{"id":18148,"date":"2015-03-17T07:11:38","date_gmt":"2015-03-17T06:11:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/03\/17\/kako-in-zakaj-se-mascujemo-s-seksom\/"},"modified":"2015-03-17T07:11:38","modified_gmt":"2015-03-17T06:11:38","slug":"kako-in-zakaj-se-mascujemo-s-seksom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-in-zakaj-se-mascujemo-s-seksom\/","title":{"rendered":"Kako (in zakaj) se ma\u0161\u010dujemo s seksom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">Verjetno je \u017ee marsikdo od vas do\u017eivel, da je bil \u017ertev ma\u0161\u010devalne \u017eene in ni dobil posteljnih nagajivosti, ker je bil \u010dez dan po \u017eeninih besedah nezanesljiv, ni je poklical za kosilo, kot sta bila dogovorjena, zamudil je v vrtec po otroka, v trgovini je kupil vse drugo kot pa tisto, kar je napisala na listek in \u010das ma\u0161\u010devanja nastopi torej ob odhodu v zakonsko posteljo.<\/span><\/p>\n<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/img-154247813-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/img-154247813-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/img-154247813-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>foto:Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">Tak\u0161nih in podobnih primerov je cel kup. Kar je stra\u0161no, je dejstvo, da se tak\u0161no neproduktivno in nevarno ma\u0161\u010devanje lahko vle\u010de tedne, mesece in celo leta! Prosim, vsem damam v razmislek, da se tako ne re\u0161ujejo zamere, o\u010ditki in kar \u017eelite \u0161e povedati svojim dragim. Se bo treba usesti in pomeniti, z argumenti in spo\u0161tljivo do mnenja mo\u017ea oziroma partnerja. Pa\u010d, enakovredna komunikacija lahko razjasni nastale nesporazume, nikakor pa ne trmarjenje preko kaznovanja na podro\u010dju tako fantasti\u010dne zadeve, kot je zadovoljujo\u010d seks in intimna dveh oseb, ki sta se odlo\u010dile, da bosta delila svoje \u017eivljenje.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">No, kar pa se vedno bolj pogosto dogaja, je to, da se trend obra\u010da. Na \u017ealost. Poslu\u0161am mo\u0161ke v najlep\u0161ih mo\u0161kih letih, ki pravijo, da ne bodo zve\u010der pobo\u017eali svoje drage, ker je bila \u010dez dan te\u010dna, nasikana in sploh ga je nervirala. In naj ne misli, da jo bo med rjuhami osvajal! In ji to tudi kar pove. Pa se tako v \u0161iroki postelji zve\u010der obrneta vsak na svojo stran, brez dotikov, objemov, ne\u017enosti, ki bi kasneje lahko vodile v intimno zdru\u017eitev. Dnevi in tedni minevajo v tak\u0161nem nezdravem vzdu\u0161ju. Bedno pa\u010d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">Ko za\u010dne \u0161kripati na seksualnem podro\u010dju in ko pride do vedno dalj\u0161ih hladnih in zaledenelih odnosov v postelji, ste lahko prepri\u010dani, da je v \u0161kripcih tudi va\u0161 zakon oziroma partnerska zveza. Mogo\u010de se vam bo zdela malce pretirana tale moja trditev, a do tega zaklju\u010dka me je pripeljalo delo s strankami. \u0160e ni bilo para na svetovanju, ki bi rekel, da se pa veselo in redno igrata med rjuhami. Ker tisti pari, ki pridejo po strokovno pomo\u010d, imajo te\u017eave na ve\u010d podro\u010djih skupnega \u017eivljenja in eno, zelo pomembno, je podro\u010dje spolnosti.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">Zato priporo\u010dam, da se redno ljubite, negujte ljube\u010do pripadnost, zamere in nesoglasja, ki se kopi\u010dijo \u010dez dan, re\u0161ujte pred spanjem ali pa naslednji dan, ko se razgreta \u010dustva \u017ee malce ohladijo. <\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">Vedno imejta v mislih, da sta si vidva pomembna in da je tudi ljubljenje pomembna vez vajine zveze. No, seveda vse opisano velja tudi, \u010de preferirata jutranji seks.<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Avtorica prispevka sem univerzitetna diplomirana socialna pedagoginja in diplomirana socialna delavka\u00a0<b>Melita Kuhar<\/b>, ki vodim projekt <b>Svetovalnica<\/b>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.svetovalnica.si\/\" target=\"_blank\">www.svetovalnica.si<\/a>, dosegljiva sem na tel.\u0161t. <b>031 666 168<\/b>. \u010ce bi se radi naro\u010dili na individualno svetovanje ali me kaj povpra\u0161ali, pi\u0161ite na:<a href=\"mailto:info@svetovalnica.si\" target=\"_blank\">info@svetovalnica.si<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Svetovalnici lahko sledite tudi na Facebooku:<strong>\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Svetovalnica\" target=\"_blank\">www.facebook.com\/Svetovalnica<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>O neproduktivnem in nevarnem ma\u0161\u010devanju, ki se lahko vle\u010de tedne, mesece in celo leta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1091],"tags":[1427,1400,1689,1990],"source":[1518,1530,1529],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.3 - 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