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Zavrnitev<\/h2>\n

Ko se eden izmed partnerjev ob vsaki pobudi seksa sre\u010da s partnerjevo nejevoljo, raznimi izgovori in zavrnitvijo, \u010dez \u010das preneha spra\u0161evati. Partnerjevo konstantno zavrnitev je zelo te\u017eko sprejeti, saj se lahko pojavijo neprijetni ob\u010dutki \u017ealosti in seksualne neprivla\u010dnosti, ponekod pa tudi dvomi v zvestobo partnerja in padec samozavesti. Prav zato, ker se je s partnerjevo zavrnitvijo tako te\u017eko sprijazniti, pride pri zavrnjeni osebi do umika in \u010dakanja na partnerjevo pobudo, do \u010desar pa lahko pride tudi \u0161ele po nekaj tednih ali mesecih.<\/p>\n

Vpra\u0161anje samopodobe<\/h2>\n

Skozi leta se spreminja ne le razmerje para, temve\u010d tudi partnerja sama. Neizogiben tok narave s seboj prinese tudi starost in druga\u010den telesni izgled, kar pa v nekaterih okoli\u0161\u010dinah lahko pobere svoj davek tudi v spalnici para. Ko eden izmed partnerjev dobi negativen odnos do svoje samopodobe, njegovo stanje lahko vpliva tudi na spolnost para.<\/p>\n

Malenkostni vsakdanji nesporazumi<\/h2>\n

Verjetno se mnogim sli\u0161i zelo banalno, vendar nedavna britanska raziskava, ki je zajemala sto parov, je pokazala, da tudi razporeditev hi\u0161nih opravil lahko vpliva na spolno \u017eivljenje. \u010ce le eden izmed partnerjev opravlja vsa opravila, ni redkost, da mu ob koncu dneva zmanjka energije za seks. Poleg fizi\u010dnega efekta, pa ima razporejanje hi\u0161nih opravil lahko tudi psihi\u010dni efekt. Namre\u010d kadar je partner, ponavadi gre tu za mo\u0161kega, pripravljen pomagati svoji partnerki pri hi\u0161nih opravilih, s tem poka\u017ee, da je z njo pripravljen deliti vse napore in tudi da je ne obravnava kot osebne slu\u017eabnice. \u010ce \u017eelite, da se vsakdanja opravila spreobrnejo v seksi predigro, pa se lahko med njimi tudi malce pozabavate.<\/p>\n

Be\u017eanje pred \u0161e enim seksualnim razo\u010daranjem<\/h2>\n

Spolno \u017eivljenje lahko postane opusto\u0161eno tudi zato, ker eden izmed partnerjev z njim ni zadovoljen in postelje ne zapusti seksualno pote\u0161en. V takem primeru se seksa lahko izogibata oba partnerja. Prvi zato, ker mu seks, kakr\u0161en je, ne odgovarja, drugi pa zato, ker ne ve, kako partnerja pote\u0161iti. Vsekakor je potreben iskren pogovor, saj tak\u0161na zagata lahko privede do resnih te\u017eav, ki na\u010dnejo razmerje.<\/p>\n

Razlika v libidih<\/h2>\n

Mnenja, da imajo mo\u0161ki vi\u0161ji libido od \u017eensk, tega vsekakor ne gre jemati za zanesljiv podatek, saj praksa v\u010dasih pri\u010da ravno nasprotno. \u010ceprav mnogo \u017eensk najde zadovoljitev \u017ee samo v ne\u017enem objemu, se lahko vsak mo\u0161ki ob pritisku na prave gumbe ob vsakem trenutku znajde v dru\u017ebi mo\u010dno seksualno razpolo\u017eene partnerke.<\/p>\n

Razo\u010darani nad \u017eivljenjem<\/h2>\n

Mnogi ljudje si ob sebi \u017eelijo kompatibilnega partnerja, ki bo enako ambiciozen kot oni sami. Ko eden izmed partnerjev ne dose\u017ee svojih potencialov, se lahko pojavijo ob\u010dutki razo\u010daranja, kar pa je le korak stran od neprijetnega umskega stanja ali pa pri uspe\u0161nej\u0161em partnerju lahko pride do ob\u010dutka, da jih partner ovira in da gre razmerje navzdol. Prav tja pa gre v takih primerih ponavadi tudi njun libido.<\/p>\n

”Stalno me gnjavi s seksom”<\/h2>\n

\u010ceprav mnogi sanjajo o partnerju, ki bi bil stalno seksualno razpolo\u017een, te sanje ne izgledajo tako popolno v realnosti. Namre\u010d velikokrat se zgodi, da se koli\u010dina spolnih odnosov zmanj\u0161a prav zato, ker eden izmed partnerjev drugega neprestano gnjavi s seksom, kar pa v\u010dasih lahko deluje malce odbijajo\u010de. Skrivnost je v pravem razpolo\u017eenju ob pravem \u010dasu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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