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Odtujenost partnerjev in poskus re\u0161evanja razmerja<\/h2>\n

Lepa in mlada \u017eenska je na fakulteti spoznala ambicioznega kolega, s katerim sta se za\u010dela skupaj u\u010diti, kar je s\u010dasoma preraslo v ljubezen. Odlo\u010dila sta se, da za\u010dneta \u017eiveti skupaj. Ker je partner imel velike vizije in ideje, kaj lahko naredi bolj\u0161ega in ve\u010djega, je ustanovil firmo, v kateri se je po rojstvu otroka zaposlila tudi partnerica, ki je sicer bolj pasivni, vendar ne manj inteligentni del njune dru\u017eine in firme. Ker se je podjetje ukvarjalo z inovativnimi re\u0161itvami, je dobilo tudi ve\u010dja sredstva, ki so omogo\u010dila hiter zagon podjetja, s tem pa je bila povezana tudi vedno ve\u010dja anga\u017eiranost partnerja. Kmalu je po cele dneve in ve\u010dere ostajal v pisarni, delal, izdeloval re\u0161itve, uresni\u010deval svoje vizije ter proti poznemu ve\u010deru prihajal domov.<\/span><\/p>\n

Partnerica je kar dolgo prena\u0161ala njegovo dolgotrajno odsotnost, sama je vzgajala otroka in skrbela za dom, vendar ji je vsake toliko prekipelo in je od njega sprva prosila, nato pa \u017ee zahtevala, da naj se ve\u010d anga\u017eira pri dru\u017einskem \u017eivljenju in pri vzgoji otroka. Partner ji je sicer vedno znova obljubljal, da bo prej nehal delati, da bo delal le 8 ur na dan, da se bo bolj posvetil njej in dru\u017eini, vendar je te obljube po nekaj dnevih prelomil in se spet zakopal v delo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Prazne obljube…<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Partnerica je po nekem obdobju pro\u0161enj in upanju, da bo res ve\u010d \u010dasa posvetil dru\u017eini s\u010dasoma za\u010dela tudi s tehnikami izsiljevanja in mu grozila, da se bo z otrokom odselila, \u010de se celotna situacija ne bo spremenila. Ona je \u0161e vedno delala v njuni firmi, vendar je po osmih urah dela od\u0161la v vrtec po sina ter nato skrbela za gospodinjska opravila. Ko je partner prihajal domov utrujen in iz\u017eet, se mu ni ljubilo z njo prerekati, pa se je izgovarjal da mora tudi doma neke slu\u017ebene zadeve preu\u010devati in se je tako nekaj \u010dasa uspe\u0161no izogibal soo\u010denju z besom partnerke in njenimi o\u010ditki, da se ni\u010d ne ukvarja s sinom in prav tako ni\u010d z njenimi potrebami po ne\u017enosti, sprejetosti in spolnosti. Partner je na vse njen o\u010ditke vedno znova ponavljal, da dela vendar toliko samo zato, da vsem trem omogo\u010di blagostanje, da jim ne bo ni\u010d manjkalo, da je sedaj pravi trenutek, da se firma \u0161e bolj razvije in tako v nedogled vedno eni in isti izgovori.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ko kemija zbledi<\/h2>\n

Partnerica je tako ostajala vedno znova sama doma, tudi \u010dez vikende si gospod ni vzel \u010dasa za sebe in svojo dru\u017eino in tako je za\u010dela gospa sama s sinom pre\u017eivljati prosi \u010das s prijatelji in prijateljicami, \u0161e posebej so se ji priljubili izleti v gore, kjer je po dolgih letih spet za\u010dutila, da lahko diha. Medsebojna kemija med partnerjema je s\u010dasoma zbledela in se dokon\u010dno razblinila tisti dan, ko gospoda kljub obljubam ni bilo na neko prireditev v vrtec, \u010deprav je sinu in partnerici obljubil, da zagotovo pride. To je bila kaplja \u010dez rob, da so se krhke vezi med njima \u0161e dodatno razrahljale, vendar tudi ta dogodek ni odvrnil gospoda od njegove deloholi\u010dnosti in izogibanja dru\u017einskim obveznostim.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u010ce ji ne bo\u0161 prisluhnil, ji bo pa kdo drug…<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Po naklju\u010dju je izvedel, da se gospa videva z drugim mo\u0161kim in ko jo je vpra\u0161al, ali je to res, je povedala, da ga res pozna in da je z njim prijateljica, saj ima ta mo\u0161ki mnogo \u010dasa za njo, da jo poslu\u0161a, jo razume in ji stoji ob strani v vseh problemih. Izkazalo se je, da je njen prijatelj opravljal vse tisto, kar bi pravzaprav moral po\u010deti partner, pa ni. Partner je na \u017ealost zanemarjal vse, ker je bilo povezano s izkazovanjem \u010dustev do partnerice, negiral je vse njene pro\u0161nje in potrebe po spremembi v njunem odtujenem odnosu.<\/span><\/p>\n

Potrebno si je postaviti prioritete<\/h2>\n

\u0160ele, ko je bil partner postavljen pred dejstvo, da ga \u017eena zapu\u0161\u010da skupaj z otrokom in da si \u017eeli bolj kvaliteten odnos, pozornost, ljubezen in sprejetost njenih zahtev, se je zavedal, da bo izgubil vse, kar je mislil, da je samo po sebi umevno, da je njegovo, da ga bo \u017eena vedno \u010dakala, da bo otrok rasel tudi brez njega in da je dovolj le to, da nosi denar domov. Ko je uvidel, da je zadeva resna, je bil pripravljen vse pustiti in je partnerici obljubil nebesa, samo da bi ostali skupaj. Vendar je \u017eena medtem do\u017eivela izpoved ljubezen s strani dobrega prijatelja, s katerim je pre\u017eivljala \u010das, ko je bila osamljena in se je nepreklicno odlo\u010dila, da zapusti partnerja. Partnerju se je podrl svet in \u0161ele v tem trenutku je videl, da je izgubil vse in da mu tudi te\u017eko zaslu\u017eeni denar ne pomeni ni\u010d.<\/span><\/p>\n

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