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Mo\u0161kim so zelo zanimive nedostopne \u017eenske, saj jim dajo motivacijo in zagon za osvojitev \u00bbtrdnjave\u00ab.<\/p>\n

Kako lahko ugotovi\u0161, da z \u017eensko izgublja\u0161 \u010das?<\/b><\/h2>\n

Mo\u0161ki ste zelo razumna bitja, zato se s preprostimi argumenti lahko zelo hitro pribli\u017eate resnici. Neko\u010d me je stranka vpra\u0161ala, kje je meja med vztrajnostjo in neumnostjo? Preprost odgovor je bil: \u00bb\u010ce se punca dela nedostopno, jo \u010dimprej mahni drugam.\u00ab Ta fant ima namre\u010d zgodovino propadlih poskusov pri \u017eenskah. \u00bbNapa\u010dne privla\u010di\u0161\u00ab, je bil moj argument. \u00bbOzri se nazaj in razmisli, kaj te je vleklo pri vseh \u017eenskah, ki si se zanje trudil.\u00ab Fant enostavno ni razumel, da se za \u017eensko svojega \u017eivljenja ni potrebno truditi do onemoglosti. Tista \u017eenska, ki si ji v\u0161e\u010d, ti bo to pokazala. Vzela si bo \u010das zate, saj bo u\u017eivala v tvoji dru\u017ebi. \u010ce si \u017eenska ne najde \u010dasa za sre\u010danje prvih 14 dni, odkar sta se spoznala, nadaljuj svojo pot. Vmes se lahko \u0161e udari\u0161 po glavi, ker si se spet ujel v zanko nedostopnic.<\/p>\n

Spremeni vzorec obna\u0161anja in za\u010del bo\u0161 privla\u010diti druga\u010dne \u017eenske.<\/b><\/h2>\n

Mo\u0161ki imate tako kot me \u017eenske potrebo po re\u0161evanju revic, \u010dustveno nezrelih oseb. Radi se po\u010dutite re\u0161itelji, v bistvu pa v tem \u010dasu zanemarjate svojo sre\u010do. Ne vem, koliko je pametno igrati super mena \u017eenskam, ki tega niso sposobne ceniti\u2026. Ko spozna\u0161, da se za \u017eensko ni potrebno truditi, se \u017ee oddaljuje\u0161 neumnostim, ki si jih v\u010dasih po\u010del za \u017eenske.<\/p>\n

Kako izgleda neumnost?<\/b><\/h2>\n

Drugi fant, ki je imel popolnoma isto te\u017eavo glede \u017eensk, mi je enkrat omenil, da je za svojo \u00bbkraljico\u00ab organiziral piknik. Povabil je veliko prijateljev, da ne bi izgledalo sumljivo. \u017delel je pri\u010darati vzdu\u0161je, da bi se onadva po naklju\u010dju za\u0161tekala, nakar te punce sploh ni bilo na piknik! Da ne omenjam stopnje prizadetosti, ki ni bila le v njegovem srcu. Nahraniti 20 ljudi ter pripraviti prijeten ambient, terja ogromno energije, tako finan\u010dne kot osebne.<\/p>\n

Obsedenost z dolo\u010deno damo, ki se le ob\u010dasno odziva, ti ne bo prinesla rezultata. To je neumnost!<\/b><\/h2>\n

Po nekaj dneh se o\u010ditno vidi, \u010de si \u017eenski v\u0161e\u010d ali ji nisi. Kakor hitro si za\u010dne izmi\u0161ljevati vse mo\u017ene izgovore, zakaj ne more priti na pija\u010do, na sprehod ali karkoli dru\u017eabnega, ti daje o\u010ditne znake, da je problemati\u010dna oseba, ki ne ve kaj bi rada. En dan ja, drug dan ne\u2026 Zbe\u017ei pro\u010d, da se bo kadilo za teboj! Predstavljaj si \u017eivljenje s tako osebo, ki se \u017ee na za\u010detku obotavlja. Tri mesece je vztrajal tretji fant, dokler mu ni po\u010dil film. V\u010dasih res moramo do\u017eiveti konkretno ignoranco, da si la\u017eje postavimo svoje \u017eelje in pri\u010dakovanja.<\/p>\n

Obstajajo \u017eenske, ki si dejansko \u017eelijo ljube\u010d odnos.<\/b><\/h2>\n

Dokler bo\u0161 magnet za \u00bbpacientke\u00ab, bo\u0161 zagotovo v coni neumne\u017eev. Vztrajnost se zelo lepo razlo\u017ei tako: ko ti je punca v\u0161e\u010d, jo povabi\u0161 na sprehod\u2026 Ona re\u010de ja. Naslednji\u010d, \u010de ti je \u0161e vedno v\u0161e\u010d, jo povabi\u0161 v kino\u2026 Ona re\u010de ja. Iz zmenka v zmenek jo spoznava\u0161, u\u017eiva\u0161 v njeni dru\u017ebi in ne \u010daka\u0161 obupan po 3 dni, da ti odgovori na sms. Ne na\u010drtuje\u0161 kompliciranih strategij, kako jo bo\u0161 omre\u017eil. V njeni dru\u017ebi si spro\u0161\u010den, ker si lahko le tak najbolj izviren in pravi ti. Le tako lahko poka\u017ee\u0161 svoje \u010dare in originalnost. \u017divljenje lahko te\u010de gladko, \u010de si to dovolimo. Preusmeri se k naklonjenim puncam, k tistim, ki si dejansko \u017eelijo ljube\u010d odnos in si ne nabijajo ega tako, da enega papka vrtijo okoli prsta.<\/p>\n

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\u010ce se tudi ti kdaj po\u010duti\u0161 \u00bbzaspan\u00ab in \u010duti\u0161, da bi potreboval navdih, brco ali si morda \u017eeli\u0161 na zmenek s simpati\u010dno punco, mi lahko pi\u0161e\u0161 na lidija.mursek@gmail.com<\/a><\/strong> . \u017divljenje je trening. Pot do cilja pa v\u010dasih sploh ni zahtevna.<\/p>\n

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Lahko ti najdem zmenek ali pa te samo prestra\u0161im, da me\u010de\u0161 vstran svoj najbolj\u0161i del \u017eivljenja in bo\u0161 od tam naprej zmogel sam.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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