{"id":239380,"date":"2017-04-27T05:00:46","date_gmt":"2017-04-27T03:00:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?p=239380"},"modified":"2017-04-29T08:15:12","modified_gmt":"2017-04-29T06:15:12","slug":"kaj-storiti-ko-se-ne-strinjata-glede-stevila-otrok","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/kaj-storiti-ko-se-ne-strinjata-glede-stevila-otrok\/","title":{"rendered":"Kaj storiti, ko se ne strinjata glede \u0161tevila otrok?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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V \u010dasih, ko so bile kontracepcijske metode nezanesljive, otroci relativno poceni, hitro samostojni, \u017eivljenja \u017eensk pa v veliki meri posve\u010dena domu, so bile pogoste \u0161tevil\u010dne dru\u017eine z desetimi ali ve\u010d otroki. Danes, ko so kontracepcijske metode zanesljive, vzdr\u017eevanje otrok dra\u017eje, zahtevnej\u0161e in dolgotrajnej\u0161e, \u017eenske pa hvala bogu emancipirane, so dru\u017eine precej manj\u0161e. Po podatkih iz leta 2015 je bilo v Sloveniji 53% dru\u017ein z enim otrokom in 36% dru\u017ein z dvema otrokoma.<\/p>\n

\u010ce je \u0161tevilo otrok stvar zavestne odlo\u010ditve para, pa se seveda lahko zgodi, da pride do nestrinjanja med partnerjema. \u017denska bi na primer ostala pri enem otroku, mo\u0161ki si sr\u010dno \u017eeli dveh. Mo\u0161kemu sta dva popolnoma dovolj, \u017eenska pa bi rada tri \u2026 Tu lahko pride do te\u017eave. \u010ce bi \u0161lo za odlo\u010ditev tipa kaj skuhati za kosilo, kam na po\u010ditnice ali kak\u0161ne barve fasade izbrati, bi verjetno dokaj hitro dosegla kompromis.<\/p>\n

V tem primeru pa gre za zelo pomembno in nepreklicno odlo\u010ditev. Ali spraviti na svet \u0161e eno \u010dlove\u0161ko bitje, ki ga bomo brezpogojno ljubili in skrbeli zanj, dokler ne bo tega sposoben sam? Potem pa mu pustiti, da odide v svet, ne da bi ga pri tem kakorkoli omejevali ali pri\u010dakovali kaj v zameno za na\u0161o skrb. Star\u0161evstvo v pravem pomenu besede je nesebi\u010dno. Otrok namre\u010d ne rodimo zase, ampak za \u017eivljenje. Vsekakor gre za odlo\u010ditev, ki si zaslu\u017ei umirjen in poglobljen premislek. Nih\u010de izmed partnerjev se ne sme \u010dutiti kakorkoli prisiljenega vanjo, ker se bo to neizogibno poznalo na njegovem odnosu do tega otroka.<\/p>\n

Poglobljen in umirjen pogovor<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

To ni pogovor, ki bi ga opravili mimogrede; med pospravljanjem stanovanja, gledanjem televizije, ali celo pred otrokom\/otroki. Morda se vam zdi, da se odlo\u010ditev ti\u010de tudi va\u0161ega otroka, ki naj bi dobil bratca ali sestrico. Ne, ti\u010de se le vaju s partnerjem. Vidva bosta star\u0161a in otrok ne more in ne sme nositi vajine odgovornsti. Zadnji\u010d sem sli\u0161ala re\u010di neko mamo: \u201cPa saj bi mogo\u010de imela \u0161e enega otroka, pa kaj ko je najina petletnica odlo\u010dno proti.\u201d<\/p>\n

Kakorkoli, izberita \u010das in kraj, kjer bosta sama in ko se vama ne bo nikamor mudilo. Vsak naj pove svoj vidik; zakaj si ne \u017eeli oziroma zakaj si \u017eeli \u0161e enega otroka. Bodita odprta za razloge in ob\u010dutke drug drugega. Pozorno se poslu\u0161ajta. Vseskozi se zavedajta, da nista nasprotnika, ampak partnerja, \u010detudi se vajini stali\u0161\u010di razlikujeta. Le z ljubeznijo in odprtostjo se bosta po\u010dasi dokopala do resni\u010dnih razlogov, zakaj si nekdo ne \u017eeli, oziroma si \u017eeli \u0161e enega otroka.
\nPartner, ki si ga ne \u017eeli, za to na primer krivi pomankanje finan\u010dnih sredstev ali zahtevno slu\u017ebo, v resnici pa se boji, da bo potem \u0161e manj \u010dasa za partnersko intimo, ki jo \u017ee sedaj zelo pogre\u0161a. Priznati, da pogre\u0161amo partnerja je ranljivo, a le, \u010de sta dovolj povezana in si upata biti drug pred drugim ranljiva, bosta lahko na\u0161la skupno re\u0161itev.<\/p>\n

Otrok naj ne bo \u201czdravilo\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u010ce sta trenutno odtujena in imata polno partnerskih problemov, potem najbr\u017e ni primeren \u010das za \u0161e enega otroka. Pred tem se bo treba posvetiti vajinemu partnerskemu odnosu. Nekateri zmotno verjamejo, da otrok lahko zbli\u017ea odtujena partnerja in re\u0161i razpadajo\u010do zvezo, v resnici pa se zgodi ravno nasprotno. Zaradi dodatnega stresa, ki ga prinese prilagoditev na novega dru\u017einskega \u010dlana, se vrzel med partnerjema ponavadi le \u0161e poglobi.<\/p>\n

Na vizijo lastne dru\u017eine gotovo vplivajo tudi izku\u0161nje iz posameznikove primarne dru\u017eine. \u010ce na primer izhajate iz \u0161tevil\u010dne dru\u017eine z ve\u010d otroki, imate na otro\u0161tvo lepe spomine in gojite dobre odnose z brati\/sestrami, si verjetno tudi sami \u017eelite ve\u010d otrok. \u010ce pa ste se med sorojenci po\u010dutili odrinjene in niste dobili dovolj star\u0161evske pozornosti, si morda \u017eelite samo enega otroka. Dobro je, \u010de te ob\u010dutke ozavestite in jih delite s partnerjem. \u010ce ste imeli kot otrok bole\u010de izku\u0161nje, je povsem naravno, da ob\u010dutite strah, ki vas lahko hromi pri na\u010drtovanju dru\u017eine. Vendar vedite, da ste sedaj svobodna, odrasla oseba, ki ji ni treba ponavljati starih, nezdravih vzorcev va\u0161ih star\u0161ev.<\/p>\n

Kaj je dobro pretehtati?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Vsaka nova nose\u010dnost in otrok pomeni spremembo, ki se ji mora prilagoditi vsa dru\u017eina. Drobceno bitje poru\u0161i \u017ee vzpostavljeno rutino, ki jo bo treba na novo vzpostaviti. Seveda je dobro pretehtati \u010disto prakti\u010dne stvari, kot so sredstva za pre\u017eivljanje, velikost stanovanja, zdravstveno stanje in starost matere (pa tudi o\u010deta), \u017eivljenjski stil, dru\u017einska dinamika …
\nPa tudi \u010dustvene. \u010custvena prikraj\u0161anost v otro\u0161tvu namre\u010d pusti na \u010dloveku veliko ve\u010dje posledice kot materialna.<\/p>\n

Ko se odlo\u010damo za otroka, bi si bilo dobro zastaviti naslednja vpra\u0161anja:<\/p>\n

Bom lahko dal\/a temu otroku brezpogojno ljubezen, \u010das, pozornost in potrpe\u017eljivost?<\/i>
\nSi res iskreno iz srca \u017eelim tega otroka ali podlegam pritisku partnerja, dru\u017ebe, stereotipom o razvajenih in osamljenih edincih \u2026 ? <\/i><\/p>\n

Morda pa imam za to druge sebi\u010dne razloge. Bi rad\/a z otrokom napolni\/a lastno \u010dustveno praznino, si ponovno osmislil\/a \u017eivljenje, re\u0161il\/a svoje partnerstvo, poskrbel\/a zase na stara leta, pustil\/a nekaj za sabo, si uresni\u010dil\/a \u017eeljo po deklici\/de\u010dku.<\/i>
\nZadnji\u010d sem sli\u0161ala neko gospo\u00a0 re\u010di: \u201cPa saj ni te\u017eko narediti fanta, a kaj, ko se vmes toliko punc nabere.\u201d Tudi, \u010de je bila ta izjava izre\u010dena v \u0161ali, je nezasli\u0161ana. Samo pomislite na deklico, ki je \u201cneuspeli poskus\u201d v o\u010deh star\u0161ev.<\/p>\n

Odlo\u010ditev za \u0161e enega otroka je vsekakor kompleksna. Kljub vsemu pa se tudi danes veliko otrok enostavno \u201czgodi\u201d, brez kak\u0161nih velikih samoizpra\u0161evanj in prav je tako. Najpomembneje je, da so za\u017eeljeni in ljubljeni. Spet drugi pa se kljub vsemu trudu, iskreni \u017eelji in medicinski pomo\u010di, \u017eal nikoli ne spo\u010dnejo.<\/p>\n

\u010clanek je bil originalno objavljen v\u00a0 mar\u010devski reviji Pogled (Priloga revije Ciciban ).<\/p>\n

Originalni \u010dlanek in \u0161e \u0161tevilne druge najdete tukaj, \u00a0na spletni strani avtorice prispevka\u00a0http:\/\/www.psihoterapija-mr.si\/<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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