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Raziskovalec Brett Khar je izpeljal \u0161tudijo na 18.000 ljudeh v Veliki Britaniji in ZDA. Devet ljudi od desetih je povedalo, da imajo redne eroti\u010dne fantazije. 95% od teh o svojih fantazijah ne govori z nikomer!<\/p>\n

V fantazije se prikradeta tudi incest in posilstvo<\/h2>\n

Najbolj pogosto fantaziramo o svojem partnerju, se spominjamo zadnjega spolnega odnosa in podo\u017eivljamo podrobnosti. Ni\u010d nenavadnega ni, \u010de kdaj pofantazirate o biv\u0161ipartnerki ali prijateljici. Pogosto se v fantazije ljudi, ki imajo radi in prakticirajo \u010disto obi\u010dajno spolno \u017eivljenje, prikradejo sanje o bonda\u017ei, sadomazohizmu, dominaciji in submisiji. V fantazije se prikrade tudi incest in posilstvo. To ne pomeni, da bi kaj od tega tudi v resnici po\u010deli. Iz nezavednega na povr\u0161je pa\u010d priplavajo vse mogo\u010de potla\u010dene \u017eelje, ki jih ni smiselno tla\u010diti nazaj. To je pravzaprav po\u010detje, ki bolj verjetno pripelje do odklonskega vedenja, kot dopu\u0161\u010danje \u017eeljam, da se zventilirajo v obliki fantazij.<\/p>\n

Domi\u0161ljija je varen kraj za preizku\u0161anje<\/h2>\n

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Dopustite si fantazije, da se ne spremenijo v frustracije, a ne dovolite jim, da vas zasu\u017enijo. Na\u0161a domi\u0161ljija je varen kraj za preizku\u0161anje vseh mogo\u010dih idej in dejanj, ne da bi pri tem povzro\u010dili kakr\u0161no koli \u0161kodo sebi ali drugim. V knjigi Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies\u00a0nam avtor Michael J. Bader poka\u017ee, kako so nenavadne fantazije pravzaprav nekaj najbolj normalnega, in kako so pravzaprav blizu sanjam; ni se jih treba bati, lahko jih razi\u0161\u010demo, interpretiramo kot simbole nezavednega, ki nam govorijo o na\u0161ih \u017eeljah in strahovih, ki niti niso nujno seksualne narave.<\/p>\n

Fantazije pove\u010dajo \u017eeljo po seksu<\/h2>\n

S feministko, ki sanjari o mi\u0161i\u010dastem posiljevalcu, ni ni\u010d narobe. Njena fantazija, ki je pravzaprav nasprotna vsemu, kar v normalnem \u017eivljenju sama zagovarja, je zgolj odraz njene \u017eelje, da bi se kdaj prepustila in ne bi imela vedno vsega pod nadzorom. Fantazije so koristne tudi druga\u010de; pove\u010dajo namre\u010d \u017eeljo po seksu in vzburjenje, pomagale pa naj bi celo pri depresiji. Ljudje, ki veliko fantazirajo, tudi veliko seksajo. \u010ce kdaj med seksom pomislite \u0161e na koga razen osebo, ki je pravkar z vami, naj vas ne grize slaba vest, ampak raje u\u017eivajte v dodatnem vzburjenju, ki ga misel prina\u0161a.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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