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Posesivni partnerji seksajo slab\u0161e<\/h2>\n

U\u017eivanje v spolnosti pomeni svobodno dajanje in prejemanje. Ko smo posesivni, ustvarjamo prisilo, pa \u010deprav zagovarjamo stali\u0161\u010de, da je posesivnost<\/strong> posledica na\u0161e ljubezni in predanosti partnerju. Najbr\u017e se je \u017ee vsak posameznik vsaj enkrat zna\u0161el v situaciji, ko se je po\u010dutil popolnoma nespontano in vklenjeno zaradi partnerjevega nenehnega nadzora. Posesivnost je v \u010dustvenem odnosu nezdrava, saj partnerjema ne omogo\u010da osebne rasti, poleg tega pa je nenehno prisoten pritisk, ki je sprva nekoliko neugoden, kasneje pa postane neznosen. \u010ceprav dolo\u010denim osebam posesivnost na za\u010detku zveze ustreza, predvsem zaradi zavesti, da so pri partnerju za\u017eeljene, lahko njeno kasnej\u0161e stopnjevanje postane tako zadu\u0161ljivo, da postane poglaviten vzrok za razpad zveze.<\/p>\n

Ko se za\u010dne\u0161 seksu izogibati<\/h2>\n

U\u017eivanje v spolnem odnosu pomeni svobodno odlo\u010danje, dajanje in prejemanje, intimen odnos dveh samostojnih bitij. Ko smo posesivni, ustvarjamo prisilo, ki nikakor ne more biti v skladu s pri\u010dakovano svobodo. Nenehen nadzor nad partnerjevimi besedami, dejanji, nenehno popravljanje, kritiziranje in zahteva po konstantni bli\u017eini povzro\u010dijo, da se s \u010dasom \u017eelja po spolnosti izgubi. Partner izgubi interes za intimne trenutke, zato prihaja do vse pogostej\u0161ega izogibanja seksu<\/strong>. Tudi strah, razburjenje in spontanost s posesivnostjo<\/strong> izginejo.<\/p>\n

Kdaj je \u010das za resen pogovor?<\/h2>\n

\u010ce ste opustili svoja redna sre\u010danja s prijatelji\/prijateljicami zgolj zato, da bo partner zadovoljen, ker se mu posve\u010date, ste posesivnost<\/strong> svoje bolj\u0161e polovice \u017ee sprejeli. \u010ce vam poleg tega o\u010dita \u0161e vsako zamujeno uro zaradi podalj\u0161ka slu\u017ebe, je skrajni \u010das, da se o tem pogovorita.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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