{"id":18098,"date":"2015-03-30T08:29:25","date_gmt":"2015-03-30T07:29:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/03\/30\/ljubosumje-kdaj-je-upraviceno\/"},"modified":"2015-03-30T08:29:25","modified_gmt":"2015-03-30T07:29:25","slug":"ljubosumje-kdaj-je-upraviceno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/ljubosumje-kdaj-je-upraviceno\/","title":{"rendered":"LJUBOSUMJE: Kdaj je upravi\u010deno?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Vsi smo \u017ee bili kdaj ljubosumni. Zakaj pa? Verjetno zato, ker je partnerica\u00a0za\u010dela skrivati telefon, ga ima naenkrat na tiho nastavljenega in zve\u010der odnese smeti, pa je ni pol ure, \u010detudi je do zabojnika 15 metrov. Najprej niste preve\u010d pozorni, ko pa opazite vedno ve\u010d znakov, ki ka\u017eejo, da se je nekaj v njenem vedenju spremenilo, jo za\u010dnete bolj podrobno opazovati. In kjer imamo slutnje, bomo vedno nekaj na\u0161li, \u010detudi v\u010dasih po krivici.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u017denske tudi varajo. In pogosto prikrivajo svojo afero. La\u017eejo, si izmi\u0161ljujejo razne zgodbe, s katerimi \u017eelijo zamaskirati svojega ljubimca. Ko za\u010dne partner sumiti, da se nekaj nezvestega dogaja, ga popade ljubosumnost. O tem, kaj povzro\u010dajo ljubosumni izpadi, lahko preberete v kak\u0161ni \u010drni kroniki. Danes razmi\u0161ljajmo o tem, kako za\u010deti pogovor o problemih, ki so pripeljali do tega, da se je \u017eena ali partnerka zagledala v drugega. Ker obi\u010dajno velja, da \u010de je doma nekako urejena komunikacija, \u010de je partnersko in dru\u017einsko \u017eivljenje dokaj zadovoljujo\u010de, zakaj bi potem videli in se zaljubili v nekoga drugega? Vedeti je treba oziroma jaz pri svojem svetovalnem delu opa\u017eam, da \u017eenske, ki so prevarale mo\u017ea, tega niso naredile zgolj zaradi samega golega seksa temve\u010d, ker so se v drugega mo\u0161kega zaljubile. Kar pomeni, da se je \u017ear ljube\u010de pripadnosti v njunem zakonu nekje na poti \u017eivljenja izgubil. Da sta pozabila negovati eden drugega \u010dustveno in telesno. Postala sta si samoumevna, rutina je za\u010dela obvladovati posteljno prizori\u0161\u010de, o ni\u010demer pomembnem se ve\u010d nista menila. Praznina in enoli\u010dnost, predvsem \u010dustvena nas \u017eenske ubija. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ko dobimo malce pozornosti drugega mo\u0161kega, nam kaj hitro lahko utripne sr\u010dek. Po\u010dutimo se polaskane, \u017eelene, zapeljive, \u017eenstvene. Tu obstaja velika mo\u017enost, da podle\u017eemo \u010darom drugega, kar pomeni, da partner ni opravil svojega dela pozornosti in pripadnosti. Ker je damo svojega srca za\u010del jemati za samoumevno. Tega \u00bbgreha\u00ab nikar ne delajte. Pa vam ne bo potrebno biti ljubosumen.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Avtorica prispevka sem univerzitetna diplomirana socialna pedagoginja in diplomirana socialna delavka\u00a0Melita Kuhar<\/b>, ki vodim projekt Svetovalnica<\/b>, www.svetovalnica.si<\/a>, dosegljiva sem na tel.\u0161t.031 666 168<\/b>. \u010ce bi se radi naro\u010dili na individualno svetovanje ali me kaj povpra\u0161ali, pi\u0161ite na:info@svetovalnica.si<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Svetovalnici lahko sledite tudi na Facebooku:\u00a0www.facebook.com\/Svetovalnica<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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