{"id":18332,"date":"2015-02-02T10:14:52","date_gmt":"2015-02-02T09:14:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2015\/02\/02\/zakaj-moski-pravzaprav-potrebuje-zensko\/"},"modified":"2015-02-02T10:14:52","modified_gmt":"2015-02-02T09:14:52","slug":"zakaj-moski-pravzaprav-potrebuje-zensko","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/zakaj-moski-pravzaprav-potrebuje-zensko\/","title":{"rendered":"Zakaj mo\u0161ki pravzaprav potrebuje \u017eensko?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Ko mo\u0161ki naleti na \u017eensko, ki se \u017eeli skozi njega znebiti vseh svojih frustracij, \u017eelja po ljubezni in partnerstvu splahni. \u00bbMene \u017ee ne bo nobena vzgajala in mi govorila, kako naj \u017eivim,\u00ab so besede, ki sem jih sli\u0161ala \u017ee preve\u010d krat.<\/p>\n

Noben mo\u0161ki ne potrebuje vzgoje!<\/b><\/h2>\n

Ne vem od kje smo \u017eenske dobile navdih, da bi svoje mo\u0161ke najraje prevzgojile in naredile iz njih eno razli\u010dico, katera nam na koncu itak ne bi bila v\u0161e\u010d. Morda materinska nota za\u017eivi ob napa\u010dnih situacijah. Ko pridejo otroci, ki dejansko potrebujejo vzgojo, pa te energije zmanjka. Le zakaj toliko sli\u0161imo o hiperaktivnih in celo te\u017eavnih otrocih? Mogo\u010de matere vzgajajo v dru\u017eini napa\u010dne \u010dlane \u2026<\/p>\n

Mo\u0161ki je najbolj\u0161i takrat, ko \u010duti svobodo in zaupanje!<\/b><\/h2>\n

\u010ce mo\u0161ki ne ob\u010duti pritiska ali pri\u010dakovanj s strani \u017eenske, lahko postane svoja najbolj\u0161a razli\u010dica: edinstven, za\u0161\u010ditni\u0161ki, samozavesten, ljube\u010d in kreativen. Kakor hitro se v razmerju odvijajo \u00bbvzgojni ukrepi\u00ab, le-ti zadu\u0161ijo vsakega mo\u0161kega.<\/p>\n

Zakaj mrgoli samskih ljudi?<\/b><\/h2>\n

Mogo\u010de smo narobe nau\u010deni o pravilih ljubezenskega odnosa. Marsikomu pravila kot so: odrekanje svobode, nenehno prilagajanje, podrejanje \u017eenskim normativom, itd., v \u017eivljenju ne di\u0161ijo. Zaradi teh pravil izgubimo stik sami s seboj, izgubimo povezavo z \u017eivljenjem. Mo\u0161kemu, ki je samski, ta pravila ne ustrezajo. In prav je tako! Za zdrav odnos se je potrebno nau\u010diti novih pravil: sprejemanje partnerja in popravljanje samega sebe!<\/p>\n

Namen ljubezenskega odnosa?<\/b><\/h2>\n

Ko mo\u0161ki sre\u010da pravo \u017eensko, se v njem za\u010dnejo prebujati njegovi mo\u0161ki nagoni, ki obstajajo odkar obstaja \u010dlove\u0161tvo. Prebudi se potreba po za\u0161\u010diti svoje drage. Rodi se \u017eelja po dajanju in razvoju. Rodi se vizija! Mo\u0161ki lahko v podpornem ljubezenskem odnosu postane svoja najbolj\u0161a razli\u010dica, \u010de mu le ni prikraj\u0161ana njegova svoboda odlo\u010danja. Ko za\u010duti, da je sprejet, se v njem rodijo vse sposobnosti, ki mo\u0161kega definirajo.<\/p>\n

Mo\u0161ki ne potrebuje gospodinje!<\/b><\/h2>\n

Da mo\u0161ki ne potrebujejo ob sebi gospodinje in vzgojiteljice, dokazujejo s tem, da so sposobni \u017eiveti sami. Za kreativno in polno \u017eivljenje pa vsak mo\u0161ki potrebuje \u017eensko! Tak\u0161no \u017eensko, ki je sposobna iz njega privabiti njegove najbolj\u0161e lastnosti. To lahko \u017eenske dose\u017eemo samo tako, da mo\u0161kega sprejemamo to\u010dno tak\u0161nega kot je.<\/p>\n

Kako pride\u0161 do \u017eenske svojih sanj?<\/b><\/h2>\n

Vsak samski mo\u0161ki, ki si \u017eeli partnerko in si \u017eeli z njo ustvariti skupno \u017eivljenje, mora pri sebi najprej raz\u010distiti par stvari: ko smo v partnerstvu, svoboda ostane! Ko ima \u017eenska z mo\u0161kim problem; ko ji gre pri njem kaj na \u017eivce, je to njen problem. \u010ce se ji bo\u0161 takrat upognil, bo na\u0161la spet novi problem. \u010ce bosta \u0161la narazen, bo na\u0161la pri drugem mo\u0161kem isti problem. Ko je mo\u0161kemu to kristalno jasno, z lahkoto postavi meje in s to odlo\u010dnostjo postavi \u017eensko v njeno originalno vlogo. Le v tej vlogi se lahko \u017eenska po\u010duti sre\u010dno in izpolnjeno. \u017denska lahko postane \u017eenska le ob pravem mo\u0161kem.<\/p>\n

\u010ce bi bila emancipacija pozicija, ki bi osre\u010devala \u017eenske, bi zdaj svet izgledal precej druga\u010de kot dejansko izgleda ;).<\/b><\/p>\n

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\u201d\u010ce imate te\u017eave v ljubezni, vas s pomo\u010djo kanaliziranja pripeljem do re\u0161itev. S transformacijo lahko prekinemo bole\u010de izku\u0161nje in ponavljajo\u010de vzorce ter se pribli\u017eamo iskreni ljubezni,\u201d Lidija Mur\u0161ek.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u010ce imate te\u017eave v ljubezni, lahko avtorico prispevka Lidijo Mur\u0161ek, ki vas s pomo\u010djo kanaliziranja pripelje do re\u0161itev,\u00a0kontaktirate preko elektronske po\u0161te na\u00a0lidija.mursek@gmail.com<\/span><\/strong>, ali pa obi\u0161\u010dete njeno spletno stran:<\/span><\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.transformacija.si<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

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