{"id":183380,"date":"2017-01-04T09:18:29","date_gmt":"2017-01-04T08:18:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2017\/01\/04\/6-znakov-ljubece-zveze\/"},"modified":"2017-01-13T10:36:56","modified_gmt":"2017-01-13T09:36:56","slug":"6-znakov-ljubece-zveze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/6-znakov-ljubece-zveze\/","title":{"rendered":"6 znakov ljube\u010de zveze"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Kdo smo mi v resnici?<\/b> Ko sprejmemo dejstvo, da se na\u0161a osebnost oblikuje skozi vzpone in padce, skozi spremembe, ki jih nosijo razli\u010dni izzivi in odnosi, v katere vstopamo, ko smo uspe\u0161ni in dosegamo zadane cilje, se pravzaprav u\u010dimo kaj vse zmoremo. Morebiti se \u017ee malce poznamo. In s tem <\/span>znanjem vstopimo v partnersko zvezo z osebo, ki je druga\u010dna od nas, ki prihaja iz druga\u010dne primarne dru\u017eine kot mi, ki ima po vsej verjetnosti tudi druga\u010dne vrednote in vzorce<\/b>. In se \u017eelimo mi prilagajati tej novi osebi in verjamemo, da se \u017eeli tudi ona nam. Polno izzivov pomeni oblikovanje <\/span>spo\u0161tljive, ljube\u010de, iskrene in sre\u010dne partnerske zveze<\/b>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Poglejmo si \u0161est osnovnih znakov ljube\u010de in zdrave partnerske zveze:<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. Sodelujete eden z drugim v medsebojnem u\u010denju in rasti<\/b>. Kajti, mi smo zrcalo eden drugemu saj se u\u010dimo o partnerju glede na njegova \u010dustva in odzive. Eden z drugim sodelujemo v osebnostni rasti in se tako tudi u\u010dimo eden od drugega. Ego in kdo ima bolj prav tukaj nimata kaj iskati.<\/span><\/li>\n
  2. Cenite in spo\u0161tujete partnerjevo osebnost z vsemi zna\u010dilnostmi in omejitvami<\/b>. Vsi smo mi razli\u010dni in ko smo sposobni sprejeti partnerja tak\u0161nega kot je in on seveda nas, dobimo polje medsebojnega zaupanja in spo\u0161tovanja. Obenem je to polje spo\u0161tovanja potreb partnerja, kar pomeni, da si dajeta prostor, ko za\u010dutita potrebo, da sta morebiti kdaj malce sama ali s svojimi prijatelji.<\/span><\/li>\n
  3. Trudita se za zdravo komunikacijo in dialog, da se sli\u0161ita in poslu\u0161ata<\/b>. Lahko si povesta vse kar vama je padlo na pamet in ni nujno, da se bo partner strinjal z vsem povedanim, pomembno je, da ste v svojih argumentiranjih iskreni, da ne obsojate in ne zasmehujete druga\u010dnega mnenja. Sama pogosto povem, da se pa\u010d v neki to\u010dki strinjata, da se pa\u010d danes ne strinjata in da se bosta ponovno pogovorila \u010dez nekaj dni, ko bosta \u00bbprespala\u00ab nek izziv.<\/span><\/li>\n
  4. Delita si podobne vrednote<\/b>. To skraj\u0161a pogajanja o tem, kako bosta vzgajala otroke ali kako boste \u017eiveli v dru\u017eini, ali boste hodili v nedeljo k ma\u0161i ali pa\u010d raj\u0161i v naravo. Ni nujno, da se zelo razli\u010dni ljudje ne bi mogli sporazumeti o skupnih vrednotah, je pa res, da je potrebno ve\u010d prilagajanja in komuniciranja ter premagovanja lastnih vzorcev. Je zapleteno, ni pa nemogo\u010de.<\/span><\/li>\n
  5. Zaupata si brez vpra\u0161anja<\/b>. To pomeni, da ste varni v zvezi saj veste, da bo va\u0161 partner vedno ostal nekje ob vas, lojalen do vajinih dogovorov, da ne bo lagal in da bo pripravljen razre\u0161evati nesporazume in konflikte. In seveda enako velja za vas v relaciji do partnerja.<\/span><\/li>\n
  6. Sposobni ste spu\u0161\u010dati in iti naprej<\/b>. Ker \u017eivljenje je velika neprekinjena sprememba, \u010de ho\u010dete avantura. \u010ce imate ob sebi spo\u0161tujo\u010dega in ljube\u010dega partnerja in zgrajeno trdno, zdravo partnersko vez, bosta skupaj la\u017eje premagovala viharje in ovire, ki jih nosi \u017eivljenje. Tako bosta oba mo\u010dnej\u0161a in uravnote\u017eena.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Seveda ljube\u010da in funkcionalna zveza vsebuje \u0161e cel kup pomembnih elementov kot so negovanje medsebojne spolne privla\u010dnosti, pribli\u017eno enaka vzgojna strategijo, ko je potrebno vzgajati otroke, kako re\u0161ujemo razli\u010dne vzorce glede finan\u010dnih vpra\u0161anj, vse skupaj pa je prepleteno z zgoraj opisanimi znaki. Torej, <\/span>ali lahko ocenite, da se nahajate v ljube\u010di zvezi? <\/b><\/p>\n

    Avtorica prispevka <\/span>Melita Kuhar<\/b> je univerzitetna diplomirana socialna pedagoginja in diplomirana socialna delavka, ki vodi <\/span>Svetovalnico<\/b>, <\/span>www.svetovalnica.si<\/span><\/a>. Dosegljiva je na tel.\u0161t. <\/span>031 666 168<\/b>. \u010ce bi se radi naro\u010dili na individualno svetovanje ali jo kaj povpra\u0161ali, pi\u0161ite na: <\/span>info@svetovalnica.si<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Ve\u010d o zgoraj napisanem si lahko preberete tudi socialnem omre\u017eju <\/span>www.facebook.com\/Svetovalnica<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Preberite si o \u0161estih osnovnih znakih ljube\u010de in zdrave partnerske zveze.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1092],"tags":[1427,1689,1472,1434],"source":[1365,1364,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n6 znakov ljube\u010de zveze - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/6-znakov-ljubece-zveze\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"6 znakov ljube\u010de zveze - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Preberite si o \u0161estih osnovnih znakih ljube\u010de in zdrave partnerske zveze.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/6-znakov-ljubece-zveze\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hudo.si\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2017-01-04T08:18:29+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2017-01-13T09:36:56+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2017\/01\/profimedia-0203260298.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"1250\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"833\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"hudo\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@hudo_si\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@hudo_si\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"hudo\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minute\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/6-znakov-ljubece-zveze\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/6-znakov-ljubece-zveze\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"hudo\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#\/schema\/person\/601cf3379633985b20f7e50f2bb47707\"},\"headline\":\"6 znakov ljube\u010de zveze\",\"datePublished\":\"2017-01-04T08:18:29+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2017-01-13T09:36:56+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/6-znakov-ljubece-zveze\/\"},\"wordCount\":632,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/#organization\"},\"keywords\":[\"Melita Kuhar\",\"nasveti za sre\u010dno partnersko zvezo\",\"partnerska zveza\",\"partnerski odnos\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Seks & partnerstvo\"],\"inLanguage\":\"sl-SI\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/6-znakov-ljubece-zveze\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/6-znakov-ljubece-zveze\/\",\"name\":\"6 znakov ljube\u010de zveze - 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