{"id":17437,"date":"2015-07-20T12:59:00","date_gmt":"2015-07-20T11:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/07\/20\/kaj-zenske-najbolj-skrbi-na-zmenkih\/"},"modified":"2016-04-01T15:53:07","modified_gmt":"2016-04-01T14:53:07","slug":"kaj-zenske-najbolj-skrbi-na-zmenkih","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kaj-zenske-najbolj-skrbi-na-zmenkih\/","title":{"rendered":"Kaj \u017eenske najbolj skrbi na zmenkih?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/zaskrbljena-na-zmenku-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/zaskrbljena-na-zmenku-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/zaskrbljena-na-zmenku-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>foto:Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Zmenki so pogosto povezani z marsikaterimi skrbmi, saj so namenjeni spoznavanju potencialnega partnerja ali partnerke, na katerega pa \u017eelimo narediti kar najbolj\u0161i vtis. Nih\u010de si namre\u010d ne \u017eeli, da bi izpadel slabo ali neprimerno. \u010ce pa gre za zmenek z nam ljubo osebo, pa so skrbi \u0161e toliko ve\u010dje, saj nam je resni\u010dno pomembno, da se prika\u017eemo kar v najbolj\u0161i lu\u010di. In \u010detudi se morda zdi, da so nekatere \u017eenske na zmenkih nadvse samozavestne in se zavedajo svojih \u010darov, pa je resnica po vsej verjetnosti dale\u010d od tega. Tudi na videz \u0161e tako samozavestna fatalka ima na zmenkih kar precej skrbi, katere, pa preberite v nadaljevanju.<\/p>\n<h2>Boji se, da je po zmenku ne bi ve\u010d poklical<\/h2>\n<p>Mo\u0161ki pogosto na zmenku obljubljajo ve\u010d, kot so potem pripravljeni storiti. Verjetno zvenijo znano vse obljube o tem, kako bo poklical, \u010disto zares in brez heca. Ravno tako je najbr\u017e \u017ee vsaka \u017eenska izkusila brezupno \u010dakanje na telefonski klic, ki se nikoli ni zgodil. Zato se \u017eenske \u017ee na zmenku spra\u0161ujejo, ali gre njenemu spremljevalcu verjeti in zaupati, ali pa je le \u0161e eden od tistih, ki veliko govorijo, pa ni\u010d ne storijo. In kako se temu izogniti? Mo\u0161ki naj se vzdr\u017eijo obljub, \u010de jih ne mislijo izpolniti, saj je razo\u010daranje v tem primeru veliko manj\u0161e.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bbAli \u017eeli le spati z mano?\u00ab<\/h2>\n<p>Pregovorno naj bi bili mo\u0161ki tisti, ki radi \u017ee na prvem zmenku sko\u010dijo med rjuhe, zato se jih tudi pogosto dr\u017ei sloves, da \u017eelijo prav vsako svojo spremljevalko zvle\u010di v posteljo. Vendar pa se tukaj izri\u0161e tudi paradoks: \u010de mo\u0161ki preve\u010d hiti z intimnostjo, si lahko njegova \u017eenska misli, da mu je le do tega, \u010de pa z intimnostjo preve\u010d odla\u0161a, si lahko misli, da mu ni v\u0161e\u010d in ga ne privla\u010di. Kaj storiti, da se izognete tej zagati na zmenkih? \u010ce se vam zdi, da ima vajin odnos neko perspektivo, ni nobene potrebe, da se vam mudi. V primeru, da seveda nista oba navdu\u0161ena nad seksom nad eno no\u010d.<\/p>\n<h2>Kaj pa zmenki z drugimi \u017eenskami?<\/h2>\n<p>Nekateri pari, ki \u0161ele vstopajo v razmerje in so se pravzaprav \u0161ele spoznali, prakticirajo sinhrone zmenke. To pomeni, da hkrati na zmenke hodijo z ve\u010dimi potencialnimi partnerji in \u010de ste tudi sami med njimi, je o tem smiselno biti iskren. \u017denske na zmenkih namre\u010d pogosto skrbi, da se njen spremljevalec tako zapeljivo smehlja \u0161e marsikateri drugi, zato ne bo ni\u010d nenavadnega, \u010de o tem tudi kar naravnost povpra\u0161ajo. Laganje se v tem primeru ne bo najbolj obrestovalo.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bbSem dovolj zanimiva\/privla\u010dna\/seksi\/pametna?\u00ab<\/h2>\n<p>Tudi ta vpra\u0161anja so kar pogoste skrbi na zmenkih, saj je prav vsak med nami \u0161e posebej v tak\u0161nih situacijah negotov vase in v svoje sposobnosti. Mnogo \u017eensk se \u017ee na samem zmenku ubada s tem, ali je na svojega potencialnega partnerja naredilo dober vtis, so se pokazale v vsem svojem \u010daru ali pa so obupno dolgo\u010dasne in odbijajo\u010de. In kako re\u0161iti to skrb na zmenku? S pozornostjo, zanimanjem za njene besede in tako, da niso vse mimoido\u010de mladenke v poletnih oblekicah bolj zanimive kot ona.<\/p>\n<p>Zmenki so naporna stvar, \u0161e posebej za tiste \u017eenske (in seveda tudi mo\u0161ke), ki so \u017ee dolgo samske. Poleg tega je tudi poudarjanje pomena \u017eivljenja v dvoje dandanes tako veliko, da se marsikatera samska \u017eenska ob tem po\u010duti, kot da je nekaj narobe z njo. Celo \u0161tiri prijateljice iz Seksa v mestu, ki je v\u010dasih nudil prostor emancipacije, so kon\u010dale v zakonskih zvezah ali pa po resni zvezi vsaj neskon\u010dno hrepenijo. Vendar pa lahko tudi samsko \u017eivljenje nudi precej\u0161nje u\u017eitke, na katere tudi ne gre kar tako z lahkoto pozabiti, kajne?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u010ceprav so lahko na videz zelo samozavestne, pa imajo tudi \u017eenske na zmenkih kar precej skrbi. 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