{"id":18162,"date":"2015-03-13T09:04:03","date_gmt":"2015-03-13T08:04:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/03\/13\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/"},"modified":"2015-03-13T09:04:03","modified_gmt":"2015-03-13T08:04:03","slug":"kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/","title":{"rendered":"Kako pravilno raz\u010distiti nesporazum?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/img-75252770-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/img-75252770-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/img-75252770-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>foto:Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">Pogosto se dogaja, da <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">se v kreganju povi\u0161ajo toni in \u017ee kri\u010dimo eden na drugega ter pri tem lahko izre\u010demo besede, ki jih kasneje ob\u017ealujemo<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">. Da se to ne bi zgodilo, je tukaj nekaj kratkih nasvetov. Ali jih boste upo\u0161tevali ali ne, je seveda va\u0161a odlo\u010ditev. In ker vsaka odlo\u010ditev nosi neke posledice, je potrebno prevzeti tudi odgovornost za samo odlo\u010ditev.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\"><b>1. Poka\u017eite spo\u0161tovanje do druge osebe<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">. \u010ce ne \u00bbzalivamo\u00ab odnosa in ne spo\u0161tujemo razli\u010dnosti druge osebe, se bo odnos posu\u0161il. Posku\u0161ajte se osredoto\u010dati na pozitivne lastnosti ljubljene osebe. Pa si enkrat na teden vzemite \u010das in se osredoto\u010dite predvsem eden na drugega. Ljubkujta odnos, komunicirajta na vseh ravneh.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\"><b>2. Opravi\u010dite se<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\"> za vse, kar ste zahtevali ali hoteli, da druga oseba naredi, kljub lastni druga\u010dni volji. Ko se opravi\u010dimo, napetost zaradi nesoglasja malce popusti in tako naredi prostor za mo\u017enost razjasnitve nesporazuma na kulturen in civiliziran na\u010din. Da se najde re\u0161itev.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\"><b>3. Povpra\u0161ajte in prosite za ve\u010d dodatnih informacij<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">. Namre\u010d, zaenkrat \u0161e ne znamo brati misli in ob\u010dutiti \u010dustev druge osebe. Zato imamo jezik in glasilke in ustna, da vpra\u0161amo, kar nam ni bilo povsem jasno, nismo razumeli ali nam je \u010dudno, pa \u017eelimo priti na \u010disto kaj se pravzaprav v glavi in sr\u010dku nam drage osebe dogaja. To nam daje tudi mo\u017enost, da ne ponavljamo napak ali ne povzro\u010damo bole\u010dine, saj sedaj vemo, kaj osebo nasproti nas moti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\"><b>4. Ko nas druga oseba prizadene, to na primeren poka\u017eemo.<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\"> Povemo tudi, da se z ne\u010dim ne strinjamo, kar je povedala. Pogoj je, da ste dovolj mirni, da to sporo\u010dite na ustrezen na\u010din. Ker z povzdignjenim glasom in kri\u010danjem ne re\u0161ite ni\u010d. Zgolj kar se zgodi, je pove\u010danje jeze in napetosti. Za vsako kreganje pa sta vedno potrebna dva, se strinjate?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\"><b>Odnosi so ve\u010dslojni in kompleksni<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">. To so zapletene strukture med vsaj dvema osebama, ki se trudita razumeti ena drugo. Pa to vedno ne gre. Ko se ujamemo v mre\u017eo nestrinjanja, jeze, agresije, nespo\u0161tovanja, si ponovno preberite teh nekaj korakov, kako raz\u010distite nabrane nesporazume.<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">Avtorica prispevka sem univerzitetna diplomirana socialna pedagoginja in diplomirana socialna delavka <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\"><b>Melita Kuhar<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">, ki vodim projekt <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\"><b>Svetovalnica<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">,<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.svetovalnica.si\">www.svetovalnica.si<\/a><\/span>, dosegljiva sem na tel.\u0161t. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\"><b>031 666 168<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">. \u010ce bi se radi naro\u010dili na individualno svetovanje ali me kaj povpra\u0161ali, pi\u0161ite na: <\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"mailto:info@svetovalnica.si\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">info@svetovalnica.si<\/span><\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, serif;\">Svetovalnici lahko sledite tudi na Facebooku:<strong style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Svetovalnica\">www.facebook.com\/Svetovalnica<\/a><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>V vsakem odnosu se dogajajo nesporazumi in napa\u010dno razumljena sporo\u010dila. Tako to je. To je lahko va\u0161a partnerka, va\u0161i otroci, dru\u017eina, prijatelji. Seveda se to dogaja tudi v slu\u017ebi. In vse to je normalno.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1091],"tags":[1427,1689,1473,1690],"source":[1518,1530,1529],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Kako pravilno raz\u010distiti nesporazum? - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Kako pravilno raz\u010distiti nesporazum? - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"V vsakem odnosu se dogajajo nesporazumi in napa\u010dno razumljena sporo\u010dila. Tako to je. To je lahko va\u0161a partnerka, va\u0161i otroci, dru\u017eina, prijatelji. Seveda se to dogaja tudi v slu\u017ebi. In vse to je normalno.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2015-03-13T08:04:03+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2016\/04\/img-75252770.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"684\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"512\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"hudo\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@hudo_si\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@hudo_si\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"hudo\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minuti\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"hudo\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707\"},\"headline\":\"Kako pravilno raz\u010distiti nesporazum?\",\"datePublished\":\"2015-03-13T08:04:03+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2015-03-13T08:04:03+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/\"},\"wordCount\":434,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization\"},\"keywords\":[\"Melita Kuhar\",\"nasveti za sre\u010dno partnersko zvezo\",\"partnerske te\u017eave\",\"prepiranje\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Lifestyle\"],\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/\",\"name\":\"Kako pravilno raz\u010distiti nesporazum? - Hudo Slovenija\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2015-03-13T08:04:03+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2015-03-13T08:04:03+00:00\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Kako pravilno raz\u010distiti nesporazum?\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/\",\"name\":\"Hudo Slovenija\",\"description\":\"Vse novice iz Slovenije in sveta\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":\"required name=search_term_string\"}],\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization\",\"name\":\"VSN Media\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/hudo-app-2.png\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/hudo-app-2.png\",\"width\":2185,\"height\":2167,\"caption\":\"VSN Media\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\"},\"sameAs\":[\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si\",\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hudo_si\"]},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707\",\"name\":\"hudo\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c4ca25fa72cace7a696b52ff5db9e095?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c4ca25fa72cace7a696b52ff5db9e095?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"hudo\"},\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/author\/hudo\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Kako pravilno raz\u010distiti nesporazum? - Hudo Slovenija","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/","og_locale":"sl_SI","og_type":"article","og_title":"Kako pravilno raz\u010distiti nesporazum? - Hudo Slovenija","og_description":"V vsakem odnosu se dogajajo nesporazumi in napa\u010dno razumljena sporo\u010dila. Tako to je. To je lahko va\u0161a partnerka, va\u0161i otroci, dru\u017eina, prijatelji. Seveda se to dogaja tudi v slu\u017ebi. In vse to je normalno.","og_url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/","og_site_name":"Hudo Slovenija","article_publisher":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si","article_published_time":"2015-03-13T08:04:03+00:00","og_image":[{"width":684,"height":512,"url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2016\/04\/img-75252770.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"hudo","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_creator":"@hudo_si","twitter_site":"@hudo_si","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"hudo","Est. reading time":"2 minuti"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/"},"author":{"name":"hudo","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707"},"headline":"Kako pravilno raz\u010distiti nesporazum?","datePublished":"2015-03-13T08:04:03+00:00","dateModified":"2015-03-13T08:04:03+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/"},"wordCount":434,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization"},"keywords":["Melita Kuhar","nasveti za sre\u010dno partnersko zvezo","partnerske te\u017eave","prepiranje"],"articleSection":["Lifestyle"],"inLanguage":"sl-SI"},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/","url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/","name":"Kako pravilno raz\u010distiti nesporazum? - Hudo Slovenija","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#website"},"datePublished":"2015-03-13T08:04:03+00:00","dateModified":"2015-03-13T08:04:03+00:00","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"sl-SI","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-pravilno-razcistiti-nesporazum\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Kako pravilno raz\u010distiti nesporazum?"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#website","url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/","name":"Hudo Slovenija","description":"Vse novice iz Slovenije in sveta","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":"required name=search_term_string"}],"inLanguage":"sl-SI"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization","name":"VSN Media","url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"sl-SI","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/hudo-app-2.png","contentUrl":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/03\/hudo-app-2.png","width":2185,"height":2167,"caption":"VSN Media"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"},"sameAs":["https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si","https:\/\/twitter.com\/hudo_si"]},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707","name":"hudo","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"sl-SI","@id":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c4ca25fa72cace7a696b52ff5db9e095?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c4ca25fa72cace7a696b52ff5db9e095?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"hudo"},"url":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/author\/hudo\/"}]}},"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18162"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18162"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18162\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18162"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18162"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18162"},{"taxonomy":"source","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/source?post=18162"},{"taxonomy":"supertag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/supertag?post=18162"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}