{"id":17403,"date":"2016-07-23T06:30:00","date_gmt":"2016-07-23T04:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/07\/24\/kako-opraviti-z-negativnimi-ljudmi\/"},"modified":"2016-08-05T08:38:31","modified_gmt":"2016-08-05T06:38:31","slug":"kako-opraviti-z-negativnimi-ljudmi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-opraviti-z-negativnimi-ljudmi\/","title":{"rendered":"Kako opraviti z negativnimi ljudmi?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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1. Ne prepusti se negativnosti<\/h2>\n

Negativno naravnani ljudje pogosto zaznavajo le negativne stvari in so do njih odprti, pozitivne pa velikokrat spregledajo. Prav zato velikokrat potencirajo te\u017eave, s katerimi se sre\u010dujejo, in predstavijo najslab\u0161i mo\u017een scenarij. Negativno razpolo\u017eenim ljudem ponudi razumevanje, so\u010dutje, podporo in kak dober nasvet. \u010ce pogovor kljub temu ne zavije v bolj\u0161o smer, posku\u0161aj zamenjati temo pogovora. V primeru, da tvoj sogovorec vedno znova zavija v teme z negativnim priokusom, nikar ne dovoli, da zapade\u0161 v negativo tudi sam. Ponudi pozitiven zaklju\u010dek pogovora in odkorakaj stran.<\/p>\n

2. Negativa od nekod izvira<\/h2>\n

Vedno je la\u017eje ponuditi so\u010dutje, \u010de ve\u0161, od kod prihaja vsa negativa, ki jo ta oseba nosi v sebi, vendar to ne sme opravi\u010devati njenega obna\u0161anja. \u010ce ji bo\u0161 pokazal, da tolerira\u0161 tak\u0161no vzdu\u0161je, ji ne bo\u0161 dal razloga, da spremeni na\u010din komuniciranja s teboj.<\/p>\n

3. Pogovor naj te\u010de o lahkotnej\u0161ih temah<\/h2>\n

V negativno naravnanih ljudeh lahko vso negativo prebudi\u0161 z dolo\u010denimi konkretnimi tematikami, zato jih raje ne odpiraj. Zavoljo svojega po\u010dutja raje ostani na lahkotnej\u0161ih temah, na primer filmih, hobijih, veselih novicah in pozitivnih dnevnih dogodkih.<\/p>\n

4. Z negativci se ne prepiraj<\/h2>\n

Kadar se pogovarja\u0161 z osebo, ki v tebi zbuja negativno razpolo\u017eenje, sku\u0161aj nadzorovati svoje \u010dustvene odzive na njeno obna\u0161anje. Negativnost zelo rada i\u0161\u010de dru\u017ebo v drugih ljudeh, najsi gre za iskanje njihove jeze, zgra\u017eanja ali u\u017ealjenosti. Na negativno vzdu\u0161je ne odreagiraj z dodatno negativo ali prepirom, saj bo\u0161 s tem pokazal, da negativec vedno lahko ra\u010duna na tvoj \u00bbpravilni\u00ab odziv. \u010cetudi bi morda tak\u0161nemu \u010dloveku najraje povedal, kar mu gre, se zadr\u017ei in ga raje vpra\u0161aj, kaj bo tisti ve\u010der gledal po televiziji ali pa ponudi kako konstruktivno debato.<\/p>\n

5. Njihovih besed ne jemlji osebno<\/h2>\n

Eden izmed na\u010dinov, kako lahko pomaga\u0161 negativni osebi in seveda sam ne zapade\u0161 v negativo v njihovi dru\u017ebi, je, da enostavno ignorira\u0161 njihove negativne komentarje. \u010ce zavijejo v negativno smer, odgovori s kratkim odgovorom, na primer z \u00bbok, v redu\u00ab. Kadar je oseba pozitivna, pa ponudi nasmeh in kako besedo ve\u010d. Prej ali slej bo videla, da se s pozitivo dose\u017ee veliko ve\u010d kot z negativo.<\/p>\n

6. V dru\u017ebi negativnega \u010dloveka ne bodi sam<\/h2>\n

Pogovor z negativnim \u010dlovekom je lahko res utrujajo\u010d. Nekajminuten pogovor ima lahko nekajurne posledice na po\u010dutju, saj si ti edini, ki je izpostavljen vsej njihovi negativni energiji. Prav zato je dobro v dru\u017ebi z negativno osebo imeti \u0161e nekoga, da se negativna energija porazdeli ali pa celo izgubi. Dodatni prijatelj lahko prinese \u0161e ve\u010d pozitivne energije v pogovor.<\/p>\n

7. Spodbudi jih k pozitivi<\/h2>\n

Negativni ljudje so negativni, ker jim manjka ljubezni, pozitive ali topline in velikokrat je negativnost zgolj oklep za za\u0161\u010dito pred svetom. Negativnemu \u010dloveku lahko pomaga\u0161 tako, da iz njega privle\u010de\u0161 pozitivo. Pomisli, kaj ga trenutno obremenjuje in pomisli, kako mu lahko pomaga\u0161. V\u010dasih niti ni potrebno veliko, le kaka dobra beseda.<\/p>\n

8. Negativnim ljudem se izogibaj, kolikor je le mo\u017eno<\/h2>\n

\u010ce je mo\u017eno, negativnemu \u010dloveku na sprejemljiv na\u010din povej, kako vpliva nate s svojo negativo in morda se te\u017eava razre\u0161i. V primeru, da vse omenjeno odpove, pa sku\u0161aj omejiti \u010das, ki ga porabi\u0161 v dru\u017ebi negativne osebe, saj ni zdravo pre\u017eivljati preve\u010d \u010dasa ob ljudeh, ki te iz\u010drpajo. Tvoj \u010das je dragocen, zato ga porabi v ljudi, ki imajo pozitivne vplive na tvoje po\u010dutje.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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