{"id":20774,"date":"2016-04-05T13:04:12","date_gmt":"2016-04-05T11:04:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/04\/05\/cesa-tapravi-moski-pac-ne-naredi\/"},"modified":"2016-04-18T08:23:18","modified_gmt":"2016-04-18T06:23:18","slug":"cesa-tapravi-moski-pac-ne-naredi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/cesa-tapravi-moski-pac-ne-naredi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u010cesa (ta)pravi mo\u0161ki pa\u010d ne naredi"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Zadnje \u010dase je v modi zraven oprijetih hla\u010d tudi lo\u010ditev. \u010ce si \u010dlovek, ki upo\u0161teva modne smernice, ti lahko zaupam, da si oplel. \u010ce si en tistih, ki si \u017eeli \u017eiveti svoje \u017eivljenje in ne \u017eivljenje kot ga narekuje sistem, si obleci normalno \u0161iroke hla\u010de (ne dedci, oprijete vam ne pa\u0161ejo; op.: osebno mnenje avtorice!<\/em>) in poskrbi, da bo tvoje razmerje trajno.<\/p>\n

Kdo vara in zakaj<\/b><\/h2>\n

Obstaja ogromno primerov, kjer mo\u0161ki pogledajo na drugo trato, saj so prepri\u010dani, da doma\u010da trata ni ve\u010d zelena. Naj ti zaupam: \u010de je bila na za\u010detku iskrica, potem je lahko zmeraj. Vsi znamo v\u017egati v\u017eigalico. \u010ce drgne\u0161 po kartonu, pa res ne more v\u017egati. In ravno to se dogaja v razmerju. V\u017eigalice in \u0161katlica so pri roki, vendar se kapica drgne po napa\u010dnem delu \u0161katlice.<\/p>\n

Saj ni tvoji partnerki izginila vagina, da je treba iti drugam. Vara tisti, ki druga\u010de ne zna. Taprav mo\u0161ki zagotovo ne vara.<\/p>\n

Par se zaljubi in za\u010dne sobivati. Vmes se najdejo kak\u0161ne \u00bbnapake\u00ab vsakega posameznika, ki jih drugi partner posku\u0161a popraviti. V veliko primerih se vzpostavi razmerje mama \u2013 otrok. Mo\u0161ki se za\u010dne po\u010dutiti kot otrok, ki do\u017eivlja svojo partnerko kot mamo. Nenehna navodila, usmeritve, popravki\u2026 V\u010dasih pride do tega, da mo\u0161ki izgubi svojo rde\u010do nit. Ko ve\u010d ne ve, kdo je. Ne po\u010duti se ve\u010d mo\u0161ki, zato mu pride na misel re\u0161itev. Zaplete se z drugo \u017eensko, ko ga ne posku\u0161a spremeniti ali prevzgojiti. Ob tak\u0161ni \u017eenski se nekoliko la\u017eje za\u010duti svojo primarno vlogo. Kot tapravi mo\u0161ki. Dolgoro\u010dno to ni neka zavidljiva re\u0161itev ali dose\u017eek, ampak je uspeh po\u010dutiti se mo\u0161kega ob svoji partnerki, s katero si ustvarja\u0161 nekaj globljega.<\/p>\n

Mamo je potrebno postaviti nazaj v \u017eensko<\/b><\/h2>\n

Vsaka \u017eenska deluje na mo\u0161kega zelo odbijajo\u010de, ko je prekomerno v vlogi mame. To lahko dodatno povzro\u010dijo otroci, v\u010dasih pa je dovolj, \u010de ima mo\u0161ki kdaj samo otro\u010dje poteze. Tako da sploh ni nujno, da je \u017eenska mati tvojih otrok, da bi ti igrala mamo. Ko se zaveda\u0161, zakaj te tvoja ne privla\u010di ravno najbolj, ima\u0161 \u017ee re\u0161itev v rokah. Veliko mo\u0161kih ne gleda tako, zato je varanje za njih edina re\u0161itev.<\/p>\n

\u010ce si postavi\u0161 izziv in ponovno najde\u0161 ustrezno plat na v\u017eigali\u010dni \u0161katlici, ne bo treba kresati po drugih \u0161katlicah. Svoji partnerki pomagaj, da ponovno za\u010duti \u017eensko v sebi. Lahko jo povabi\u0161 na kosilo, namesto nje pospravi\u0161 kak\u0161en del stanovanja in ji med tem \u010dasom omogo\u010di\u0161 gledanje njene najljub\u0161e nadaljevanke\u2026 Naredi nekaj, ob \u010demer se bo po\u010dutila ljubljeno. Ob \u010demer se bo sprostila in dala vse skrbi na stran. Le zakaj \u017eenske tako padamo na ljubezenske filme in limonade? Ker so v njih mo\u0161ki liki postavljeni na svoje mesto.<\/p>\n

Ko je \u017eenska spro\u0161\u010dena, je vsaka seksapilna in zapeljiva. Nikar je ne obsojaj, da je izgubila svoje \u017eenske \u010dare. Ob tapravem mo\u0161kem \u0161e tako pozabljeni \u017eenski \u010dari ponovno o\u017eivijo.<\/p>\n

Kdo je pravi mo\u0161ki<\/b><\/h2>\n

To je tisti mo\u0161ki, ki ne i\u0161\u010de re\u0161itev zunaj svojega razmerja, ampak se ozre vase, potegne iz sebe tapravega dedca in tako omogo\u010di svoji spremljevalki, da se lahko obna\u0161a kot \u017eenska. Za \u017eensko je potrebno skrbeti, jo \u010duvati in ji nuditi \u010dustveno oporo. \u010ce ima mo\u0161ki probleme sam s seboj, bo zelo te\u017eko komu za oporo. In v takih primerih \u017eenska prevzame vajeti, postane mama, terapevtka in vodja, ob tem pa izgubi svoje \u010dare. Na koncu koncev le ni sama kriva za pomanjkanje iskric v vajinem razmerju, ampak sta za to sokriva.<\/p>\n

Taprav mo\u0161ki ne bo izpustil svoje partnerke zato, ker se je v razmerju zataknilo, ampak bo poiskal re\u0161itve.<\/p>\n

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\u201d\u010ce imate te\u017eave v ljubezni, vas s pomo\u010djo kanaliziranja pripeljem do re\u0161itev. S transformacijo lahko prekinemo bole\u010de izku\u0161nje in ponavljajo\u010de vzorce ter se pribli\u017eamo iskreni ljubezni,\u201d Lidija Mur\u0161ek.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u010ce imate te\u017eave v ljubezni, lahko avtorico prispevka Lidijo Mur\u0161ek, ki vas s pomo\u010djo kanaliziranja pripelje do re\u0161itev,\u00a0kontaktirate preko elektronske po\u0161te na\u00a0lidija.mursek@gmail.com<\/span><\/strong>, ali pa obi\u0161\u010dete njeno spletno stran:<\/span><\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.transformacija.si<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

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