{"id":156075,"date":"2016-10-17T05:00:20","date_gmt":"2016-10-17T03:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2016\/10\/17\/mu-pac-ni-do-tebe\/"},"modified":"2016-10-26T11:10:57","modified_gmt":"2016-10-26T09:10:57","slug":"mu-pac-ni-do-tebe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/aktualno\/mnenja\/mu-pac-ni-do-tebe\/","title":{"rendered":"Mu pa\u010d ni do tebe"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2014\/02\/img-126393725-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2014\/02\/img-126393725-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2014\/02\/img-126393725-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>Foto: Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px;\">Verjetno vam bo tale zgodba znana. Spoznala sem fanta, v trenutku sva si bila v\u0161e\u010d. Na za\u010detku je bilo tako, da je bil on bolj zagret kot jaz. Verjetno je bilo to del igre, ki se je pogosto gremo mo\u0161ki in \u017eenske. \u017denska se mora delati nekoliko nedostopno, mo\u0161ki mora biti osvajalec, lovec, \u017eenska, \u010de ho\u010dete, plen. S\u010dasoma tudi \u017eenske popustimo in se prepustimo. Toda v trenutku, ko sem mu pokazala, da mi je v\u0161e\u010d, da rada pre\u017eivljam \u010das z njim, se je spremenil. Vsaki\u010d, ko sem ga vpra\u0161ala, kdaj se bova videla, je rekel, da nima \u010dasa, da ima kak\u0161ne druge na\u010drte. Nisem pritiskala nanj, bila sem razumevajo\u010da, vendar sem vztrajala. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px;\">Predlagala sem, da se lahko dobiva med pavzo, v \u010dasu kosila tam kjer je delal. In sva se. \u0160la sem tja. Naslednji\u010d sem predlagala, \u010de bi v soboto popoldne kaj po\u010dela skupaj. Rekel je, da je dogovorjen s prijatelji, da nima \u010dasa. V soboto sem ga spontano poklicala, da se peljem ravno mimo lokala, kjer se je dobil s prijatelji, in predlagala, da se jim lahko za kratek \u010das pridru\u017eim. Njegove prijatelje sem poznala, bili so me\u0161ana dru\u017eba, da ne bo pomote, da sem slu\u010dajno nameravala oskruniti njegov \u010das z mo\u0161kimi prijatelji. V resnici sem ga celo vpra\u0161ala, ali se lahko pridru\u017eim. Rekel je, da mu je vseeno, naj naredim kot sama \u017eelim. Odlo\u010dila sem se, da se jim pridru\u017eim in ko sem pri\u0161la, je bil popolnoma hladen do mene. Pol ure je bilo, kot da me ne bi bilo tam, potem sem \u0161la. \u010cez teden dni sva se dogovorila, da greva v nedeljo na izlet na morje. Ko je pri\u0161la sobota, sem od nekoga drugega izvedela, da gre v nedeljo na morje s prijatelji. V nedeljo sem ga, kot da ni\u010d ne vem, klicala kdaj se dobiva. Povedal je, da je na morju in naj pridem tja. Ostali naj bi do naslednjega dne. Ker sem bila do u\u0161es zagledana, sem poklicala prijateljico, jo prosila naj gre z mano, in \u017ee sva bili na poti v Portoro\u017e. Tudi to se je znova izkazalo za napako. Spet je bil, na trenutke vesel, da me vidi, na trenutke hladen, kot do tujke. To mi je kon\u010dno pri\u0161lo do \u017eivega. To me je prizadelo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px;\">In takrat sem spoznala eno najbolj\u0161ih na\u010del, kar se ti\u010de zvez. To je: \u010ce si mo\u0161kemu v\u0161e\u010d, bo \u0161el na konec sveta, da bi bil s tabo. Da bi bil s tabo vsaj pet minut, bi se peljal tudi v Portoro\u017e. \u010ce se ves \u010das izgovarja, da nima \u010dasa, da ga je strah zvez, da si \u017eeli, da gredo stvari bolj po\u010dasi. Je to znak. Znak, da mu pa\u010d ni do tebe. In \u010das, da gre\u0161 ti preprosto naprej. \u010ceprav so \u0161tevilni mo\u0161ki srame\u017eljivi in mora \u017eenska v\u010dasih narediti prvi korak, ga seveda naredimo, toda na njih je, da naredijo drugega. Emancipacija gor ali dol, mo\u0161ki mora biti lovec, mo\u0161ki mora stvari vzeti v svoje roke, mo\u0161ki mora za \u017eensko, ki jo ima rad, narediti vse. Samo spomnite se nase. \u010ce vam je nekdo res v\u0161e\u010d, ste pripravljene marsikaj storiti, da bi pritegnile njegovo pozornost, da bi bile \u010dim ve\u010d z njim, da bi mu bile v\u0161e\u010d. In enako mora biti pri mo\u0161kih. Morajo se potruditi za \u017eensko, morajo dati kaj od sebe, morajo biti aktivni partnerji. Ni dovolj, da samo eden v zvezi daje vse, drugi pa ni\u010d. \u010ce je tako, pa\u010d ni pravi. In ko najdete pravega, vam bo kristalno jasno, zakaj se z vsemi pred njim ni nikoli iz\u0161lo, zakaj so se izkazali za bedake.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u017denska mora \u010dutiti, da mo\u0161kemu pomeni vse in da bi \u0161el na konec sveta za njo. \u010ce ni tako, ni pravi!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1605],"tags":[1400,1689,2749,2254],"source":[2582,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Mu pa\u010d ni do tebe - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/aktualno\/mnenja\/mu-pac-ni-do-tebe\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Mu pa\u010d ni do tebe - 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