erekcija\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2016-10-13T06:42:30+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2016-10-28T08:08:48+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2016\/10\/profimedia-0269496460.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"1250\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"833\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"hudo\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@hudo_si\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@hudo_si\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"hudo\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minute\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/prva-pomoc-kaj-narediti-ce-med-seksom-upade-erekcija\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/prva-pomoc-kaj-narediti-ce-med-seksom-upade-erekcija\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"hudo\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707\"},\"headline\":\"Prva pomo\u010d: Kaj narediti, \u010de med seksom upade erekcija?\",\"datePublished\":\"2016-10-13T06:42:30+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2016-10-28T08:08:48+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/prva-pomoc-kaj-narediti-ce-med-seksom-upade-erekcija\/\"},\"wordCount\":636,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization\"},\"keywords\":[\"erekcija\",\"motnje erekcije\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Seks & partnerstvo\"],\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/prva-pomoc-kaj-narediti-ce-med-seksom-upade-erekcija\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/prva-pomoc-kaj-narediti-ce-med-seksom-upade-erekcija\/\",\"name\":\"Prva pomo\u010d: Kaj narediti, \u010de med seksom upade erekcija? 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