{"id":17447,"date":"2016-07-15T11:51:00","date_gmt":"2016-07-15T09:51:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/07\/17\/kdaj-zenski-recemo-da-je-zmaj\/"},"modified":"2016-07-28T10:18:59","modified_gmt":"2016-07-28T08:18:59","slug":"kdaj-zenski-upraviceno-recemo-da-je-zmaj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kdaj-zenski-upraviceno-recemo-da-je-zmaj\/","title":{"rendered":"Kdaj \u017eenski upravi\u010deno re\u010demo, da je zmaj?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/img-453935319-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/img-453935319-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/img-453935319-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>foto:Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Skupaj s spletnim portalom Askmen smo zbrali nekaj stra\u0161ljivih vzorcev obna\u0161anja, ki jih prevzamejo nekatere \u017eenske, tak\u0161no ravnanje pa praviloma vodi le v nesre\u010dno vezo.<\/p>\n<h2>Grozi, da si bo kaj storila, \u010de jo zapustite<\/h2>\n<p>Seveda je spoznanje, da je veze konec, lahko nadvse travmati\u010dno in \u017ealostna izku\u0161nja za vsakogar. V taki situaciji se mnogi soo\u010dijo z resnico in jo tako ali druga\u010de &#8216;predelajo&#8217;, ne glede na to, kako te\u017eko je. Obna\u0161anje postane nevarno takrat, kadar eden izmed partnerjev grozi, da si bo v primeru konca veze kaj storil. Gre za patolo\u0161ko vedenje, pri katerem nikoli ne more\u0161 vedeti, ali partnerica misli resno. Sam najbolje pozna\u0161 svojo partnerko in tukaj lahko postavi\u0161 na tehtnico na eni strani njeno resni\u010dno obna\u0161anje, na drugi pa njene besede in tako presodi\u0161, kako resne so njene gro\u017enje. Vsekakor gre za problem, ki izvira iz \u010dustvenih te\u017eav in ga ni priporo\u010dljivo prezreti. Najsi gre za resne namene ali le manipulativen na\u010din, da te ohrani v svoji bli\u017eini, ji vsekakor poskusi pomagati s prijaznim nasvetom.<\/p>\n<h2>Med prepirom postane fizi\u010dno agresivna<\/h2>\n<p>Pari se zelo pogosto pri\u010dkajo. V\u010dasih to pri\u010dkanje preraste v resen prepir, ki pa ga partnerja v zdravi vezi znata kljub vsemu ohraniti na dostojnem nivoju in na koncu vseeno pozabita na zamere. V primeru, da vajini prepiri preidejo v njeno fizi\u010dno agresijo, si brez dvoma pri\u010da stra\u0161ljivemu vzorcu obna\u0161anja. Vsakr\u0161na oblika fizi\u010dnega nasilja je vzrok za skrb in nima opravi\u010dila, ne glede na to, kdo je za\u010del prepir. Najbolje bo, da se o njeni agresiji pogovorita in jo sku\u0161ata odpraviti. \u010ce slednje ne uspe, v tak\u0161ni vezi ne oklevaj predolgo.<\/p>\n<h2>Preneha uporabljati kontracepcijo brez da bi ti povedala<\/h2>\n<p>Po vsej verjetnosti si \u017ee sli\u0161al za ljudsko modrost, ki pravi, da so nore in &#8216;od\u0161tekane&#8217; \u017eenske fenomenalne v postelji. Vse v redu in prav, dokler se ne pri\u010dnejo noro obna\u0161ati tudi ko pride do kontracepcije. Plan tak\u0161nega stra\u0161ljivega obna\u0161anja je lahko u\u017eitek ob tveganem seksu ali pa enostavno partnerja za vedno ujeti z nose\u010dnostjo. \u010ce nisi prepri\u010dan, ali tvoja partnerka \u0161e vedno pridno jemlje tabletke, jo lahko enostavno povpra\u0161a\u0161 po dokazu.<\/p>\n<h2>Sama si je izdelala kopijo klju\u010da va\u0161ega stanovanja<\/h2>\n<p>Medtem ko se ti \u0161ele uvaja\u0161 v to vezo, je ona \u017ee skoraj vseljena v va\u0161e stanovanje. \u0160la je celo tako dale\u010d, da si je sama izdelala kopijo klju\u010da tvojega stanovanja, brez da bi ti povedala in zdaj ima omogo\u010den vstop vsaki\u010d, kadar si za\u017eeli. V taki situaciji nikoli ne ve\u0161, koliko kopij si je dejansko izdelala, zato je pro\u0161nja, da ti preda klju\u010d v\u010dasih nesmiselna. Klju\u010d ji lahko skrivaj ukrade\u0161 ali pa enostavno zamenja\u0161 klju\u010davnico.<\/p>\n<h2>Pojavi se tam, kjer jo najmanj pri\u010dakuje\u0161<\/h2>\n<p>Kljub silni ljubezni si partnerji v\u010dasih za\u017eelijo ve\u010dera s prijatelji\/cami. Te\u017eava je le v tem, da partnerka tega ne razume in te popolnoma nepri\u010dakovano sredi dru\u017eabnega ve\u010dera preseneti s svojo pojavo. V takem primeru ji lahko \u010disto umirjeno razlo\u017ei\u0161, da ti tak\u0161na presene\u010denja niso ravno najbolj pri srcu in jo pomiri, da ti lahko zaupa.<\/p>\n<h2>Ukvarja se s tvojo elektronsko po\u0161to<\/h2>\n<p>\u010ce v svojem elektronskem po\u0161tnem predalu opazi\u0161 nekaj sumljivega, bi znalo biti res, da se s tvojimi sporo\u010dili poigrava tvoja partnerka. Mogo\u010de nanje celo odgovarja, ali pa jih samo prebira. Najprej se vpra\u0161aj, kdaj si ji zaupal svoja gesla. \u010ce odgovora na to ne ve\u0161, je njeno obna\u0161anje \u0161e toliko bolj bizarno, saj jih je o\u010ditno nekako odkrila sama. Re\u0161itev za omenjeno te\u017eavo je enostavna. Zamenjaj geslo.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>V\u010dasih se prijetno dekle spremeni v zmaja. 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