{"id":21533,"date":"2011-10-12T03:18:00","date_gmt":"2011-10-12T01:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2011\/10\/12\/ko-domace-zivali-postanejo-partnerski-problem\/"},"modified":"2016-04-06T14:54:32","modified_gmt":"2016-04-06T12:54:32","slug":"ko-domace-zivali-postanejo-partnerski-problem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/ko-domace-zivali-postanejo-partnerski-problem\/","title":{"rendered":"Ko doma\u010de \u017eivali postanejo partnerski problem"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Za pare je zelo pou\u010dna in pomembna izku\u0161nja, \u010de namesto z otrokom sprva svojo dru\u017eino pove\u010dajo s kak\u0161nim doma\u010dim ljubljen\u010dkom, pri \u010demer imamo v mislih predvsem ma\u010dka ali psa. Tako bosta spoznala marsikaj o drug drugem pa tudi, ali sta pripravljena sklepati kompromise o vzgoji in kak\u0161ni so vajini pogledi na dolo\u010dene zadeve. Problem pa seveda nastane, ko se pri\u010dneta zaradi doma\u010dega ljubljen\u010dka prepirati in za\u010dne to na\u010denjati vajino zvezo. Kaj tedaj?<\/p>\n

Vsebina sporov o doma\u010dih ljubljen\u010dkih<\/h2>\n

Veliko je situacij, o katerih se lahko prepirata. Eden od vaju na primer \u017eeli, da \u017eival nima vstopa v kuhinjo in spalnico, drugi pa izkoristi vsako prilo\u017enost, da se z ljubljen\u010dkom pocrklja v postelji. In \u0161e mnogo je situacij, vezanih na dom. Prepirata se lahko na primer tudi o tem, kako se lahko \u017eival obna\u0161a zunaj, sploh, \u010de imata psa, je to \u0161e posebej relevantno. Ali je psu dovoljeno, da ljudi pozdravlja s skakanjem ali ne, ali mora hoditi ves \u010das poleg ob nogi ali pa mu je dopu\u0161\u010deno prosto tekati. Pogosto pa se pari prepirajo o tem, ali je bolj primerna nekoliko bolj rigorozna vzgoja ali pa se lahko \u017eivali popu\u0161\u010da in se jo brezmejno razvaja.<\/p>\n

Kako razre\u0161iti te spore?<\/h2>\n

\u010ceprav se morda zdi prepiranje o doma\u010dem ljubljen\u010dku banalno in ga tisti, ki ljubljen\u010dka nimajo, nekako ne morejo razumeti, pa je lahko tudi precej resno in lahko pripelje celo do razhoda. Zato je pomembno, da pri\u010dneta ukrepati dovolj zgodaj in sicer:
\n– da se o svojih ob\u010dutkih in frustracijah v povezavi z vzgojo in nego doma\u010dega ljubljen\u010dka iskreno in brez sprenevedanja pogovori\u0161 s partnerko;
\n– da sku\u0161a\u0161 razumeti tudi ob\u010dutke in mnenje svoje partnerke;
\n– da si spo\u0161tljiv in prevzame\u0161 del odgovornosti za nastale te\u017eave.<\/p>\n

In \u010de je prepiranje \u017ee dodobra na\u010delo vajino zvezo, se velja vpra\u0161ati tudi, ali je to res lahko razlog za razhod? V nekaterih primerih bo odgovor verjetno da, saj si morda o svoji partnerki odkril lastnosti, ki ti nikakor niso pogodu. Po drugi strani pa lahko nova spoznanja uporabita za izbolj\u0161anje vajine zveze, za izbolj\u0161anje komunikacije, za razvoj sposobnosti za sklepanje kompromisov in na splo\u0161no stvari obrneta na bolje.<\/p>\n

\u010ce je vzroka spora alergija na dlako \u017eivali<\/h2>\n

Ne gre zanemariti tudi dejstva, da je za prepiranje o doma\u010dem ljubljan\u010dku morda kriv tudi popolnoma objektiven razlog in to je alergija na \u017eivalsko dlako. Nekateri ljudje tako hudo trpijo za tovrstno alergijo, da \u017eal ne pomagajo niti antialergi\u010dna zdravila, niti temeljito \u010di\u0161\u010denje stanovanja. V tem primeru je seveda dokaj nerealno, da bi lahko obdr\u017eali \u017eival. \u010ce pa alergija ni tako zelo huda, lahko pomaga, \u010de se dr\u017ei\u0161 spodnjih napotkov:
\n– v stanovanju ne imej nobenih preprog, le trd pod (parket, linolej, plo\u0161\u010dice …);
\n– izogibaj se oblazinjenemu pohi\u0161tvu;
\n– naj \u017eival nima vstopa v spalnico in omare, kjer hrani\u0161 obla\u010dila;
\n– redno menjajta posteljino in jo temeljito operita, najbolje dvakrat.<\/p>\n

Sicer pa je lahko lastni\u0161tvo in skupna skrb za \u017eival dobra vaja za morebitni nara\u0161\u010daj v prihodnosti, saj se bodo nedvomno pokazali vsi vajini klju\u010dni pogledi na vzgojo, razvajanje, timsko delo, stanje ob strani, prevzemanje odgovornosti in \u0161e bi lahko na\u0161tevali. Tako boste v obdobje star\u0161evstva vstopili pripravljeni na marsikak\u0161en izziv.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Tvoja partnerka ne mara tvojega psa? Ali pa gre tebi na \u017eivce njen ma\u010dek? Tudi \u017eivali lahko povzro\u010dajo te\u017eave v zvezi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1091],"tags":[3485,1893,1473],"source":[1518,1530,1529],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nKo doma\u010de \u017eivali postanejo partnerski problem - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/ko-domace-zivali-postanejo-partnerski-problem\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Ko doma\u010de \u017eivali postanejo partnerski problem - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Tvoja partnerka ne mara tvojega psa? 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