{"id":222826,"date":"2017-03-09T09:15:11","date_gmt":"2017-03-09T08:15:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2017\/03\/09\/5-dokazov-da-vas-ljudje-okrog-vas-jemljejo-za-samoumevne\/"},"modified":"2017-03-09T12:15:23","modified_gmt":"2017-03-09T11:15:23","slug":"5-dokazov-da-vas-ljudje-okrog-vas-jemljejo-za-samoumevne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/5-dokazov-da-vas-ljudje-okrog-vas-jemljejo-za-samoumevne\/","title":{"rendered":"5 dokazov, da vas ljudje okrog vas jemljejo za samoumevne"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2017\/03\/profimedia-0291000953-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2017\/03\/profimedia-0291000953-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2017\/03\/profimedia-0291000953-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>Foto: Profimedia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2>1. Izkori\u0161\u010dajo na\u0161o dobroto<\/h2>\n<p>Ljudje, ki nas imajo za samoumevne, so se navadili na to, da smo jim vedno na voljo in da vedno delamo tako kot njim pa\u0161e. In jasno je, da bodo v nekem trenutku za\u010deli izori\u0161\u010dati na\u0161o dobrosr\u010dnost v lastno korist ne da bi ob tem pomislili, kako s tem \u0161kodujejo vam.<\/p>\n<p>V partnerskem odnosu se bo to za\u010delo kazati tako, da se bo partner, ki je popolnoma prepri\u010dan v va\u0161o ljubezenin dejstvo, da ga ne boste zapustili, nehal truditi za vajin odnos, saj se mu bo zdelo logi\u010dno, da ste vi tista oseba v vajini zvezi, ki bo vedno vlo\u017eila ves trud. Partner se je namre\u010d tekom \u010dasa navadil na to, da ste mu vedno na voljo, da ste vedno pri roki, da vedno vse postorite, da ne znate re\u010di ne.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Tistega kar dajete, ne dobite tudi nazaj<\/h2>\n<p>Ne razmi\u0161ljaj o tem, kaj so drugi naredili zate, ampak o tem, kaj si ti naredil za njih, je moder rek, ki bi mu morali v \u017eivljenju slediti. Ampak pri tem je pomembno znati prepoznati, kdaj vi samo dajete, nazaj pa dobivate le del\u010dek ali celo ni\u010d. Osebe, ki so vam blizu bi morale ceniti va\u0161e dobre lastnosti in bi vam morale v enaki meri popla\u010dati va\u0161 trud in prizadevanja, da bi bil va\u0161 odnos z njimi \u0161e bolj\u0161i.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Ena pravila veljajo za njih, za vas pa druga<\/h2>\n<p>Naredili ste sto dobrih stvari in potem eno slabo, kar va\u0161o bli\u017enji osebo mo\u010dno razjezi &#8211; to je jasen znak, da vas jemlje za samoumevne. Ta oseba se je navadila, da vedno vse delate prav in napake vam niso dovoljene &#8211; medtem ko njej so. Popolnoma nerealno je pri\u010dakovati, da nekdo nikoli ne bo naredil ni\u010desar narobe in zaradi svojih napak se ne smete po\u010dutiti slabo.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Ignorirajo va\u0161o prisotnost<\/h2>\n<p>Prijateljica vas je zve\u010der povabila ven, ko pa ste se pridru\u017eili skupini prijateljev, vam obrne hrbet, se pogovarja z drugimi, vas pa ignorira. Lahko ste prepri\u010dani, da vas jemlje za samoumevne in skoraj zagotovo izkori\u0161\u010da va\u0161o dobrosr\u010dnost. Poka\u017eite, da cenite same sebe, in se izogibajte dru\u017eenju s takimi ljudmi. Pojasnite prijateljici, da se po\u010dutite neprijetno, tako kot bi se na va\u0161em mestu verjetno tudi ona.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Nikoli vas ne kontaktirajo<\/h2>\n<p>NIh\u010de ni tako zelo zaposlen, da ne najde \u010dasa, da bi se vam javil &#8211; \u010de to seveda \u017eeli. Ne obstaja verodostojna utemeljitev, zakaj se neki osebi vedno vi prvi javite, ne glede na to, za kak\u0161en odnos gre, dru\u017einski, prijateljski ali ljubezenski. Prijateljica, ki nikoli ne vzpostavi prva kontakta z vami in vedno \u010daka, da se j prvi javite, vas skoraj zagotovo jemlje za samoumevne in je prepri\u010dana, da se ji boste \u017ee vi javili.<\/p>\n<p>Razmislite o tem, kaj bi bilo, \u010de se dolo\u010deni osebi ne bi javili prvi &#8211; bi se vam ona kdaj javila, ali bi bilo to konec vajinega prijateljstva? Se vajino prijateljstvo ohranja pri \u017eivljenju samo zaradi vas? Torej to sploh ni prijateljstvo in ni vredno truda. Vi si zaslu\u017eite nekaj bolj\u0161ega!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vsak od nas je kdaj do\u017eivel ob\u010dutek, da nas ljudje okrog nas ne cenijo dovolj in se ne trudijo dovolj za na\u0161 odnos. V\u010dasih imamo tak ob\u010dutek celo v partnerskem odnosu. Razkrivamo vam pet jasnih dokazov, da nas imajo nekateri ljudje za samoumevne.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1434,2755],"source":[1367,1335,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>5 dokazov, da vas ljudje okrog vas jemljejo za samoumevne - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/5-dokazov-da-vas-ljudje-okrog-vas-jemljejo-za-samoumevne\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"5 dokazov, da vas ljudje okrog vas jemljejo za samoumevne - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Vsak od nas je kdaj do\u017eivel ob\u010dutek, da nas ljudje okrog nas ne cenijo dovolj in se ne trudijo dovolj za na\u0161 odnos. 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